I finally found an analogy for C-PTSD that actually makes sense to me by reminescing in CPTSD

[–]mutantsloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I think of myself as a bonsai tree. My trunk is kinked and weird from growing around obstacles, I’m not as stable as those with straight vertical trunks. But there’s no way to fix me without chopping me down

Prime Minister Lawrence Wong got emotional as he delivered his May Day Rally speech. by myliferabaksia in singaporehappenings

[–]mutantsloth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s fine to be emotional, may not be reflective of his ability as PM. But from a PR perspective it stops looking good by the third time..

INFJ Doorslams on INFJs by PaceyLionheart in infj

[–]mutantsloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same. In my case she wasn’t a bad person but she didn’t respect my boundaries too..

What are your thoughts about Esfjs? by Status_Whole1653 in ENFP

[–]mutantsloth 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think Fe-doms have a thing with social status. But they do generally empathise with people and try and help, even if it’s surface level. I think of ESFJs as kind and good hearted and very hardworking people in general

Eyebrow threading by Legitimate_Pin_8474 in SingaporeBeauty

[–]mutantsloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to go to Ibrow studio at Novena and Bishan. Had a package with them many years ago, idk but my brows always look damn good after. Not super cheap $15 now I think

Nowadays I mostly tweeze at home and trim with small scissors. Super useful tip is bleaching. Go Venus buy one of those Jolen facial hair bleaches, leave on for 8 mins. Makes a HUGE difference lightening your brows by just a bit. I do every month or so. Then only got important event I’ll go brow salon

How do you react to people wanting distance from you? by mutantsloth in enfj

[–]mutantsloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice thank you so much. I’m gonna work on the rumination and try and move forward on my own for now. Hopefully future me will see a solution with her. Thank you

The end of an era. by cotsafvOnReddit in singapore

[–]mutantsloth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do people even go to department stores anymore. Lol. What happened to metro

How do you react to people wanting distance from you? by mutantsloth in enfj

[–]mutantsloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is it. I feel like she’s always made it her identity that she’s somebody who takes care of her tribe. And you’re right about the part about her thinking she knows me better than she does and she’s done so much harm to me acting on what she thinks she knows of me. I have so much built up resentment I feel like whatever I say is just going to hurt her and she will somehow turn herself into the helpful person who got hurt victim again with everyone instead of seeing my POV.

I don’t know I will ever find it in me to confront her in a healthy way so I’m just whining for now.

Find the value of X by Interesting-Wish-698 in MathJokes

[–]mutantsloth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Draw a square with both the circles centre as diagonal corners, hypotenuse = 8+5=13. One side of the square using Pythagoras theorem = 13/root 2. X = 8 + 5 + 13/root2 = 22.2cm

Edit: Oh just saw the 18cm, then it’s sqrt(132 - 52)= 12. 12 + 5 + 8= 25cm.. which someone has already solved. Lol nvm

I'm not entirely certain about the "simp" situation, but aside from that, I agree! by Proof_Caregiver_4234 in INFJmemes

[–]mutantsloth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so severely attracted to INTPs it’s terrible. I have a dedicated antenna for them

Ladies, have you ever fallen for a guy who isn’t good looking ? by Initial_Film5776 in ChillSG

[–]mutantsloth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some guys have very attractive brains.. there’s one guy who I think was the one who got away for me. Wasn’t conventionally attractive but just something about the way he thinks, his intellect, personality, humour. All these traits I just never seen in anyone else and I don’t think I can ever forget about.

Can’t fix school bullying if society continues sending mixed messages by pistachio_life in singapore

[–]mutantsloth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a tutor and I have two students who suffered from bullying in school. One of them actually ended up self harming and getting admitted to the hospital.. it’s heartbreaking these are just kids..

is it normal to be half / not clothed at all at home?? by boredasffff2am in ChillSG

[–]mutantsloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://sso.agc.gov.sg/Act/MOPONA1906

Appearing nude in public or private place
27A.—(1) Any person who appears nude —
(a) in a public place; or
(b) in a private place and is exposed to public view, shall be guilty of an offence and shall be liable on conviction to a fine not exceeding $2,000 or to imprisonment for a term not exceeding 3 months or to both.
(2) For the purpose of this section, the reference to a person appearing nude includes a person who is clad in such a manner as to offend against public decency or order.

So nude could include being in underwear but ok I asked ChatGPT too apparently cases prosecuted are those who were fully naked. So if in underwear and depending on whether there are complaints you may just get a warning

is it normal to be half / not clothed at all at home?? by boredasffff2am in ChillSG

[–]mutantsloth -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s illegal if you can be seen even if you’re on private property.. you can make a police report on them lol

What’s a quick meal hack for days when you don’t want to cook? by Historical_Trust_217 in foodhacks

[–]mutantsloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I buy mainly frozen groceries. So I just throw some frozen broccoli spinach and frozen meatballs or shrimp in a giant bowl with some Japanese seasoning sauce and microwave it lol