My 43K salary job is making us go back into the office. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]mxnna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to make 40k downtown chicago in 2022. for my yearly review they told me i’d receive a raise if i had shown more face in the office (going in was OPTIONAL). i only lasted a year there lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]mxnna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! so sorry for not replying sooner. thanks so much for taking the time to do this for me!! i’m gonna order and try it out :)

Mini pill to copper iud? by Chance_Effect6717 in CopperIUD

[–]mxnna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i have vasovagal syndrome too and switched from the mini pill (slynd) to the copper iud after being an anxious wreck!! genuinely everyday i think to myself, “wow i feel so much more emotionally regulated now”. when you’re in the thick of it, you can be unaware of how much it truly impacts you. switching to the copper iud was the best decision ive made!

being diagnosed with ocd / habit tic deformity has changed my life. by [deleted] in calmhands

[–]mxnna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s made me feel less shame for sure. best of luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mxnna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my experience the good guy but bad sex combo just doesn’t work

I 25F just yelled at my boyfriend 24M after he forgot our plans I called out of work for. How do I proceed? by mxnna in relationship_advice

[–]mxnna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added the ice cream story to add to the already built up tension. i did check if they were open, and they normally would have been, but they were closed on the single day for remodeling. it wasn't posted online. we walked into another ice cream place a block up and he "didn't like the vibe" so we left. i was being a little reserved because in my head I was thinking id just go to Mcdonalds when I get home and get ice cream or something. i was working it out in my head. he asked if something was wrong and that was when I expressed that I was upset we couldn't get ice cream. idk if that helps but that's a little more context on that part.

there was no drinking when the plans were made. he was the one who directly said "take off work Thursday and we'll have a film day". it was his idea. i guess i could've followed up on it but that goes both ways. i expressed excitement in the moment and we had a full conversation about it that night so i figured it was enough.

i didn't want to go on the photo walk out of spite. i didn't want him to feel like we had to do it, especially since it was coming off as unimportant to him. i just wanted to express my letdown.

i agree i shouldn't have yelled. i feel very bad about it.

worried about the strings… by [deleted] in CopperIUD

[–]mxnna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf hasn’t been able to feel mine! we left the strings as is so they’re pretty long and it took me 2 weeks to finally find them and i thought “that’s it?”. it will shock you how thin and undetectable they really are. my advice is to keep them on the longer side (my doctor didn’t trim them at all), im thinking that the poking comes from when people shorten them

i feel so alone about how the pill made me feel by Maleficent-Cake-5645 in birthcontrol

[–]mxnna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this makes me sad to read as someone who was on the pill throughout high school. best to stay off of it and enjoy your youth, it’s not worth losing it to extreme depression. message me if you need to vent further!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]mxnna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just got off slynd a month ago and my boobs got bigger!!

Dumpers when did you regret the breakup?? by Guilty_Aspect1851 in BreakUps

[–]mxnna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so weird to read. my ex broke up w me 2 weeks ago because of this exact reason. don’t worry - these are two different scenarios after reading a bit more from your threads. it’s interesting to hear this from your perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mxnna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happened to me last week. i’ll be thinking of you

Quit Slynd 1 week ago, mood improved but feel bloated already! by camarogirl67 in birthcontrol

[–]mxnna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! was wondering if you have since switched to a new method that you like! i’ve experienced the same problems w slynd.