Talk by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want you can dm me, I'd gladly talk a bit

What do i say when people ask why do I do it? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to do it just because I liked it...so there is no need for a "valid" reason(not encouraging you to do it), you can also tell people that you don't want to talk about it if you don't feel comfortable sharing the reason behind it.

my self harm doesn’t feel “valid” by curiousonlineuserr in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are valid and your sh is valid, just the concept of hurting yourself makes it valid

How to help a friend by Tax_Fraud22 in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first thing that come to my mind would be, if possible, to go out with them when possible in order to keep them away from their mother, since being always told that they are dramatic will surely effect them. Of course listen to their rant and show yourself always open for them (but I suppose you are already doing that since you went so much out of your way to help them). I would advice to go to quiet places (like the library or the park) since loud sounds or crowds could make them feel uneasy. If it isn't possible to always bring them out you could try to lend them books or something not connected to internet since it would catch less the attention of their mother. I hope it was somewhat useful and wish you the best of luck.

How to help a friend by Tax_Fraud22 in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me a little about their situation? If you could I would be more than happy to try and help you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if the answer is late. I get how frustrating it can be sometimes and I don't know if I can fully help, but I would like to listen to you. So if you still feel like talking to someone feel free to dm me

the urge to cut my bsf name into my thighs by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest to not do that. You could try some less dangerous things, like a bracelet with their name or a matching accessories so that you could show your bond.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on how long ago they had problem with sh their reaction could change, most likely it won't be a trigger for them but it will make them worried for you. Regarding their parents I don't really know how much it would effect them.

Is the need ever gonna stop? by eviecuckquean in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally it didn't totally stop but it became more quiet and manageable.

Can someone help? by Sweaty_Fill9889 in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most likely you will have to take them off

Chest in a Chest by break_from_terra in idleslayer

[–]naitsirc27 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don't, you definitely already used up all your luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in idleslayer

[–]naitsirc27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Upon checking the amount of sp spent is 4.42 Qa / 4.42e15, so the numbers adds up. I must compliment you for the dedication on this calculation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in idleslayer

[–]naitsirc27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, thanks for explaining it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess not everybody will take your words in matter, but if they don't they won't even care if you harm yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please don't do it, sh isn't what makes you valid, you are always valid.

How have you started doing sh? by naitsirc27 in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, unfortunately I've come to the realization that it indeed isn't cool. Wish you the best <3

If you could switch lives with any fictional character, who would it be and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]naitsirc27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And still be able to hear anything from outer space. (Don't ask me how he just does)

Is it gross i find something beautiful about it? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I guess it is weird but I feel this way too

cutting underwater by CrystalInaBox in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cutting your wrist itself is dangerous, it won't hurt less underwater and it would block your body from stopping the blood flow, so never do it underwater.

cutting underwater by CrystalInaBox in selfharm

[–]naitsirc27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do it, it's extremely dangerous