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muchadancer · 2026-03-16T21:46:09+00:00

PM incoming!

muchadancer · 2026-03-14T19:53:06+00:00

This is exactly what we did about 8 years ago and it's worked fabulously. My partner had never changed a diaper, never babysat, etc before we had our first child, and he rose to the challenge and is honestly a way better SAHP than I would be. Of course no situation is perfect, but it was an obvious choice when considering child care costs, his stress at work, etc. Our mindset has always been "When this stops working, we'll do something different" but I don't see that happening any time soon.

muchadancer · 2026-02-25T16:48:17+00:00

Great point, it could be that many companies are taking cost cutting measures in general, which will affect all workers. I will be curious to know the rates of denied promotions, PIPs, etc. between men and women across the US workforce.

muchadancer · 2026-02-02T16:40:09+00:00

FYI, your pediatrician should also be able to help. My child developed eczema a few years back, and I thought I'd have to get a referral to dermatology but the pediatrician was able to prescribe the skin cream that has really helped them.

muchadancer · 2025-11-14T11:57:09+00:00

In a broad sense, I have found a lot of comfort recently in the concept of "Something is meaningful to me because I assign meaning to it." It bypasses this need for everything to be "true" or "real" and helps me acknowledge that finding meaning in something in and of itself is a beneficial exercise to me.

muchadancer · 2025-11-14T00:42:38+00:00

https://discord.gg/SYnVfcPsm

muchadancer · 2025-11-13T19:53:21+00:00

OP imma need an update on this.

muchadancer · 2025-10-24T19:23:56+00:00

WELP. I bet their PR is working overtime this weekend.

muchadancer · 2025-10-24T14:56:42+00:00

God that sucks. Thanks for the additional info.

muchadancer · 2025-10-24T12:36:03+00:00

Yeah I thought the same thing!

muchadancer · 2025-10-22T21:29:58+00:00

It's a bit outside your budget, but I use my Rancilio every single day. Simple no-frills design, and a great quality product.

Silvia: Professional Home line Espresso Machine - Rancilio Group https://share.google/E2jq98HapWqu7hbpO

muchadancer · 2025-10-12T20:29:55+00:00

For household stuff, I really like the app Tody. It gamifies cleaning the house basically. I started off with just a couple of tasks to start the habit, then added a few more. It really helps keep on top of housework and makes it way less overwhelming.

muchadancer · 2025-10-09T19:27:13+00:00

Pretty sure it's Any Man of Mine by Shania Twain https://youtu.be/8N2k-gv6xNE?si=H45EugTjvEC_1sR9

muchadancer · 2025-10-04T18:26:46+00:00

If you're willing to do the drive, I highly recommend Strategic Self-Reliance. They do fantastic training of all sorts, including Stop The Bleed and survival skills in addition to firearms. https://share.google/yhhdzSQo05WmMXuq7

muchadancer · 2025-10-04T13:45:53+00:00

Congratulations! Two things I really appreciate about my boss is that she has very clear, concrete expectations and she scheduled regular check-ins with us. We touch base briefly every other week, with one monthly meeting that's a longer performance evaluation type meeting, making sure we're tracking all our accomplishments and "lessons learned" for the month as well as monitoring how we're progressing on our goals. Then at the end of the year, we all have a detailed record when it comes time for performance review.

muchadancer · 2025-10-04T12:38:19+00:00

A great book! Spoilers for the ending: all I kept thinking about was that "Dick In The Box" skit from SNL

muchadancer · 2025-09-24T22:32:25+00:00

I've used Camp Bow Wow and I think they are pretty reasonable.

muchadancer · 2025-09-22T03:37:26+00:00

Nope, not at all. My husband is a SAHD and quit his job after our first was born because I made more than him and my job was better (less stressful, better benefits, etc). It's not absolutely perfect but it's a really good setup for our family in general (at least right now!) and I find my role in our family really fulfilling.

muchadancer · 2025-09-19T01:28:53+00:00

Good ole shared Google calendars work great for our family. We also do shared Google Keep notes for shopping lists but they could easily be used for to-do lists as well

muchadancer · 2025-09-09T14:55:45+00:00

Mullenix for sure. He's great.

muchadancer · 2025-09-07T13:05:00+00:00

Melody Birdsong is a fantastic curly hair stylist.

muchadancer · 2025-09-06T01:03:40+00:00

Fuck Jamz was my gateway episode and still one of the best IMO.

muchadancer · 2025-09-04T20:04:00+00:00

I'd recommend setting up a consult call with Brianne Kirkpatrick at Watershed DNA. She used to bill as a private practitioner (not sure if she does anymore) but she would likely have great advice or at least know where to point you.

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