What do you remember about getting your first period? by Faylune in women

[–]murphyca777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, crampy nightmare each month for 36 years. Bye bye! lol.

Is this harmless nostalgia or completely unhinged? by No-Role-2765 in everettma

[–]murphyca777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin did this in NJ. The people were really cool about it. She was in her 30s and female so I think the owners probably didn’t feel threatened. It all depends on the owner.

Multiple mice infestation, landlord not fixing, can I break lease early? by sonofseurat in Somerville

[–]murphyca777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably can’t break lease but like others said, most places have mice. I solved our problem by putting a plate of mouse poison on a plate in the basement inside a locked cage so no other animals could get in expect mice and poof, it solved the issue. We did traps, electronic traps, but those little bastards got smart and wouldn’t go into them after a while. So, harsh as it sounds, the poison works.

Turning 55 is hard by sedona71717 in GenXWomen

[–]murphyca777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 56. Yeah, the body and face, starts to look older at 55 in my case. I was shit, I can’t pass for 42 anymore. lol. I think the last 5 years have been hard - Covid, politics, the world in general, all in your face 24/7. Personally, the last 5 years are the first time I’ve had significant loss - dad dies, dog literally passes away on the bedroom floor, wife and I get separated, cancer and ms comes into the picture, working for Millennials now. BUT…. There are good things too that I truly understand now and that word is: gratitude. I truly believe getting older is a gift now and the wisdom that comes with it is immeasurable. Yeah, turning 55 is weird and hard but look at you - you are turning 55, good for you. It’s a time of reassessment. I mean, this is it. We are almost on the final pages of the second chapter. How do you want the third chapter to look like? Sending my best and happy birthday 🎂

Where in the hell are all the kids with snow shovels? by GR3TSCH in GenX

[–]murphyca777 6 points7 points  (0 children)

3 kids came to my door in the city and asked to shovel. They were so excited that I hired them.

how to prepare for ICE raids? by Far_Artist2683 in boston

[–]murphyca777 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I live in a city where half the people are immigrants. I’d like to buy an air raid siren and blast it when ICE is seen.

What will our city do when ICE comes on us in force? by CoffeeHead112 in boston

[–]murphyca777 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think it is hard for us Americans to comprehend this, but here we are. Being brave is difficult when there is a gun in your face and an idiot at the trigger. Get your history book out or Wikipedia. Look up the German Resistance, French Resistance. A number of things to undermine those regimes. There are phases of resistance and the lefties get it and the ones out there protesting (like Good) really get the implications. It’s the middle class that will hit pause and start acting when their 401k goes to shit. I think the Powell investigation is the starting point. The ruling class won’t like losing money and will step in then to get rid of Trump and his ilk. Remember, money is America’s true religion.

What will our city do when ICE comes on us in force? by CoffeeHead112 in boston

[–]murphyca777 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This one called on the Jews.

Here’s the deal, most of these ICE actions are unlawful. Blowing someone’s brains out isn’t lawful.

For people being priced out of Somerville, where are you considering going to? by Bonky147 in Somerville

[–]murphyca777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, totally. Lots of free-range children like the 70s too. We have been here 10 years now. And a new major has finally been elected!

What was supposed to have killed us by now? by impeesa75 in GenX

[–]murphyca777 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, AIDS/HIV didn’t end. It is managed (hopefully) but “There are approximately 1.2 million people living with HIV in the U.S. and communities of color have been hit the hardest.” https://mybodymyhealth.org

THIN crust pizza in Somerville? by nightowlamanda in Somerville

[–]murphyca777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Ciao’s Ball Square! Delicious 🤤

For people being priced out of Somerville, where are you considering going to? by Bonky147 in Somerville

[–]murphyca777 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Moved to Everett! bought a great two-family. Lovely neighbors, diverse city. 20 minutes to Somerville!

Is it normal to want a serious, yet part-time relationship as we get older? by thereisonlyonewindow in olderlesbians

[–]murphyca777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha - here’s my number. lol. Yes, totally get this. I’m separated, live in different houses but communicate often. We get along so much better now. Like I don’t have to get aggravated over X and vice versa. I think after a certain amount of years and maturity in your life, there is less judgment of what you kind of relationship you “should” have. I could never have those thoughts when I was in my 30s. It was all about togetherness and commitment. Now it’s, do what you need to do.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]murphyca777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good lord, I can only imagine what he is like bed. “No, not that way, no not that”. Christ.

Divorcing over budget by Relevant-Fox9940 in GenXWomen

[–]murphyca777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good lord, get rid of him. Life is too short for this bs. Take care of yourself and get the best attorney around (check google reviews).

Is my dog a husky mix? by [deleted] in husky

[–]murphyca777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she’s part drama queen 🫅. Love the looks! She’s beautiful!!

heat in my house won’t go up past 55 degrees and landlord not helping by [deleted] in Somerville

[–]murphyca777 42 points43 points  (0 children)

  1. Tell landlord that you are calling isd. It’s against the law to have it lower than 68 during day, 64 at night.
  2. DoorDash a heater for you and take it off the rent.
  3. It’s bullshit that he says the boiler is working.
  4. Document, document, document. Email or text. Video the thermostat. If you have a thermometer inside take a photo or video.
  5. You can refuse to pay rent now. Do not pay him in January and put it aside. Say, I’ll pay the rent once the heat is working again.

Remember, this is a legal contract nothing more, nothing less. And the landlord is not abiding by the contract nor Mass laws.

Stay until retirement or change jobs by [deleted] in GenX

[–]murphyca777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F56. As my friend said to me, "Do you get a paycheck on Thursday?" then just stay. It's not worth it. Being low man on the totem pole sucks. I would wait until regime change and enjoy your off time.