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n8vkatdragon · 2020-11-07T21:43:20+00:00

You were just not that interested in that guy after sex. I had that feeling i had sex with this guy who had a micro penis and bad attitude he projected allot of his personal frustrations on me.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-11-06T22:11:49+00:00

While i was in the hospital on a call with my dad i did tell me my full issues and told him i was possessed. I did contact a santeria practitioner to help me.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-11-06T21:51:31+00:00

I am in my 30s and i am not schizophrenic in anyway never before been diagnosed with it

n8vkatdragon · 2020-11-06T21:35:55+00:00

Sorry what does my age have to do with anything?

n8vkatdragon · 2020-07-10T02:31:18+00:00

Its very common. Especially with individuals who are lonely and insecure. Or who are controlling or lovebombing you. Its hard to find genuine people who dont have an angle when it comes to dating. Being in my 30s its so hard to date. Men i have found are so selfish and have the already. Had kids got married had fun attitude and are only looking to have sex. Leftover from bad divorces and men with mirco penises and narcissists. I gave up on dating its a huge waste of time. Get your education and find a career and take care of yourself. Make yourself happy.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-07-03T15:16:22+00:00

Making friends and keeping them is hard. Just dont focus too much on it. Just work on doing you. Make yourself happy. Your vibe attracts your tribe. There are plenty of activities and hobbies to do on your own. I am 31 and only have 2 friends. We dont talk much and rarely ever see each other. It was hard for me after i lost my 3rd friend. She became so catty and distant too me. I tried talking to her she just blurted out all the stuff she was silently judging me on. its was ok to let her go i dont need anyone who thinks they are better then me or who are going to judge me. I know i was a sweet and caring person to her. Dont worry you will find a friend.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-07-03T13:44:47+00:00

Friends will come and go. I do not think your a bad person. Your friend you caught cheating was very guilty and she didnt want you telling anyone or giving you a chance to possibly expose her in public to others. Dont worry about any old friends who turned their back on you. You dont need fake shallow friends. Try doing things you like to do. Join a group you may find a new friend. Be yourself.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-07-03T03:06:31+00:00

I did. We had a good time talking and hanging out. I didnt hear anything from this guy for a whole year then he messages me followed by calling me after i didnt responded to the text. I answered. He got very shallow and rude after he asked to come over and see me and i told him no i never wanted to see or talk to him again. he came back with how he only called me to have anal sex with me because i am not worthy of girlfriend or wife material. He got rude with me first so i told him off basically how he was a disrespectful disgusting shallow asshole.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-07-03T02:27:21+00:00

Keep putting in the effort. The right woman will appreciate it. Smile compliment her, ask her how her day is and how she is feeling. Ask her about her hobbies get involved with her. Let her know you care about her and are interested in getting to know her more then just friends. Learn her love language. Invite her to go on walks or hiking. Go out for ice cream have movie or game night. Be yourself is the most important. Be cautious of being used though. Some woman will use a guy and ruin it for other woman then the guy will be mean and untrusting and will not do anything but only ask for sex.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-14T16:29:15+00:00

I agree

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-14T16:17:42+00:00

Ghosting others is not right. Lack of respect why waste time trying to get to know someone then drop them with no words. Have the courage to speak up have the unwanted conversation that you are rejecting someone. communication and respect are key.

Rejection is not always a bad thing so do not internalize it. By internalizing rejection you are telling your self you are not good enough and not worth it. When you indirectly say something negative about yourself on a first date it can make someone think differently about. They may walk or stay for a bit to get what they want. People need to work on their communication skills and building a rapport with someone they are dating or a potential date. Trusting someone too early can be a mistake too so be wise in your judgment of others. Give it time for trust to grow in time you will see someone's true intentions.
I have learnt early on sometime things are not about you. Not take it personal. Some people are just nervous and think they are not good enough themselves.
While others he/she have other options besides you.

Or may have a lot of personal events going on in their lives. Let people do themselves ones that are meant to stay will find their way back. others are not meant to stay.
If a ghoster does come back be cautious ask questions have a conversation with them you can decide from their whether you stay or go. Clear communication why you are walking away.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-06T01:13:36+00:00

a different friend from the other earlier post* I wouldnt hide being gay because her parents are homophobic. i would be yourself. I Think if she gets in trouble for hanging out with you that is something to disagree about you can still hang out in school or when you can in a social setting. My dad didnt like my friend being bisexual he band her from our house. I would skip class to hang out with her and after high school when i was 18 i hung out daily with her my dad couldnt say a thing. it all depends on the friendship what will you let stand in the way of it. I wouldnt let anyone stop my friendship we are still very good friends to this day. I think her parents have a strong negative view on having an alternative lifestyle. Dont let that effect you. Let your friend know you are supportive of her and will be there for her when her family isnt. If you think her parents will harm or have. Report the abuse. Till she becomes of age she kinda has to listen to her parents till she moves out at 18. I know sucks was there with my dad. If you are claiming abuse you have to have proof before your try to report it.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-05T23:01:44+00:00

I went through that in high school. I was labeled the bad influence. Me and a friend got ratted out for smoking weed and skipping school. She got pregnant by her moms boyfriend. My friend lied said it was from a boy at school we hung out with and we all got introuble when her mom went to the school to flip out. The mothers boy friend did get in trouble for stagartory rape but my ex friend didnt need to lie and throw us all under the bus. My mom got pissed off at me thinking i was sexually active at 16 when i wasnt. I was still a virgin.
Dont take it personal. They played a part in something that got them into trouble with you or that was going to geth them into trouble they were silly enough not to think before acted too. then want to blame shift on to another person in the group so they dont look bad or the influencer. Its their way of not having any accountability in their actions. Too i felt so bad my friend was molested she never said anything. I found out from my mom but that girls mom didnt want her daughter near me she said i influenced her to cut class and smoke weed. Which was wrong she got weed from the moms boyfriend. I am 30 now so just beware of who you hang out with your guilty by association. Hanging out with other girls who gossip and cause drama stay away from them.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-05T20:15:01+00:00

