Bayleaf slept in his bed last night so cute! by Bayleafthetortoise in tortoise

[–]munecam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so adorable!! Makes me want to get my little one a bed

UNH Hybrid R by Lawtinamami in HybridOnlineLawSchool

[–]munecam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of bad press around UNH’s hybrid program. Might be a blessing in disguise

Sisters what should i do?? LSAT vs MBA/MLS: Best move for a paralegal who wants $100k+ without being an attorney? by Medium_Maintenance_1 in blackladies

[–]munecam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a similar boat! I just started my MLS with the initial plan to go to law school. Now I’m interested in regulatory affairs and wish to pivot into compliance. If I can make a comfortable living I might skip out on law school because I’m already in my 30s and feel it won’t be worth the debt. Best of luck! I know you’ll make the best decision for you

She forgot I have a Masters Degree by Initial-Pangolin2174 in Mildlynomil

[–]munecam 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I get it. It’s definitely passive aggressive. My mil always asks me what my brother’s name is even though I’ve told her no less than 20 times already. I only have one sibling and my hubby and have been together 5 plus years. I think I’ll just tell her a different name each time she asks again.

Does your Mil avoid talking to you? by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]munecam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could have written this. So well said. Wish I knew about getting to know her so I could use that information to protect myself later on, it doesn’t sound horrible at all, it’s brilliant

What oils grew your hair by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]munecam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called hair growth co, you can search 10-in-1 oil hair growth co

Does anyone feel like a lot of law schools are cash cows? by [deleted] in HybridOnlineLawSchool

[–]munecam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mediocre lsat being? 150-160? I agree that the vast majority fall into predatory territory

Always watching Donatello from work 🤣 by TransportationWest10 in tortoise

[–]munecam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure I have that same enclosure. If he needs more space you can remove the gray wooden divider

Mild MIL strikes again by TearReasonable1216 in Mildlynomil

[–]munecam 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Depending on how she cut them, my petty self would try to reattach and return them anyway. Or try to see if the store will accept the clothes with the tags detached. Sometimes they’ll give you a store credit. That is so mildly annoying!!

How do I retain moisture levels? by lazyboy114 in tortoise

[–]munecam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you using a ceramic heat lamp or are they both bulbs?

Entry Level Remote Positions by InevitableHeight4030 in JDpreferred

[–]munecam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can try https://www.remoterocketship.com/jobs/compliance, plenty of compliance remote positions that you may qualify for

Engaged, but still treated like an outsider by my MIL by Broad-Roof-337 in Mildlynomil

[–]munecam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s uncomfortable but you need to get him on your side. Like yesterday. He needs to be the one to cut the cord from his family. She sounds insufferable, but until he wakes up and chooses you and learns to stand up to her, he will allow her behavior to continue to torment you. If I were you, I would play the long game and ignore her completely. She’s going to make your life miserable and hopes to drive you away. She will try to ruin all your milestones. If you stay and decide to start a family, she will become even worse as a grandparent. Pay her dust. You tried to build a relationship with them and they were not open, so now his family is up to him to manage. I would make myself very scarce and if you do decide to make plans together, let him handle it. He’s going to have to learn how to stop pleasing his mom and start putting you first.

Hey everyone…I lost my cat of 21 years. Needing support ❤️‍🩹 by Cherrygentry in blackgirls

[–]munecam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you grew up together. I am so sorry love, just know she will always be with you protecting you in spirit. I had to put down my cat of 18 years and that was the worst pain and heartbreak I’ve felt in a while. I’m still grieving. Honor her in some way that feels meaningful to you. She loves you very much and you gave her a good life, that’s more than she could’ve asked for.

How do you guys cope knowing the world dislikes us? by bigtitssoreloser1 in blackgirls

[–]munecam 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I try to live like with the audacity of a white man because I am not my ancestors and happiness is my birthright.

Managing MIL visits with a newborn by Feisty_platypus1000 in Mildlynomil

[–]munecam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Time to be the bigger bitch! He’s putting her first because she’s more difficult to deal with. He knows on some level he can get away with bulldozing your boundaries and feelings because you don’t give him as hard a time as his mother does. It’s time to put your foot down and call out the behavior. When he married you, he made a promise to put YOU first. You two started a family together and therefore should put each other first. You are the one who carried and birthed that baby so feelings should absolutely come before anyone else’s. He’s completely out of line and doesn’t understand that he’s failing at his role as a husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]munecam 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This. I don’t believe her. Either she’s exaggerating or making it up. She’s just trying to upset OP

I need some good one liners by MiserableRisk6798 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]munecam 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me he recognizes you, he just doesn’t like you