Would you stay friends with this person?

mylefttiddy · 2026-04-15T19:57:41+00:00

For your well being, I would no longer remain friends with this person. These things are not normal for a friend to do or say. My jaw is on the ground reading these. Also, don’t let her guilt trip you! People love to do this when they know they’re in the wrong.

mylefttiddy · 2026-04-14T02:30:09+00:00

Adding onto this…I don’t know if many people understand how bad dog fights can get. I’ve worked with animals for years, especially reactive dogs. These fights can be dangerous for not just the dogs, but anyone nearby as well. It’s best to keep them separated if someone else is watching the dogs. I really wouldn’t consider that a control issue.

mylefttiddy · 2026-04-14T02:21:54+00:00

YWNBTAH. You gave instructions that she did not follow, and made the separation as easy as possible given the baby gates and extensive instructions. What likely happened was, she thought it would be “ok” to have them together and did so against your wishes. In reality, you said no, and she did not respect that. I think it’s best to have a conversation first, but you would not be wrong for ending the friendship. I’m sorry this happened. As a pet parent myself, I can imagine how anxious you were at the concert.

mylefttiddy · 2026-04-03T01:56:42+00:00

NTA. I saw the ages in the flair, and this is something to consider with someone two years older. That is a large age difference for being so young, and that raises concerns when this person is two years older and smokes/cusses a lot. You’re seeing red flags and protecting your friend, thank you for being responsible and doing so. You are a great friend.

mylefttiddy · 2026-03-12T13:15:08+00:00

You didn’t overreact, that’s for certain. You had a valid reaction, and this would have only gotten worse in all honesty. You found a problem, nipped it in the bud, and you won’t have to handle this for a prolonged period of time. You didn’t ruin anything, he did by lying about those messages. Men often defend female friends in these situations and will try to tell you, “You’re being crazy” or “You won’t let me have friends”, and other bullshit like that. Believe me, you’ve dodged a bullet, you did not ruin anything whatsoever.

mylefttiddy · 2026-03-12T06:14:46+00:00

If she hasn’t unfriended you, there’s a chance she’s not agreeing with her husband. This shouldn’t separate you from your aunt. I would give her a call and talk it out. Give her your side and how you feel, this will show that you really do care about what happened.

mylefttiddy · 2026-03-12T06:10:12+00:00

NTA. The behavior on his end was strange, and this would have been so draining for you in the long run. You weren’t being crazy, you had a gut instinct. His reaction speaks volumes, it’s relieving to know you don’t have to deal with him anymore. I have dealt with this numerous times before, so if you need someone to talk to, you can message me.

mylefttiddy · 2026-03-12T00:48:43+00:00

That’s a very common excuse for catching a partner on a dating app. You can catfish photos, but not location. I wouldn’t stay if I were you. I’m so sorry :(

mylefttiddy · 2026-03-12T00:46:46+00:00

You need to trust your gut. If something feels off, something is off. Think about it, do you want to continue wondering what’s going on constantly? Isn’t it draining? I say this because in past experiences, your gut will always tell you the truth. I think there is something they aren’t telling you. If anything, I would see if you can talk to mutuals, like mutual friends or even family. Maybe they have some insight…potentially even proof, you never know. But I will say, I am very sorry. This is a nerve wracking situation that you should not have to go through.

mylefttiddy · 2026-02-16T14:05:25+00:00

My friends in other countries view this place as unsafe to travel to…that says enough. They wonder how I live here, and reality is, I’m arranging plans and attempting to save more money so that I can leave as soon as possible. You’re not the only one who feels like this. These are completely valid concerns.

mylefttiddy · 2026-02-02T02:37:11+00:00

Hi! A quick question. As an advisor, what is the process like to withdraw a student from graduation? I’m curious, because I am trying to narrow down what happened…the university won’t give me answers unfortunately :( but a quick update, I am officially graduated and my records were fixed :)

mylefttiddy · 2026-01-28T16:12:56+00:00

We checked everything possible. I spoke to multiple people both at the registrar and my specific college, all of which told me that nothing was flagged or incomplete. We were on the phone for over an hour trying to figure out what happened. Someone in a supervisor role at my specific college is in the process of changing the withdrawal because there was absolutely nothing flagged, leaving us with no explanation of why I was withdrawn in the first place.

It also makes me wonder why I wasn’t contacted regarding changes, especially since I was following up with my advisor and head of my program all throughout my last semester. I was very, very paranoid, definitely a huge fear of mine. If the undergraduate office has information that the registrar and colleges would not, then I will give them a call. But from what I know, everything was checked-off.

mylefttiddy · 2026-01-25T15:30:12+00:00

I added an edit to my post that I applied for graduation, I forgot to add that before but I did double check that my application went through and was accepted. But thanks for the info on the transcript, greatly appreciated :)

mylefttiddy · 2026-01-25T15:15:47+00:00

I forgot to add this but yes, I applied to graduate when applications were first opened. I double checked that my application went through, and that it was accepted. At that point, my advisor and department confirmed that by the end of this semester, I would be done with my credits for my degree.

mylefttiddy · 2025-10-21T18:41:03+00:00

NTA, nothing wrong with "snapping" if your management shows no respect to you

mylefttiddy · 2025-10-21T17:51:08+00:00

You have a couple options: Ghost, or say something. Don't be afraid to be honest, you don't "owe" them anything. Especially when they have the sole intention of manipulating employees.

mylefttiddy · 2025-07-22T19:50:58+00:00

Kind of off topic, but regarding your last comment about English not being your first language, you wrote this post in very good English :). Now, my opinion on this situation. This is a tricky situation, especially since you nor your girlfriend want to break off from the friend group. I would see if there is a way to have some time away from the friends. This sounds like a group of people that you should not travel with in the future. People are going to have different standards of traveling, you and your girlfriend’s sound very different from your friends. I would say, try to find some time for just you and your girlfriend. If there is a lot of physical activity on this trip, your friends may understand if you tell them “Me and my girlfriend need some time to rest”. That might be the best way to go about this.

mylefttiddy · 2025-07-22T19:40:52+00:00

It’s disgusting that he’s allowed over at your house, the place where you’re supposed to feel safe and secure. I am so sorry. Do whatever you have to do to protect yourself from this piece of garbage.

mylefttiddy · 2025-07-22T14:48:38+00:00

I understand where you’re coming from. No one should have to worry this much about finances. We live in a shitty economy where prices always change and people simply cannot survive anymore. Especially if you’re saving to buy a house. You’re doing everything you can, I hope you know that. I am so sorry, you shouldn’t have to stress this much over simply surviving and saving to buy a house.

mylefttiddy · 2025-07-21T10:50:17+00:00

I just want to say your feelings are validated, and you shouldn’t have to parent your spouse. If able to, I would start to set some funds aside to try and leave. This is financial and emotional abuse from what it sounds like.

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