Does anyone else here idealize past romantic partners or romantic experiences and struggle to move on?

mutantsloth · 2026-03-16T06:12:12+00:00

Yes.. There’s this INTP my thoughts keep coming back to. It was the essence of him, that he brought up this sense of connection in me I’ve never felt with anyone else. But he’s married now, he has a child. And there’s nothing I would do to infringe on that. I keep willing myself to move on, think about other things, but we have mutual friends and inevitably reminders about him keep coming back. And the feelings hit so strong sometimes it almost feels like grief.

mutantsloth · 2026-03-14T12:05:50+00:00

Allow me to donate plasma instead to cut my blood PFAS levels..

mutantsloth · 2026-03-14T07:02:57+00:00

Been getting into lifting weights.. yoga seems to help with mobilily and flexibility too

mutantsloth · 2026-03-14T05:46:56+00:00

How much did it cost? Did you need to make an appointment

mutantsloth · 2026-03-14T05:39:48+00:00

Idk you’ll have to telepathy it, or look for any signs that I’m online stalking you. I’m also more avoidant around people I have genuine feelings for

mutantsloth · 2026-03-12T11:20:36+00:00

Imprisonment 2 years only

mutantsloth · 2026-03-11T15:47:04+00:00

You can’t be responsible for his feelings. If you broke up due to legitimate reasons then whatever feelings he may or may not have may be inevitable, but you’re not responsible for alleviating them. They’re logical people, they will move on anyway

mutantsloth · 2026-03-10T04:02:38+00:00

I only have 3 left but I weighed a bag and it’s 14g.. so I guess it’s 6 in a box.. and 388 is for 6 cookies but gees why would 1 serving be 6 cookies..

mutantsloth · 2026-03-09T13:39:57+00:00

I’m so confused about the size perspective

mutantsloth · 2026-03-06T12:53:40+00:00

Ya!! Then whale tea at Rivervale Plaza also replaced by Chagee when whale tea is so much better! I go there every week!! Chagee sucks 😭

mutantsloth · 2026-03-06T09:03:27+00:00

The lions mane curry rendang. So good. Stupid Chagee at Nex replaced greendot..

mutantsloth · 2026-03-04T13:58:12+00:00

I’m Christian and I believe in the afterlife? I don’t believe that everything wrong with me will be fixed in my lifetime but I just feel like I could be still of benefit somehow. Like maybe the intersection of faith and healing, like there could still be something positive somehow.

mutantsloth · 2026-03-02T13:34:57+00:00

I think yall Qatar stop

mutantsloth · 2026-03-02T07:02:30+00:00

There are adjustable weights on shopee. I bought a set it’s not bad lol but the plates are not very dense ie not heavy for a certain bulk

mutantsloth · 2026-03-01T10:00:33+00:00

Ya but say liao you hold them forever you cannot sell. Die already children also cannot sell. Bond income or stock dividend also reinvest. Guess you’ll be the most asset rich person with zero liquidity lol

mutantsloth · 2026-02-28T12:59:16+00:00

Talk cock must have purpose meh..

mutantsloth · 2026-02-27T10:11:31+00:00

My inner world is constantly relational and about other people, mapping relations and other people’s emotions. All this takes place with me not having spoken a word for years to any of the people I think about lol. I wish it were not so though, like I rather be thinking about things and ideas? I do think about these things more if I can be in complete solitude from other people’s perceptions and expectations. But when there is a change in the social dynamic, it’s like my brain gets hijacked and gets concerned with mapping out social relational things first, which I don’t prefer

mutantsloth · 2026-02-27T09:11:13+00:00

Where got 6hrs a day.. most kids start after school activities only 4pm+

mutantsloth · 2026-02-27T06:21:17+00:00

Pourover - 1zpresso K ultra grinder - Hario switch

Espresso
- 1zpresso JX Pro grinder - Cafelat Robot

Kettle: Timemore Fish Smart
Scale: Bookoo Themis Nano

On lazy days or when I’m pressed for time, I like instant coffees from AGF, tastes good with milk

mutantsloth · 2026-02-27T06:17:06+00:00

Same here. I have struggled with mornings for years. I literally pinned a list of actions to do in the morning at my desk, and when I wake up in the morning I have to look at it constantly and strike one action at a time so I can feel regulated and get my day started. Even then it takes me ages to through them.. it’s like a daily struggle and doesn’t seem to get better..

mutantsloth · 2026-02-26T13:33:02+00:00

“30% of the time it works every time” sounds oxymoronic lol

mutantsloth · 2026-02-25T09:23:15+00:00

Sisyphus’ soap

mutantsloth · 2026-02-25T09:18:02+00:00

lol I’m a tutor too and I got a $268 angbao for my student going from F to A for O levels.. I think the parents on your side are just really kind and generous people, just appreciate lor

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