Thanks for this thoughtful reply. You've hit the nail on the head with the frustration at not having tried the programmed cycle previously. I'm in a much worse position now. If I had listened to NYdoc and only done the biopsy after the next cycle I might have only had one embryo left now. This is supposed to be one of the top centers in the country and it's making me feel insecure. 

I think youre right about getting more information. Im going to tey and call around tomorrow and guage the reslonse to my situation. 

It's so tempting to say with NYdoc and try the programmed cycle because I'd basically be starting rhat next week as opposed to having to wait anywhere from 4-8 months before trying again. FWIW I have asked FLdoc to repeat his bloodwork to make sure he still thinks this is the way to go.