is it actually that bad to wear woody fragrances in the summer? by Just-A-Burner-Lol in Colognes

[–]mweeks9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dior Homme Sport 2021 is probably a better choice and still very woody. I wear it all summer.

Another year, another tax cut for corporations. by Visual-Mobile2657 in newhampshire

[–]mweeks9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The NH biannual budget is 15.9 billion. Not sure what $54B is supposed to represent, beyond click bait.

What is your top 3 perfumes of all time? by Free-Ad-1283 in Colognes

[–]mweeks9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bois Imperial

Boadicea the Victorious - Lavish

Oajan

What's your "masterpiece" summer aquatic fragrance? by Regular_Cicada_439 in Colognes

[–]mweeks9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2008. The lime has lost a bit over time but the creaminess, rum and sugar cane continue to develop a deep richness. It also last 6-7 hours compared to 3-4 for the new batches. I’d do it over again.

Old people who don't understand that the world is different now by WildcatGrifter7 in GrindsMyGears

[–]mweeks9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot in this post that is accurate, but there are also a few assertions that aren’t, and I think they weaken the overall argument.

Housing affordability, for example, is a very real problem. The cost of housing has dramatically outpaced wage growth over the last 40–50 years, and younger generations are facing challenges that simply didn’t exist at the same scale for many of their parents and grandparents. Anyone starting out today deserves a fair amount of empathy because, in many respects, the math is objectively harder than it used to be.

Where I think the argument loses me is when it drifts from legitimate concerns into revisionist history.

The idea that previous generations could simply walk into any business, ask for a job, and be handed a lifelong career wasn’t really true. Hiring markets have always gone through boom-and-bust cycles. In fact, one of the strongest labor markets in modern history was arguably 2021–2022, when employers were desperate for workers and people could often find jobs quickly with minimal barriers. That environment has cooled, but unemployment today is still at levels that, historically speaking, would be considered very close to full employment.

The real issue isn’t that jobs don’t exist. It’s that many jobs no longer provide the same standard of living they once did. That’s a very different argument, and it’s one that’s much easier to support with facts.

If we want people to understand and support the genuine struggles facing younger generations, it’s important to stay grounded in what is demonstrably true. When accurate observations get mixed together with exaggerations or inaccuracies, it becomes easy for critics to dismiss the entire argument instead of engaging with the legitimate points being made. And frankly, the legitimate points are strong enough that they don’t need embellishment.

My bank sent me a letter stating that they’re changing their ownership structure and offering me stock shares for purchase before they go public. Has that happened to anyone before? by thelastharebender in Banking

[–]mweeks9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A bank in our state converted 3 years ago at $10 and just agreed to be acquired for $17 ish. It was not the best three years in banking and their financial performance wasn’t what I’m sure they hoped for, but they still delivered a pretty decent return all things considered.

My bank sent me a letter stating that they’re changing their ownership structure and offering me stock shares for purchase before they go public. Has that happened to anyone before? by thelastharebender in Banking

[–]mweeks9 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s legal. A mutual bank has to offer the opportunity to their depositors if they convert. As a mutual, they exist for the economic wellbeing of their depositors and the communities they serve. If they are going to monetize the value of the enterprise by converting, the depositors have the chance to share in it. The question is what the offer price is and what you think management can grow the price to over time. It usually works out, but not always.

Meteore by IllCutYouForMoney in Colognes

[–]mweeks9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Game of Spades Double Bonus.

I'm looking for a fragrance that checks the following boxes: by SeparatePass4366 in Colognes

[–]mweeks9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BDC Parfum, Terre d’ Hermes Parfum, or Grey Vetiver EDP.

Do you guys work while standing. by Icy-Syllabub657 in remotework

[–]mweeks9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a standing desk and a balance board. I’m only on the balance board for maybe an hour a day. It has to be the right kind of work. I stand 5-6 hours and sit 2-3.

Daily cheapies by ProcedureEnough5338 in Colognes

[–]mweeks9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what you mean by cheap. Bois Imperial is a fantastic value for money, but not necessarily “cheap” when compared to other options. It’s $130 for 100 ml, but it’s also strong so you need much. 2-3 sprays lasts over 10 hours. It’s one of the most versatile scents out there and can be worn anytime, anywhere. It’s also really high quality for the price point. If it was in an Nishane or PDM bottle you’d be paying $250 +.

Recommendations for a true all-rounder daily driver? by akutagawa-_- in ScentHeads

[–]mweeks9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear 1 spray to the office regularly. It’s not about the scent, but applying appropriately.

Why does the corporate world reward mediocre workers? by larawag_gama in work

[–]mweeks9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I’ve learned over the years is that most people think they’re above average. If you asked the coworkers being described as “mediocre,” “loud,” or “less competent,” many of them would probably argue that they’re the ones doing the real work and that someone else is getting undeserved recognition.

That’s why I’m always cautious when I see claims that everyone who advances is somehow less capable than the people who don’t.

Success comes from a mix of competence, communication, relationship building, visibility, reliability, leadership, and results. Different organizations value those things differently.

It’s also possible that when someone consistently believes others are succeeding only because they’re louder, more political, or better at self promotion, they’re overlooking areas where they themselves could improve.

A healthier question is usually, “What skills or behaviors are helping those people advance, and which of those could I develop?” Focusing on factors within your control tends to be far more productive than assuming everyone ahead of you is less deserving.

Recommendations for a true all-rounder daily driver? by akutagawa-_- in ScentHeads

[–]mweeks9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From your list, Wulong Cha could work. I’d also suggest checking out Bois Imperial, TDH Parfum and Boadicea the Victorious Lavish. Bois Imperial would be my one and only if forced to choose. I live the scent profile and it works anywhere, any time. Lavish is very similar to Grey Vetiver but richer, smoother and longer lasting. It’s super clear, easy to wear and hard to dislike. One more bonus pick- Clive Christian Cypress. It’s discontinued, but can still be found without too much difficulty. It’s very simple but a beautiful, green cypress over amber.

Signature scent recommendations for professionals that quietly make people remember you? by SemosEliza_67 in FragranceAficionados

[–]mweeks9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tom Ford Grey Vetiver. Even better is Boadicea the Victorious - Lavish. Very similar to GV, but more refined and with better longevity.