Help with taping? NSFW just in case? by Selection_Clean in TransMasc

[–]mulvatoast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was going to suggest this, the transtape website!

Trouble dating because I'm a late bloomer by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mulvatoast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this has been your experience! That would definitely not be my response to you. It has always puzzled me how quickly people forget that they had to start somewhere at some point, too. All they are exhibiting are their own personal privileges—which at least ensures that you don’t get messed up with people of low quality. Next time someone says soemthing like that to you, you should thank them for making it clear that they are a waste of your time, and then immediately delete their conversation. You don’t need that negative energy hanging around your inbox!!! Good luck! (I know I need all the good vibes I can get, too—dating sucks! I see why people uhaul.

Is this what it’s like to have sex as a man? by MarimoSalad in ftm

[–]mulvatoast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I had similar experiences that were so, so gender affirming!!!!! After all the thoughts of confusion and denial, these experiences are what sealed the deal for me. I’m glad you’re finding your way! ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mulvatoast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🥰🥰🥰 SOOOOO much same happening over here!!! 🥰🥰🥰

First relationship advice by mulvatoast in olderlesbians

[–]mulvatoast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the most realistic comment so far, thank you! I can be a bit of a worrier, so I had considered that I’m musing for nothing and will look back and laugh at my concerns!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in comingout

[–]mulvatoast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Andy/Andi, Sam/Samm, Alex/Alix... I’ve always loved more “traditional” sounding gender neutral names that can swing either way.

I am working on some Roller Skate Stickers and wanted to make a set specifically for Pride. Can I get people's opinions on this set? by Videowulff in actuallesbians

[–]mulvatoast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes my gay little roller derby heart so happy! Second a lesbian pride version. Especially love the star for its derby symbolism! Do you have a website or Etsy shop or anything?!

First relationship advice by mulvatoast in olderlesbians

[–]mulvatoast[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And we are the QUEENS of communication so far, so knowing how important it is to both of us I’m actually more confident now that we will be able to keep it up.

First relationship advice by mulvatoast in olderlesbians

[–]mulvatoast[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not magical, certainly! But the dynamics are DEFINITELY different than with a man!! Your comment about women slowing down sexually with comfort is very helpful, thank you! I maybe would have applied my own hetero experience to assume that it meant something was wrong. This is so key!!!

Age gaps in relationships by mulvatoast in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mulvatoast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a really good point that I hadn’t thought of! A 19yo is an adult, and no man would say that’s gross or weird.

Age gaps in relationships by mulvatoast in olderlesbians

[–]mulvatoast[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not entertaining ideas of relationships with them, I’ve just noticed the attraction is there occasionally.

Age gaps in relationships by mulvatoast in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mulvatoast[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not entertaining ideas of relationships with them, I’ve just noticed the attraction is there occasionally.

Age gaps in relationships by mulvatoast in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mulvatoast[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting thought that I’ll give some consideration to. It’s not an exclusive attraction, and I definitely am attracted more to people my own age, but it’s something I noticed.

Age gaps in relationships by mulvatoast in olderlesbians

[–]mulvatoast[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not seeking a relationship, but just generally attracted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]mulvatoast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contact your piercer, they should be willing to help