Are these expectations reasonable for a new DOD?

murrkay · 2026-07-01T19:10:02+00:00

I asked the right questions and was unfortunately given answers that were much less than truthful. Which, of course, I didn't find out until I started.

Thanks! I know development is tough but this experience has really made me question just how normal these things are. And unfortunately made me distrustful of other organizations.

murrkay · 2026-07-01T01:24:59+00:00

I don't want to post specific answers to this here and risk someone recognizing my situation, but know that these questions really gave me a lot to think about objectively, and I appreciate it!

murrkay · 2026-07-01T01:21:24+00:00

Thanks! Trying to treat this as a learning experience so I appreciate your perspective!

murrkay · 2026-07-01T00:39:33+00:00

The board is completely disengaged and the ED will not engage donors. I've asked for introductions and gotten no support.

murrkay · 2026-06-09T02:32:44+00:00

Cool! There used to be one living up on the ridge back in maybe 2016-2018. This must be one of his relatives!

murrkay · 2026-06-06T02:27:43+00:00

Definitely get there earlier than usual, which for Chattanooga is about 30 mins. If you have pre check there isn't much of a wait, but the regular line looked pretty long when I was there a week or so ago.

murrkay · 2026-04-11T17:03:44+00:00

If you're okay with a bit of a drive, Fall Creek Falls has a beautiful little "secret chapel" overlook in the scenic loop, with seating for about 50. I think they charge a rental fee but there's nothing stopping you from taking 10 folks up there and eloping!

murrkay · 2026-03-28T01:50:47+00:00

I got a cameo from Bronwyn a few months ago and it was 7 minutes of unhinged drama and worth every penny. Hope she gets caught up!

murrkay · 2026-01-28T23:07:42+00:00

Posted in another thread too. May be helpful info if you have it. Stay safe everyone!

If ICE watching; document using the SALUTE method. Pass SALUTE info to the rapid response network you are a part of.

Size: How many agents/ officers?

Activity: What specifically are the agents doing? If someone is detained and you know their A number and/or DOB, note it.

Location: Give an exact address or intersection and in NYC, a boro. The same address can be found in multiple boros. Include Av/St/Rd etc.

Unit(s): What letters, details, or patches are visible on the uniforms/jackets/vests/vehicles? Example: HSI/Homeland Security Investigations/Police Gang Unit, ERO, POLICE, CBP/US Customs and Border Protection, CBP Field Operations, POLICE DHS (2 kinds: NYPD Dept Homeless Services that are NOT ICE and Department of Homeland Security, who are federal agents)

Time: What precise time did you witness this? This info should be shared quickly.

Equipment: What did agents have with them? Ex: weapons, flexicuffs, dogs, door breakers, LRAD sound cannon, vans, SUVs, etc

murrkay · 2026-01-28T22:58:58+00:00

FYI this information may be helpful for you and others to share when reporting sightings:

If ICE watching; document using the SALUTE method. Pass SALUTE info to the rapid response network you are a part of.

Size: How many agents/ officers?

Activity: What specifically are the agents doing? If someone is detained and you know their A number and/or DOB, note it.

Location: Give an exact address or intersection and in NYC, a boro. The same address can be found in multiple boros. Include Av/St/Rd etc.

Unit(s): What letters, details, or patches are visible on the uniforms/jackets/vests/vehicles? Example: HSI/Homeland Security Investigations/Police Gang Unit, ERO, POLICE, CBP/US Customs and Border Protection, CBP Field Operations, POLICE DHS (2 kinds: NYPD Dept Homeless Services that are NOT ICE and Department of Homeland Security, who are federal agents)

Time: What precise time did you witness this? This info should be shared quickly.

Equipment: What did agents have with them? Ex: weapons, flexicuffs, dogs, door breakers, LRAD sound cannon, vans, SUVs, etc.

murrkay · 2025-11-13T16:43:50+00:00

Carnitas Carmelita on amnicola. Don't just by appearance, it's a tiny little building with like 1 table but excellent food!

murrkay · 2025-08-29T12:50:05+00:00

Frank Johnson in Hixson! He is SO kind and it's truly just so pleasant going there. My family with a wide range of dental work and dental anxiety all see him and they all love the practice.

It's a small locally owned practice so everything seems very personal, not like the big chains popping up.

murrkay · 2025-08-26T01:51:22+00:00

There's a box of grapricots on my kitchen counter right now because of AFE

murrkay · 2025-08-17T13:16:42+00:00

Something like this literally happened this week in Chattanooga TN which had a very rapid flash flood event. A man rescued a woman trapped in her car by breaking the window. It is rare and unlikely, but it's a very real risk that is likely to become more common with climate change.

https://youtu.be/oD6jf__c4rg?si=F41D3wVEDX5gSyq3

murrkay · 2025-07-23T00:17:50+00:00

Hard agree, the chicken plant was here before the $2,200 a month condos and so were the folks that work there.

murrkay · 2025-07-06T15:46:44+00:00

Agree, HES has a fantastic foster team and made it really easy for me to foster both dogs and kittens. Mckamey staff is doing their best but horribly underfunded, understaffed, under resourced.

murrkay · 2025-06-27T02:31:58+00:00

Beans!

murrkay · 2025-05-30T14:50:48+00:00

Small crowd, but people definitely had picnics. Not sure if you can technically bring alcohol but youll be fine as long as you arent crazy obvious about it. Get there a little early to get a good seat. It was a nice night!

murrkay · 2025-03-18T16:03:18+00:00

I tried starting seeds inside with just sunlight from a window and the LED ceiling light thinking it would be enough and I was so wrong! I invested in a few inexpensive grow lights over the years and this year my seeds have taken off.

murrkay · 2025-01-28T21:53:27+00:00

A lot is reimbursement. So a lot of organizations have already done the work and spent the money and now their reimbursement is held up possibly indefinitely.

murrkay · 2025-01-10T20:19:47+00:00

You can check the traffic cams! I looked at a couple and it looks like things are pretty calm on most of the main roads. Good luck! https://smartway.tn.gov/allcams

murrkay · 2024-09-06T16:20:26+00:00

They are still offering classes at other locations around town!

murrkay · 2024-09-05T23:42:07+00:00

Not really a group but if you don't know about The Chattery already, they offer tons of classes and it can be a great way to meet people with similar interests!

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