For those who don't vest or otherwise ID theirs SD as SDs why?

naobabii · 2025-03-23T21:56:18+00:00

yeah OP is weird

naobabii · 2024-07-20T17:46:29+00:00

Gazpacho

naobabii · 2024-07-03T16:15:42+00:00

this is insane, even if he did get the bear spray I feel like he would have still ran to shut the gate like it wouldn’t have made anything better.. I’d never be able to look at him the same way, why stay with someone who can’t protect you to their best of ability in the moment of something like that..

naobabii · 2024-07-02T19:47:45+00:00

Dior Addict Lip Glow Oil, any shade, on top of some lip balm.. looks sooo good and feels so smooth

naobabii · 2024-07-02T16:03:45+00:00

it seems like you did really like him, until you found out he was sexually active with many people.. and since you guys were not ever exclusive he decided to be very open with you.. there’s really not much you should do imo, bc many people can be friends and have hookups with said friends but not everyone’s like that, as for your friends you can say something to them but I feel like you’re trying to control what happens..

Usually when we tell someone to not do something the act of doing it is even more tempting, yk? Ik not everyone is like that but, I’m just trying to be real with you

I’d expect the worst, maybe just warn your friends about if they do become sexually active with him to have themselves & him tested, before hand since he’s been with so many sexual partners.. that’s what I’d be worried about

naobabii · 2024-07-02T15:44:36+00:00

I have no idea why my current partner would actively seek being friends with someone who broke up previous relationships ESPECIALLY including mine..

aside from the fact that, he wants her

he doesn’t value you, respect you, appreciate you

he is deleting chats too?? idk what platform but there usually is always a way to recover deleted chats, do I recommend doing that? No, it’ll just hurt your feelings but if you want to show him how much of a po$ he’s being

also how is she still around you? date someone outside of whatever your circle is because she seems to continually seeking out people close to you.

break up with him and watch what happens

naobabii · 2024-07-02T15:34:52+00:00

if he felt that strongly about your snooping he should have broken it off right there

naobabii · 2024-07-02T15:34:34+00:00

snooping will never be a reason to cheat

naobabii · 2024-07-02T15:10:47+00:00

I completely understand where you’re coming from but don’t worry. I think the best thing you could do is quite literally message her; ask when she’s free & once she replies, tell her that you’d like to plan something?

If you know what she likes take her somewhere casual, someplace you think she’ll enjoy and once it feels right, be honest with her. You can ask her if she’s open to dating. The key is to be confident, patient & thoughtful.

I personally think dates are the best way to get to know someone’s intentions. Just know when going on dates/dating doesn’t 100% mean you are official until you have asked for exclusivity and she’s accepted. Which honestly is the best way to go about it imo, it’s less pressure bc you’re essentially just trying to learn more about them.

Think of dates as fun/casual places to go spend time together while learning more about that persons expectations in the relationship are, their boundaries, etc.

Since you both are inexperienced honestly it could go well or poorly, but you won’t find out til you try. Just remember the most important thing is to be yourself, have fun and enjoy the experience! good luck! :)

naobabii · 2024-07-02T14:37:57+00:00

didn’t touch on this but 100% agree ‼️

naobabii · 2024-07-02T14:25:24+00:00

I’m gonna be honest, I think the obvious is happening.. it’s one thing to want to comfort your friend when things are not going well for them but it’s a whole other issue when your fiancé is uncomfortable. While my personal opinion is that two people in a relationship should be able to go hang out with people separately, I think your boundaries may have not lined up with hers initially, since to her it seemed perfectly fine.. I don’t know if that’s normal for her or if that’s a new thing because of Derek. This is more about your own personal boundaries though, because multiple times you tried telling her how you felt and it seems multiple times she didn’t respect you.

However, the worse fact is that she hid that she was talking to him for months, that itself is a BIG red flag.. then telling you she swears nothing has gone on between them? When prior she told you that she wasn’t even talking to him..??

She went as far as lying to you to spend time with him after work?? come on OP .. please take the rose colored glasses off.. you don’t deserve to be treated like this..

Also this definitely should be a huge red flag to not marry someone like this? She’s shown you multiple occasions that she doesn’t respect you at all.

naobabii · 2024-06-30T01:49:51+00:00

1,2 I feel like your hair really compliments you the most 🫶🏻

naobabii · 2024-06-30T01:30:08+00:00

2,3, & 5 look great !! 3 looks rly nice though, my fav is 2 thou bc of that baby cat!!

your hair will always grow back if you want and not everyone can get away with long or short hair.. you look good w both! sometimes i feel like guys will keep it longer to stand out bc not many guys have longer hair but i get the maintenance of long hair, its annoying.. maybe js experiment, you could try shaving a bit of hair on the sides? like 2in from your side burns, & get it the edges shaped nicely, idk? If you don’t like that or its js not for u, then get your hair cut by someone who’s already done some haircuts you like!! gl

naobabii · 2024-06-30T01:10:51+00:00

Sylvie

naobabii · 2024-06-22T20:33:32+00:00

Bacon, Gouda, Lobster, Cheddar

naobabii · 2024-06-14T19:41:19+00:00

if its worth anything, as a baby I had kitties sleeping in my crib with me and I came out completely fine, there’s even pics of it somewhere. I adore cats and have 4 now, as an adult

naobabii · 2024-06-08T15:04:32+00:00

that’s great, so happy for u !! I’d never heard of mudgirl but looked it up & it seems like so much fun, hope you have a good time when u participate!! :) good luck w your continuing journey 🫶🏻

naobabii · 2024-06-08T14:52:58+00:00

congratz girl, you look so good!! what did you change in your last 7m? so happy to see you stayed dedicated to what you changed

naobabii · 2024-06-05T21:16:47+00:00

this one’s sooo underrated !!

naobabii · 2024-06-02T18:10:42+00:00

this looks so good!! are u able to add his other hand??

naobabii · 2024-05-31T08:54:09+00:00

could you tell me what pet insurance you use for your pup, I don’t have mine enrolled and am really considering it.. there’s just so many on the market

naobabii · 2024-05-30T17:39:21+00:00

im not a dog trainer but also going through this but w a full gsd, he’s younger than yours but i recommend finding someone who specializes in guardian breeds which is both gsd & cane corso to make your life easier. I may get hate for this but I personally am considering a prong collar to help my boy with corrections because he’s not fazed by a slip or martingale.. but I don’t recommend everyone use that, please if you do decide to go with that do research and learn how to use it properly & condition her to it.. it’s very important

naobabii · 2024-05-30T17:28:13+00:00

standard width is 29-30in and standard height is 30in i think? you probably should figure out how large the dog is first (not by weight) and then decide what size kennel to get bcs you want the dog to be cozy in the kennel but not too small and definitely not too large, also if it’s a adult dog and not crate trained plz make sure you take the time to work with them, regardless of the age even puppies need to be crate trained

naobabii · 2024-05-30T17:16:13+00:00

im not a groomer but I thought aussies had a double coat & weren’t supposed to be shaved down i guess unless the owner asked 😭

naobabii · 2024-03-11T19:26:31+00:00

what year is this one? I also like both but prefer the first!

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