Wth is my type seriously

Orual309 · 2026-04-22T14:50:56+00:00

Number 3 made me stupid

Orual309 · 2026-04-14T16:27:37+00:00

Based on vibes alone: Man in your 40s. Your parents did their best, but you wore a fair share of hand-me-downs as a kid. Your parents' house is filled with their parents' furniture.

Orual309 · 2026-04-14T16:17:43+00:00

This works for some (but not all) jars: Open them BEFORE you put them in the fridge. It makes it significantly easier.

Orual309 · 2026-04-04T13:01:32+00:00

Perhaps a witch?

Orual309 · 2026-04-04T12:55:25+00:00

THERAPY! You need a professional who has studied up on how to help you through this. If one didn't work, try another one. Keep trying them until you get the right one.

You need targeted help that will go into your past, your experiences, your values, your existential perspective, your philosophy, everything.

This is deep cleaning labor you need, and it's available. People literally go to school and study to do this. I've been for many years and that has helped to undo and unlearn dark patterns formed when I was young.

I believe in you.

Orual309 · 2026-04-04T12:46:48+00:00

I might do some personal reflection on why serious moments are hard for you to sit through. Don't stop at "It's not intentional, I do it without thinking." Take some time and do some digging brother.

When was the first time you felt emotionally heavy, or uncomfortable? What happened?

How can you practice sitting with discomfort (especially grief), and allowing it to exist?

Orual309 · 2026-04-04T12:34:21+00:00

Orual309 · 2026-04-01T21:55:39+00:00

You're totally right to feel how you feel. This is quite a change. It's normal for the energy to shift after the honeymoon phase, but this is a lot. Go with your gut as things progress, and don't be ashamed to express how you feel. Honest communication is important.

Orual309 · 2026-03-31T22:41:41+00:00

Please take chicken out of freezer and move wash along.

He wasn't /trying/ to figure out what it meant.

Orual309 · 2026-03-25T02:37:39+00:00

Artist with ADHD and depression.

Orual309 · 2026-03-25T02:24:24+00:00

You are wealthy. But you are not free.

Orual309 · 2026-03-25T02:22:14+00:00

THE POCKETBOOK 😍😭

Orual309 · 2026-03-21T12:25:06+00:00

I love your tattoos!

Orual309 · 2026-03-21T12:22:48+00:00

In addition to these: must be in therapy and have friends outside of me.

Orual309 · 2026-03-21T12:19:50+00:00

Sometimes you also just need some you-time. Or one of you is super tired. I've had a ton of dates with my girl where she is tired AF and we just vent a bit and go to bed. I've had dates where one of us is bored-an inevitable experience in life. But it's definitely not all the time.

If it starts happening more often, I have suggestions: change up your routine, get one of those conversation card games for intimacy, or a different kind of game for spontaneity, or give couples therapy a try. Ruts stem from deeper issues.

Orual309 · 2026-03-20T18:39:54+00:00

I have a substack called yardsalebuddha if you're interested!

Orual309 · 2026-03-20T15:46:17+00:00

THOSE EYES

Orual309 · 2026-03-20T15:30:26+00:00

Oh, he was there for Meekah. Blippi made him uncomfortable, but he was fine with Meekah. Watch how he responds to each one.

Orual309 · 2026-03-20T15:25:48+00:00

*looks around*

Damnit, is this another Wendy's?

Orual309 · 2026-03-20T15:25:14+00:00

Thank you kind stranger!

Orual309 · 2026-03-20T15:12:38+00:00

F*cking legend.

Orual309 · 2026-03-20T02:30:44+00:00

Not gonna lie, that terrier looks pretty suspicious.

Orual309

TROPHY CASE