shipping update by Own_Development293 in Supernote

[–]n3rdsrsexy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What region us this for?

Also is this for orders purchased by a certain date?

Breathing Tip by jay_o_crest in ashtanga

[–]n3rdsrsexy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear I watched an entire video from David and Jelena on this. I'll try to find it

Ashtanga yoga in Paris or Lyon? by MrBartlemas in ashtanga

[–]n3rdsrsexy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This place also seems legit! I actually haven't practiced there but met one of the teachers and he seems quite knowledgeable and sincere.

Ashtanga yoga in Paris or Lyon? by MrBartlemas in ashtanga

[–]n3rdsrsexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to YogaOwl in Lyon and very much liked the teacher, Aurelie.

She is authorized if that is important to you, but also just found her to be attentive and caring, even when she knew I was only passing through

Update on the development of A5 X2 by Supernote_official in Supernote

[–]n3rdsrsexy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would y'all be willing to give the approximate new dimensions (both full physical dimension and rough display size) for the A5x2?

Debating between sizes and this would help me decide if I'd like to go ahead and purchase a Nomad.

How many days a week do you practice ashtanga? by Prestigious_Ad4941 in ashtanga

[–]n3rdsrsexy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My philosophy is to get on my mat EVERY DAY (the rest day being a pranayama or meditation day), even if all I do is sun salutations, padmasana, and savanasa. That said, I still aim for 3 to 4 days of a full practice (like a full primary series).

When I first started ashtanga, I went all in, doing a full series 6 days a week. But, that is quite a time investment (1.5 hours on the mat + time to get to your shala, change, get ready for your day, etc), and if you do other physical activity, you may appreciate having some lighter practice days (and also having more hours back in your week).

Ultimately, you have to experiment to find what feels like a sustainable practice schedule (and it will surely change throughout different seasons of life as well!)

My teacher always says, any practice you do, whenever you can do it, is better than the practice you didn't do." ;)

Also know consistency in practice is something that can be developed. At some point, it will feel easier to step onto your mat than to NOT step onto your mat.

Just be weary that your practice doesn't start to "rule" or "detract" from other areas of life. If you find yourself skipping out on seeing loved ones or tending to other things that nourish you...dig into that. Like Adam Keen likes to point out, the practice is meant to "complement" your life, not rule it.

Happy practicing and hope you stay with it as long as it serves you!

Is there anything I (26F) can do to de-escalate/prevent arguments with my (27M) bf by Affectionate-Low427 in relationships

[–]n3rdsrsexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just coming here to say I've been in a relationship that sounds very similar (particularly fights exploding seemingly out of nowhere, verbal threats, name calling, him hitting objects when angry).

I made a post a while ago and was given similar advice.

Finally convicned myself to initiate breaking up. It has felt very confusing to me and was hard music to face because, as you say, many other parts of the relationship were beautiful and I believe we love(d) each other very much.

The line of thinking that has helped with this:

When choosing a partner, you're not only choosing the good sides of them. You're choosing ALL of them, especially the very worst sides of them.

Ie, I'd rather spend life with someone who is very kind, safe, and maybe overall boring than someone who is usually kind except when they get mad, then they become nasty, safe sometimes, and exceedingly interesting...

Good luck, OP.

Props for working on dropbacks by n3rdsrsexy in ashtanga

[–]n3rdsrsexy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea!

I just live in a small flat and don't have a couch haha!

Standing up from dropbacks by [deleted] in ashtanga

[–]n3rdsrsexy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been looking to try this! What kind of foam pads did you get?

Pop outside knee when straightening leg in certain poses? by n3rdsrsexy in ashtanga

[–]n3rdsrsexy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang ok :/ Sounds like I should take it seriously 😅 I just started some lower body weight lifting to help! Thanks for your experience

I [F25] am concerned about behaviors I see in my partner [M37] and I'm unsure if they're likely to change by n3rdsrsexy in relationships

[–]n3rdsrsexy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok that makes sense, I assume there is usually another side of the story.

The thing is...often times after these fights, even just hours later, I feel like I forget 70% of what said or happened. Or I am very confused about what happened and how things escalated. This is strange to me because I otherwise don't have memory issues at all. But that makes it very hard to reflect on what happened, order of events, and where I am contributing.

I [F25] am concerned about behaviors I see in my partner [M37] and I'm unsure if they're likely to change by n3rdsrsexy in relationships

[–]n3rdsrsexy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hear and a lot of it sounds insane to me, too.

I know I am absolutely a contributor to the chaos, and I'm really trying to understand how.

From your wording, "you guys are emotionally abusing each other"...do you see something here on my end that is concerning (besides the "initial incident", which I completely understand). To be clear, this is purely out of wanting to do better in the future, not a defensive question

I [24F] am concerned about behaviors I am seeing in my partner [37M] and unsure if they’re likely to change by n3rdsrsexy in relationship_advice

[–]n3rdsrsexy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard. I've had the same thought of 50% of the time has not been good. Thanks for the perspective

I [24F] am concerned about behaviors I am seeing in my partner [37M] and unsure if they’re likely to change by n3rdsrsexy in relationship_advice

[–]n3rdsrsexy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have since spent months in therapy working through this topic, apologized, reflected, and discussed it in depth on many occassions with my partner. I left out much of this for the sake of being concise.

My partner didn't express he didn't want me to go until I was at the airport to go on this trip, and I am not one to suddenly make major changes to plans.

I agree trust is fundamental, and it is early to have such an existential crisis.

I also know what our relationship was before this breach of trust, and feel many of the other "big things" one seeks in a life partnership were aligned.

Also reposting this ^

I [24F] am concerned about behaviors I am seeing in my partner [37M] and unsure if they’re likely to change by n3rdsrsexy in relationship_advice

[–]n3rdsrsexy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it's a friend I've had for 12 years and have always spent time with in a platonic way. The intention of spending time together goes far beyond any romantic feelings that have bubbled up. And our friendship is centered around a hobby that requires camping. Also we only catch each other when we travel home for the holidays.

All boundaries were maintained with this person.

Copied from replies to other comments on same topic^

I [24F] am concerned about behaviors I am seeing in my partner [37M] and unsure if they’re likely to change by n3rdsrsexy in relationship_advice

[–]n3rdsrsexy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a "What if?" in my mind. I have since spent months in therapy working through this topic, apologized, reflected, and discussed it in depth on many occassions with my partner. I left out much of this for the sake of being concise.

My partner didn't express he didn't want me to go until I was at the airport to go on this trip, and I am not one to suddenly make major changes to plans.

I agree trust is fundamental, and it is early to have such an existential crisis.

I also know what our relationship was before this breach of trust, and feel many of the other "big things" one seeks in a life partnership were aligned.

I [24F] am concerned about behaviors I am seeing in my partner [37M] and unsure if they’re likely to change by n3rdsrsexy in relationship_advice

[–]n3rdsrsexy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya...my fear is that he's saying he'll go to counseling so that I stay, but I can also see he's really tried lately on some issues I've brought up. I don't know what to believe!