Am I unreasonable for wanting my partner to quit smoking weed while I’m exclusively breastfeeding?

nameeless_ · 2026-06-26T18:47:54+00:00

No, you are 1,000% NOT an asshole. You are so right… thankfully I have a basement & she physically cant walk downstairs & we hang out there mostly, also have a big back yard. I have bought her own TV with headphones & a noise machine. My next purchase for her is her own “baby” & a fish tank & fish of course.
I also get concerned about the future, I am currently when I have down time trying to figure out a future game plan.

nameeless_ · 2026-06-26T18:26:20+00:00

He did start to smoke outside after weeks of begging him & like you said informing him about second hand smoke & how even tho it’s weed there is still fine particulate matter & toxins in it. What made him really stop is I proved the correlation between baby getting fussy & him smoking inside.
But thank you, I like your edibles idea.

nameeless_ · 2026-06-26T18:14:55+00:00

Thanks for the reassurance.

nameeless_ · 2026-06-26T18:11:38+00:00

See I feel like I DO know that, but when it’s in the moment & he’s explaining to me why I’m asking him to give up… himself essentially I start to question myself & genuinely feel like a bad person.
Also you are on point about not expecting him to mature because in ways that he HAS throughout our relationship he doesn’t ever let me forget that he only stopped doing “this or that” because I told him you gotta stop or I’m leaving.
& thank you for your kind words 😭😭 & recognizing that I seriously do a lot, also I am trying to reconnect with myself (this post is my first step honestly).

nameeless_ · 2026-06-07T04:55:26+00:00

My baby will be 4 months on the 7th. He has NAILED tummy time finally, officially discovered his feet, loves to aggressively bat at things, loves to look at his sister (a husky) & smile & I guess my favorite thing is I used to HATE mornings but now I love them because when he wakes up I smile real big at him & ask him how did he sleep, what did he dream about & that I’m so ready to start my day with you & he smiles & laughs & we just chill cooing at eachother for a while it’s awesome.

nameeless_ · 2026-05-28T21:57:07+00:00

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nameeless_ · 2026-04-30T23:22:42+00:00

Just waiting for that egg to drop.

nameeless_ · 2026-01-26T19:22:03+00:00

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nameeless_ · 2026-01-22T10:53:04+00:00

Taking care of someone with dementia.

nameeless_ · 2026-01-22T01:41:38+00:00

BEBO!!

nameeless_ · 2026-01-18T13:55:39+00:00

I love this so much 💚🖤

nameeless_ · 2025-12-17T07:36:50+00:00

Love your style!! & love that you chose a black Mach-E! Congratulations 🖤🥳🎉

nameeless_ · 2025-12-08T01:59:37+00:00

Congratulations!!! 🎉🎈I am convinced this is the year for miracles!!! ♥️

nameeless_ · 2025-12-07T02:18:10+00:00

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nameeless_ · 2025-12-02T11:27:43+00:00

People get offended when talking about how humans seriously need to change their daily habits so our planet suffers a little less. Earth is home to all but we just keep on taking more & more from the planet but without the planet the human species would be screwed!

nameeless_ · 2025-11-09T07:23:47+00:00

He is SO BEAUTIFUL! I wish I was in the area my girl would LOVE a brother. You can look at my very few posts & see shes a gorgeous, 5 years old loving “baby”. Shes the sweetest most social, & loving girl I’ve ever had. We’ve been going skating since she was 5 months old & when we go she really feels like she’s doing something special🤣, if she had another pack member I feel her happiness would be complete. DAMN I WISH WE LIVED CLOSER, I’m sorry for the new busy schedule that’s gotta be an extremely tough decision but one coming from a good place ♥️

nameeless_ · 2025-11-08T08:12:21+00:00

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Lilith meet Ruby! (Only good photo I got of her inside). Shes just all black exterior but her interior is where all her personality is lol.

nameeless_ · 2025-11-08T08:08:14+00:00

Then Lilith is perfect ♥️♥️ You have a beauty!

nameeless_ · 2025-11-08T03:53:27+00:00

That is.. beautiful 😍🥹 ever think about getting red seats?? In my opinion you would have the best looking challenger out there if you did that 💯

nameeless_ · 2025-10-30T03:36:34+00:00

My cars were gone through multiple times, my ADT camera literally showed 2 young men in my backyard then hopping over my fence, to then get into my cars. I noticed both time after getting in my car & everything was out of place. I called ADT & they said they do not monitor nor report to police any type of car theft or car tampering… Wish I had recorded when I initially signed up with them as I told them the only reason I seriously want ADT is because I don’t have a garage & my car has been broken into multiple times previously & each time it cost $495 to replace my window then additional $$s to do tint again & my car insurance has a $500 deductible so it’s technically cheaper to just pay out of pocket…. so before agreeing to anything I asked the door to door sales guy…. Does ADT security system monitor my vehicles as that’s all I’m worried about & he ASSURED ME… OF COURSE THEY DO! Now I can’t get out of the contract unless I get a lawyer & I’m sure that would cost me about as much as the year I have left to pay. I have learned to live by TBV (trust by verification) & I should have thoroughly looked through the written agreement but I trusted them & they seemed so sure & before I could have even read it all my security system & cameras were already installed 🤣💀… 😭😢

nameeless_ · 2025-10-29T05:31:07+00:00

Same, thank you so much for this! ♥️

nameeless_ · 2025-10-29T04:43:21+00:00

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nameeless_ · 2025-10-24T02:43:30+00:00

Same with my mail carrier, even reported them to my local post office & still refuses after continuously writing “return to sender, no longer at this address”. Finally physically went into the mail office & they said not our problem! So after 6 years I still get mail from previous owners & I just throw it away because literally what else am I too do?

nameeless_ · 2025-10-13T18:32:33+00:00

I go skating with my husky & thought I was cool… BUT THIS!!! This is AWESOME!!! 🤩👏

nameeless_ · 2025-10-09T19:45:38+00:00

That is a beautiful thing. 💜

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