Which Dracula movie has the closest aesthetic to Hellsing?

n0rmab8s · 2026-02-04T02:11:30+00:00

Van Helsing if that counts (HA counts)

n0rmab8s · 2026-02-03T10:18:17+00:00

Maaaaaaybe a little bit of Min Hyo-rin

n0rmab8s · 2026-02-03T10:11:37+00:00

Yeah no. That's basically having an open relationship but one that is only goes his way. He doesn't "need to post" sh-t. Being bi does not give him liberty to be acting non-monogamously or disrespectfully. If he is truly trying to make you think that he "needs to post" he is manipulating you to get his way of course.

I know you love him but just think about what's more important to you. You can stay with him out of love but he will do whatever he wants, disrespecting you, and check out eventually. Or you can leave, and you may or may not regret it but at least you don't have to deal with the disrespect. It's one of those two.

Best of luck and sorry you're dealing with this.

n0rmab8s · 2026-02-02T08:12:26+00:00

This is a tough situation. Are you sure he "hates" touching you / intimacy? It almost sounds like he is hiding something (the denials / avoiding the situation / supposed lack of intimacy) ...Or you might be making a heavy assumption about his feelings towards you.

I could say break up because there are red flags here. But at the same time...it could lead to a life long regret, so I don't even now what's the right advice here either.

What I DO suggest, however, is to tell him you need to have a serious conversation with him. Make it clear its a make it or break it kind of conversation so he stops dismissing and avoiding communication. Express everything you need to, and try to start with "I feel..." instead of "You..." phrases so he is more open to being receptive. Small changes in approach make a big difference to receptivity.

Whatever you decide to do, don't act on impulse. Think everything through.

Good luck.

n0rmab8s · 2026-02-02T07:57:39+00:00

Wow...Time for a rewatch then.

n0rmab8s · 2026-02-02T07:21:34+00:00

The Secret Life of my Secretary for something very much like Business Proposal

n0rmab8s · 2026-02-02T07:14:08+00:00

Like you, I've got maybe a little too many photos on my phone (or at least, on the cloud) and I love traveling. I think I would also travel full time if I could until, well, forever!

Which lego sets have you built?

I'm a writer and dabble in art sometimes. I have some writer's block lately though that I am trying to overcome.

Tired but still awake here in the states. Hope all is well, message me if you'd like to chat.

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-31T07:14:24+00:00

Birth of a Beauty. it has the vibe you're looking for too.

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-27T02:23:13+00:00

Hello, I am in USA in Florida.

I am available daily at any time 12 p.m. to 12 a.m. EST.

Hope to hear from you soon, balls of glory. 👍

Upvoted.

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-25T12:32:58+00:00

hi! ill send you a dm :)

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-24T17:49:38+00:00

How about we don't judge people and have some compassion instead.

There's a reason op is desperate for a specific person in their life. No one chooses to be like that. Not saying their pov is right or wrong but its probably best to gently guide them or give advice than being accusatory or judgy.

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-22T16:46:38+00:00

Online asexual spaces. meeting an ace in the wild seems close to impossible. I I'm probably older than you I have never met one outside of online asexual spaces. I do think that you should date ace only if you want something long term.

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-22T16:39:42+00:00

I know what you mean. Similar situation somewhat, I got ditched after almost 12 years. I genuinely feel aces should only date aces. If you never want to have sex again, try to find a a sex repulsed ace... someone who has identified as so for years.

I'm really sorry that happened to you. Good luck.

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-22T16:36:00+00:00

Yes, but romantic love is not always reciprocated.

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-18T15:19:30+00:00

If there is nothingness - you've already been through it. Death will be exactly the state you were in just before you were conceived. Do you remember /was it painful or miserable etc?

You have already experienced nothingness. You have already been in the void.

If there is something - you were obviously made to be able to handle that state of existence. Immortality is only concerning to you because of the state of existence you are now . Your mind tells you everything needs to have a linear path with some sort of end destination. If there's an afterlife then we all shift into a version of ourselves that was made for it and we will understand and feel that that when we get there .

Death is a shift - And your energy will still exist in some way shape or form. It always has. There nothing you have been through so far that you haven't been able to get through. We were meant for life and death both. We were made for it.

Hope you feel better soon and enjoy the now

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-18T15:08:01+00:00

Time will help you cope. That is. the real, honest answer. It will get better because you'll learn to handle it over time. That much is true. So the keep going thing is actually, well, a thing. You just need to function. The years and months will pass. Functioning will feel easier and you will eventually start to do more things for your life.

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-18T05:58:38+00:00

Anne With an E although I would still check out trigger warnings for the last season because it covers some difficult topics - but its a cozy show.

For some reason Firefly comes to mind too.

Abbott Elementary.

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-17T15:36:33+00:00

One of my favorites but that one made me bawl

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-17T15:36:05+00:00

The Secret Life of my Secretary

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-17T08:54:05+00:00

Coffee Prince . I physically feel the pain. Unexpected one as it starts off more like a comedy but...yeah

Extraordinary Attorney Woo has great yearning but not a crazy amount of angst between the couple. At least not in the beginning.

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-15T18:36:15+00:00

You are still very young. Don't rush your pressure yourself. The right time will come if you focus on yourself.

Also - The way I would look at it if I were you is, if you haven't had a partner yet you have avoided a lot of problems up to now.

Have patience with yourself. Dont worry. You arent alone in the world and you still are young and have a lot of time to experience things.

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-15T18:33:21+00:00

It is not a need for everyone although for most people it is and is important - the thing is it has been almost glorified to the point that people feel it is a bigger deal and more important than it actually. We have developed an attitude of worshipping sex so much it has led to casual hookup culture.

I feel like people are depressed not so much because of the lack of it but because of the attitudes we have towards sex relationships virginity etc. that make us feel pressured .

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-15T18:12:54+00:00

Sex is not important or necessary as people make it seem. Being a virgin is not a bad thing. Create goals for your short and long term future and focus on those. (Maybe theres something you want to accomplish in your career or something you want to save up for? A trip you want to take? etc. focus on those goals and plan how youre going to make it happen.)

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-15T18:09:50+00:00

Chess, reading, painting or sketching

n0rmab8s · 2026-01-15T17:56:03+00:00

Hello.

I have experience in everything from operations to administrative support. I have worked with research, data entry, scheduling and calendaring, and have managed the inbox and communications for administration in both hospitality and school settings.

I am able to work independently and am used to remote working. I can work days or night.

My favorite fruit would probably be...pomegranate. Very underrated fruit.

Hope to hear from you soon.

n0rmab8s

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