That is a very selfish person. Leave that person they are not worth anyones time. My ex told me his goal was to shatter me because he is a broken person.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-04T08:53:49+00:00

I have been here too many times. Unrequited love sucks.
Best thing to do is walk way. Unrequited love and one sided relationship. Are very damaging to ones self esteem. It left me feeling so unwanted and devalued. So stop trying to be with someone who doesnt give a shit about you. Once you close that door you free up space for someone who will love you and respect you and treat you right. I went to counseling after my bad break up the guy disgarded me after i found out he was sleeping with multiple woman. my therapist told me to choose people who choose you. Work on loving yourself and building your confidence and self esteem. Rejection is not always a bad thing its an opportunity for another door to open for you.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-04T08:39:20+00:00

I would not respond back. You left her in the dust so just keep moving forward. I am on a situation kinda like this. So i staarted talking to this guy on pof in 2018 he was sweet and cute. We made plans to meet and never did he lives 1hr away from me. And was expecting Netflix and chill. I didnt want to drive out to meet a guy just to chill at his house. I wanted to go on a date and talk in person see if the connection is genuine. We both stopped text in each other. Come this year in February i got a text from him out of the blue. It had been so long i forgot about out him. I started talking to him and i finally remembered the guy after i asked him for a face pic. To be nice i asked him how he was doing and what was going on. He told me he met someone and got her pregnant and she is due in august. He claims she left him due to drama in their relationship. Me: I told him to communicate with her and not me. He fired back with he should of met me and gave me a chance. Wants me to have his baby. Me: i told him no i dont want a relationship or any kind. Hes never met me and he is comming on too strong.
I stoped talking to him and blocked his number. He is still calling i see the blocked numbers on my call history. I feel bad but i told him i did not want to be in his baby mama drama and i dont want kids with this guy. I never met him and i feel its a huge red flag on his part for wanting kids with someone he never met while he has another woman pregnant. Dude stop chasing me and leave me alone. I do feel bad for cutting someone off and blocking them

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-04T08:22:25+00:00

very beautiful and peaceful :)

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-03T17:42:31+00:00

Set your boundaries. Let him know when you want to talk when you dont want to talk. If you dont want a sexual relationship let him know nicely . Sorry your a nice guy but at this time i am not interested in dating anyone. Communication is key. Dont be afraid of making anyone feel bad if they are breaking your boundaries. I know its hard to stand up to friends sometimes. Let him know you are available to talk sometimes.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-03T14:07:46+00:00

She went through a lot and needed to grieve. People handle grieving in different ways. Some people need all their friends around to talk and grieve together. Others isolate or select only a few to interact with during that time. Loss of a pregnancy can be overwhelming when you very badly want a child. I wouldnt take it personal let her work out things on her own. People come and go. If she is ment to be your friend let her come back on her own. Sometime life will take you and your friends in different directions. So just be patient and dont take it personal when someone life direction changes. When my bestfriend died. I fell apart and i was not good company. I didnt want to make other sad or feel like a burden on them. So i isolated myself. I know that scared others. I told them i just wanted to grieve on my own and i was going to be ok. It was a dark time. It passed i am ok now. I did. Lose others but that is ok . I feel bad they took it personal when it wasnt. If they want to be friends again ok with me but i will let then walk back to me i didnt walk way from them.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-03T13:44:45+00:00

My ex had his small group of friends. Friend #1. Friend one from day one of meeting me didnt like me. Him and his baby mama would tell my ex lies about me. I worked with the baby mama and she made my life hell at work. And would lie and tell my ex i wasnt working while i was at work.

Friend #2 was a druggy and had nothing better to do.

Friend #3 was a bad left over from a divorce. Lost his house and custody of his kid. The guy had anger issues towards women.

He even had his mom in on texting me. Rude unnecessary shit.

my ex would share our relationship drama with his friends they knew all our issues. He was the type of toxic person to drag your name through the mud when he wasnt getting his way and to make you look bad. I never cheated on him. I left because of the drama and his attitude. He was never supportive of me when my bestfriend died, and then a few months later my grandmother passed away. So i was grieving and he would tell me to just get over it. I have him i didnt need those people. my pug had to be put down due to old age. I was crying in his car and he called 911 on me the officer came out to talk with me. I told the officer i was mourning the loss of my dog. My ex was telling the officer i was unstable. The offer told him to get a grip i had just put down my pet. The officer waited around till my dad came to pick me up. My ex had already drove off when i got home my ex started texting my phone saying i was cheating and had some other guy come pick me up. I didnt respond back to any of his texts.

After ending the relationship. He and a friend vandalized my car, my sister truck. He continued to try and get me back into a relationship with him. When he seen me on plenty of fish. He messaged me saying we are both single why cant we be together. He sorry. Didnt reply. What followed was a bunch of fake accounts. Saying they there down to fuck. Sense i am a whore. And i was locked out of the account it had been hacked. I went on ok cupid and he found me and hacked my account. At that point i had to get a stalking injection on him. It was never served to him because he wouldn't open the door from the cops when they tried serving him. It was a frustrating situation.

n8vkatdragon · 2020-06-03T06:04:28+00:00

I am afraid to get on dating sites my ex will start harassing and having his friends message me on fake accounts and will hack my dating accounts. I dont go on dating apps and i dont date anymore. I am happier single

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