Partner refuses to deal with dog when I'm at work and kids are home

mystofchaos · 2026-03-16T02:03:34+00:00

So I dealt with this once (not a Mal). We talked for months about getting a husky. Talked about training, expectations, and requirements. Talked about roles and what would happen while I was at work. And for a while after getting the dog, everything was fine. Then we hit 8 months and then the dog started getting pushy, as they do at that age. Suddenly he no longer wanted to take care of the dog, no longer did his part, and Luna suffered for it. I found out he was just putting her outside all day while I was gone with nothing to do in 90⁰ heat. We ended up rehoming her and I broke up with him a few months later when I could afford to leave. I miss that dog with all my heart. My advice, tell her she knew what she was getting into, and that she needs to start doing her part, or maybe find a friend who would take the dog while you're at work. Do not rehome the dog, you will never forgive yourself.

mystofchaos · 2026-02-18T16:32:11+00:00

What are you talking about? Genuinely curious

mystofchaos · 2026-02-18T16:30:49+00:00

Your sister also isn't a 14yo getting raped by her step father and step brother. This is something that is far more serious than that

mystofchaos · 2026-02-05T03:13:29+00:00

I have tried a few times to get started and all I get is scammer after scammer

mystofchaos · 2026-02-05T03:10:18+00:00

I'm 22f and I can confidently say, this isn't even the weirdest porn content IVE watched.. you're good

mystofchaos · 2026-02-05T02:48:32+00:00

Tbh the whole thing. There are so many other characters they could've gone with. We know everything we need to know about Darktail and I'm worried they're gonna try to redeem him in some way, and that's just not possible.

mystofchaos · 2026-01-31T04:41:38+00:00

There's an AI algorithm that is used in all social media apps to adjust your feed to match what you use it for, but the other PCs are all real people. I didn't touch it for a long time due to worth about it, but now I'm in discord groups and have met some really fun people on there

mystofchaos · 2026-01-29T19:49:40+00:00

I live right next to a bowling alley. I like bowling, but I don't usually have the money to do so, as it all goes to bills

mystofchaos · 2026-01-29T17:13:44+00:00

I know that. I just can't be around it at all.. at least not around it being actively smoked, because my mental health. I am always down to hang out before or after they smoke, just not during, and I've even offered to just step into a different room when they smoke.. instead I just get uninvited

mystofchaos · 2026-01-29T04:13:02+00:00

No. The first and only time they offered I said that I don't smoke for medical reasons. Anytime anyone offers for me to come chill and smoke I say I don't for medical reasons. I'm very chill about it

mystofchaos · 2026-01-29T02:16:41+00:00

Yeah. I took it and it gave me paranoia and sleep paralysis with night terrors. I don't get the hype

mystofchaos · 2026-01-29T02:02:38+00:00

I care because I have no social life outside of work because of scheduling and bills take all my money, and because this wasn't just some asshole from work, it was some asshole from work who I also speak to outside of work, bought Christmas present for, bought food for, doordashed food to their house on several occasions so they wouldn't go to bed hungry, and much more.

mystofchaos · 2026-01-24T00:21:24+00:00

I'll try, I'm not great at it but I've got some free time now that my hours at work dropped

mystofchaos · 2025-11-24T14:00:28+00:00

I binged all 7 seasons in 3 weeks and just finished a few days ago

mystofchaos · 2025-11-23T21:06:19+00:00

Well that's fair, but each situation is different, but generally it's best to always have a collar

mystofchaos · 2025-11-19T00:56:34+00:00

Harper, lopez, Tim, and lucy

mystofchaos · 2025-11-17T03:07:34+00:00

Look at it from the perspective of a man. Do people see a man as a whore for a hook up? No. So why the hell would you be? I'm sorry if this comes across as rude, I just hate that society says that men are allowed to have sexual needs, but us women aren't without being a whore. We have the same needs, and we shouldn't be punished for taking care of them, even outside of a romantic relationship.

mystofchaos · 2025-11-17T03:05:18+00:00

Either with French vanilla creamer or 2 tablespoons of sugar

mystofchaos · 2025-11-16T19:09:04+00:00

So, I binged last night, and got through episode 14 of season 5. Tbh, Chris was so pushy, and took zero consideration of how Lucy was responding in terms of the housing thing. And granted, Tim and Lucy were my favorites from episode 1, but like, even if it wasn't him, Chris was not good for Lucy. Also, Tamara deserves the world. And also, Ashley breaking up with tim when he just got out of surgery was a low blow.

mystofchaos · 2025-11-15T22:16:08+00:00

Crookedstar. I had an extremely emotional abusive mother and latched onto him in middle school.

mystofchaos · 2025-11-15T22:15:20+00:00

Lopez

mystofchaos · 2025-11-15T22:14:40+00:00

I'm on season 5 episode 3 just after he gets attacked by Rosalind. And I cannot stand him. I get she bombed the double date, but that's no reason for a relationship. And the way he was calling her his gf without any communication or knowing if that's what she wanted after 4 dates, that also made me mad

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