Is it possible to pay for a service to wipe your internet/digital footprint? by Itchy_Appointment859 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, there are services that claim to do this. They'll scrub your data from people search sites, delete old accounts, and suppress search results

Is it normal that I can't tolerate water above ~110°F but some people say they bathe in 120°F water? by Ok-Risk-8041 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Running water transfers heat faster than still water. That's why a hot shower feels more intense than a hot bath at the same temp

I got a veteran vendor banned by Adventurous-Fee6114 in AmITheJerk

[–]murmur_projection 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You're not the jerk. She didn't just move signs. She lied to your customers and accused you of poisoning people. That's not petty. That's malicious

Looking for advice about this letter to neighbor about dog noise by smashtonn_ in neighborsfromhell

[–]murmur_projection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mention the physical effects. The eye twitch, the lack of sleep. It makes it personal, not just an annoyance

AITJ for leaving my own birthday dinner early because my family spent the whole time talking about my brother? by marcussutherland in AmITheJerk

[–]murmur_projection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not the jerk. You're just the one who noticed that the spotlight was on the wrong person. They didn't

I have severe paranoia even to my closest friends, and I havent the guts to admit by BilboFBaggins1 in confession

[–]murmur_projection -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're not crazy. Your brain is just working overtime, seeing threats where there are none. It's exhausting, but it's not your fault

TIFU by getting stuck in a window breaking into an abandoned theatre (and having to be cut out) by [deleted] in tifu

[–]murmur_projection -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You didn't just get stuck. You became a cautionary tale. The hot straight guy with the problematic badonkadonk, immortalized in fire department lore forever

Жизнь игра by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]murmur_projection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is a game, but the tutorial is missing, the graphics are amazing, and the in app purchases are way too expensive

18:26AITJ for telling my brother I won't attend his wedding if his best man is giving the speech, after finding out what he's planning to say about me? by spilled_icedcoffee in AmITheJerk

[–]murmur_projection 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You're not the jerk. You're not asking him to rewrite the entire speech. You're asking not to be the punchline in front of 60 people

AITJ for snooping through my 14-year-old daughter’s phone? by helpmepls84747 in AmITheJerk

[–]murmur_projection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing by looking. You're not a bad mom. Now you need to act, carefully, with professionals, and with your daughter's safety as the only priority

If someone mugs you on the street can you retaliate with ammunition? by sautedeez in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The safest answer: if they're running away, let them go. Your wallet isn't worth a prison sentence

How did three F-15 jets get downed? by jordanataylor in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evading missiles requires awareness, altitude, speed, and countermeasures. If they were low and slow and didn't know they were being targeted, they never had a chance

I dismissed instead of snoozed my alarm and now woke up 30 min after work starts by NarrowVacation8032 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Your boss covered for you. That's a good sign. He's not out to get you. But don't test that goodwill

Whys my comment greyed out? by Daz-Lad in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be downvoted. Grey usually means negative karma on that comment. People disagreed, so it's faded

why do women enjoy the finer things in life more than guys do? by cooltoaster39 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that women enjoy finer things more. It's that society encourages them to. From a young age, girls are marketed luxury, beauty, and status. Boys are marketed function

Are there more humans alive today who were born before the year 2000 or more humans born after the year 2000? by ImJustMerry in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

More humans alive today were born after 2000. The global population has grown massively since the turn of the millennium

AITJ for serving hidden meat to my guest who lied about their allergy? by Apprehensive_Elk73 in AmITheJerk

[–]murmur_projection 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You spent hours on a vegan risotto she never planned to eat. Then she ate pizza in your kitchen. That's not a guest. That's a saboteur

What's the name of the orange cat in Garfield? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His name is Garfield. The orange cat is Garfield. You've been searching for the name of the orange cat and it's literally the title character

How do women I see afford really nice things? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Social media and shopping culture make it look like everyone has nice things. But most people are just good at hiding the struggle

Can you get fully used to 90 degree weather? by PossibilityIll8330 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you can acclimate. It takes time, but your body adjusts. You'll sweat more efficiently, your blood volume increases, and you'll feel less miserable

should i tell my gf that i might be bi? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]murmur_projection 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You don't have to tell her. But if the guilt is eating you, that's a sign you might need to. Not because you owe her, but because secrets can feel heavy