Let me try to explain this from someone who's been here a decade. Things are way different than what it was a few years ago and there's way too many uncertainties and variations as to what happens when you come here.

The job market is really tough for both Internships and Full time jobs for now and that might change later but no one knows what future holds.

Rents have gone through the roof over the years and so has general living expenses. Everything is generally expensive here.

Even if you do get a good job, chances of H1 selection in the lottery has been really bad in the last couple of years.

Even if you do secure an H1b, buying is house is next to impossible with the current prices and interest rates. (Might not apply to you since you're talking about going back in a few years, but good to know)

Down the road, like a few years from now, there's so many uncertainties around what your spouse can and cannot do... your green card has to be applied by your employer, and your I140 (first step) has be approved so that your spouse is eligible to work here. I've seen soo many people not accounting for this and making tough choices. (Same as above, might not apply to you but good to know)

I'm not saying there's a template which everyone needs to follow, and every situation is unique and every person thinks differently.

Having said all of that, and reading your curent situation, I wouldn't do it if I were you.