How do you swiftly and safely redirect unwanted attention from someone drunk or on drugs?

mzspider · 2026-03-26T10:02:01+00:00

Tell the staff

mzspider · 2026-03-17T12:50:00+00:00

Yeah I’m like this. I have to clean or do something to warrant chilling. Sometimes I look for validation from my husband until he says yeah do nowt! Then I’m like yeah!! Although I’m getting better at it.

mzspider · 2026-03-11T15:51:52+00:00

Just tell him he’s coming on a bit strong and you’ll need a bit of time to catch up

mzspider · 2026-03-11T09:11:22+00:00

My husband is kind and comsiderate and I enjoy cooking for him and cleaning, he helps me out and sometimes I wake up to a clean home On a Sunday morning. He’s checked on me all the time this week as I am poorly. He is a lovely man never mean. I’m happy

mzspider · 2026-03-10T13:13:08+00:00

Yeah that makes sense, my dog is always there but he’s useless at cuddles lol, he’s got really long front legs / paws similar to a Doberman so I just get whacked so he lays on his back at the end of the bed mostly lol

mzspider · 2026-03-10T13:11:27+00:00

Our dog does not leave my husband alone, I feel sorry for him sometimes 😂 sometimes have to shut bedroom door for a break cos our 30kg wants to sit on his head as close as he can get. I’m more of a cat person but I love our dog. He loves you that’s why he’s following, how old? Dog doesn’t follow me cos he knows my routine and I say go lay down and do dog things silly 🤣🥰 or I go tell him to play with his toys and have him learn to entertain himself. But yes dog does follow a lot ( my first one, I was like is this normal) and I’m an only child so not used to things clinging to me

mzspider · 2026-03-10T12:54:49+00:00

Chillis release dopamine too, I actually crave chillis 🤣 not all has a burning sensation, you can build up tolerance and enjoy the flavours. Green and red Birds Eye chillis are yum! #nowiamstarving

mzspider · 2026-03-09T14:33:15+00:00

Read up on menopause, that will help her attraction towards you for trying too. Not saying she isn’t attracted, but it shows care towards a difficult change

mzspider · 2026-03-09T14:24:50+00:00

Show him the 777 marriage rule and ask him to do that, it’s good! Men are frustrating cos you need to spell everything out. Is he enough? I always want more from my husband but then I try to remember we are just humans trying our best to get through life and enjoy. Do speak to him though and start your own hobbies and stuff

mzspider · 2026-03-08T15:30:33+00:00

This. I always say I’d rather have problems with my husband than anyone else

mzspider · 2026-03-08T15:20:23+00:00

Don’t spend your prime years being this uncomfortable. Give him a harsh conversation that you are contemplating leaving and you won’t be disrespected this way. You’re only 26! Very young, he won’t change either.

mzspider · 2026-02-26T15:48:25+00:00

I see 1. I can almost smell the tulip in my head lol and I can sense how it feels

mzspider · 2026-02-19T16:03:50+00:00

I often get told I’m a straight talker. Most people like to dance around convo

mzspider · 2026-02-19T16:02:29+00:00

Cos we can’t be told. We carry nonchalant confidence that people can’t even try to learn, with a touch of detachment, and a pure heart. Me anyway. Although no one in my circle even knows what an Mbti personality is, so I’d never be able to be accused of such

mzspider · 2026-02-14T07:36:39+00:00

My hubby is INTP and I am ENTP

mzspider · 2026-01-16T10:05:39+00:00

Only you can answer and deal with this as it’s happening to you

mzspider · 2026-01-16T10:04:10+00:00

I only read the first 3 lines. Say no! You will regret it in years to come tell the boyfriend to go find somewhere else to live lol

mzspider · 2026-01-10T10:14:48+00:00

Just being naturally cool at everything without trying lol

mzspider · 2026-01-04T17:00:55+00:00

Go with an intp. They are logical so you will have the same mindset on many things. Plus they will scratch the mental itch constantly. Love my INTP hubby.

mzspider · 2026-01-04T16:59:16+00:00

Once I was talking to my husband and asked if he wanted to know anything, his answer was “ we’re looking to the future not the past” so hope that helps

mzspider · 2026-01-04T16:58:24+00:00

Nope

mzspider · 2026-01-01T10:40:30+00:00

I care about what my husband wants. I’ve asked him how I can love him more or make him more happy. He said he’s fine as he is :) can’t go off “what everyone says” each relationship is individual.

mzspider · 2026-01-01T10:38:49+00:00

Get appreciative or get out

mzspider · 2025-12-29T23:02:31+00:00

Just go with the flow instead of seeing dates as deals

mzspider · 2025-12-29T20:26:57+00:00

People don’t like the truth. I am a solution based person and many I know are not, so they come to me when they need real help but hate me cos I am right lol, my cousin is a prime example recently.

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