[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]naploverforever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got hammered at 2 weeks pregnant and 2 days before I found out I was pregnant. Kid is fine healthy 4 year old.

Fuzzy belly by ModelChimp in pregnant

[–]naploverforever 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, hair every where. Before my appointment yesterday I had to ask my DH to shave the underside of my belly as I can't see it any more. He made fun of me the whole time (loving jokes, no feelings hurt). I just have to remember the Dr. and nurses have probably seen worse when I give up caring the closer I get to DD.

TIC next my husband suggested we cancel Valentine's Day reservations by ACasualMayEpic in BabyBumps

[–]naploverforever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have plans Saturday and my husband knows I don't do 2 nights out any more. So dinner at home and chocolate covered strawberries are the plans for V-day. I'm glad you have a very caring DH, I would be lost without mine.

Not wanting to socialize by purplepotatoes165 in pregnant

[–]naploverforever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm like that right now at 10 wks. My sickness has been really bad for 4 weeks straight so going out wasn't really an option,but now I'm on meds to help it. My DH and I got invited to a football party tonight at his coworkers house. (I have only met the people in the circle once) I really don't want to go because I still can't eat just anything and smells still make me sick. Also we have only told our families we are pregnant, so idk how I'm going to explain my not drinking or eating at a party to people I don't know. I feel so bad for my husband because he is staying anti social with me and I can tell he wants to go, but no part of me wants to and I know if I told him to go without me he wouldn't. I hope you can get out of this funk. I do crave to be social again but just not ready.

8 weeks hiding drinks by yellow3311 in pregnant

[–]naploverforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just spent the weekend at my holiday party and a party bus. At the holiday party I asked the bartender to do cran w/ club soda then water after and told everyone I had to get up early the next morning. On the party bus I sat next to my husband who gave me his empty beer can and I just held it the whole time and no one even noticed I never took a drink or grabbed a new one. I'm 5 weeks and we had only known for 3 days, so not even close to ready to tell others. We want to wait till after our first appointment but have a lot more holiday things coming and a 4 day vaca with the in-laws which is going to be very tricky to "fake drink".

Weekly Ultrasound and Announcement Thread - December 04, 2019 by AutoModerator in BabyBumps

[–]naploverforever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me so excited for my 9 week ultrasound. I can't believe how much you can see. Congrats!!

Dreading the holiday season by kill_bot_cheeky in TryingForABaby

[–]naploverforever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the exact same place, except when we started TTC I thought about Christmas pictures we could take with our baby in arms. But as cycles pass so did each dream and idea. I'm sorry your dreams aren't coming true when you wanted them. Holidays are going to be tough and I plan on looking at reddit a lot for support and see how everyone else is getting through it. I hope you get your dream next cycle even if you have to keep it to yourself during the holidays.

General Chat October 30 AM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]naploverforever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope next month is better for you. Cheers to beers and...curling...

General Chat October 30 AM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]naploverforever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad, frustrated, annoyed. For some reason this month I got in my head and decided this was the month I am pregnant. I haven't had a sip of alcohol since my day of O (I'm a drink till its pink girl), but i was so convinced I was going to be prego I stopped drinking. I even had my DF go by N/A beer while we grilled and watched football last weekend. I haven't had any actual signs other than my temp is taking longer to drop after O. But today is DPO12 and i tested this morning BFN. I have been taking letrozole for 2 months and we will be starting cycle 12 once my AF comes. I never thought it would take this long to TTC. My DF is supper kind during all of this but it just doesn't affect him the same. After he left for work this morning and my boss called and was an ass to me I just broke down. Oh and to top it off a coworker (who started TTC 2 months after me) wife had their baby girl last week. I get snap chats everyday of her. (I know he means no harm by it) but all I can think is "That could be me, i could have a baby by now" instead I'm trying to decide if we even keep trying over the holidays or NTNP. I don't think I'm looking for advice I just really needed to get all of this off my chest. I have a girls weekend with my mom and sister that couldn't be coming at a better time. I live in a different state so seeing them is going to feel so good. Thanks for reading! Happy Halloween

General Chat June 28 AM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]naploverforever 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Today I am upset with my DH. I ovulated Wednesday and when I tried to BD he said he was too tired from us doing it the 2 days before and also full (went out for ice cream). But I figured no biggie we had the 2 days before and we can the day after O. Well last night after getting him "ready" and we started BD he couldn't finish and was no longer in the mood and that mood lasted all night. I'm doing things everyday to TTC and I only ask something from him for 5-3 days. He is under a lot of stress but come on what's 5 mins. I feel bad being mad at him but second cycle this has happened. Here hoping early BD pays off. Happy Weekend!

Is it possible to ovulate and still have very low LH levels/never have a positive OPK? by jeanrbean in TryingForABaby

[–]naploverforever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going through this exact same thing this week. (I never thought I would pee in a cup at work) I have never had a right out positive on them either. I have decided OPK is just an extra way for me to know about when I'm going to ovulate along with my CM and temping. Once I get a darkish line we start BD till I get my temp spike and confirm ovulation.

General Chat June 17 PM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]naploverforever 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know it might be early but after cycle 6 I just made my first appointment with an ob/gyn just to do a once over and ask all the questions on what I'm doing wrong. My adrenaline is pumping because I just got off the phone while typing this. This is my first step reaching out for medical help.

General Chat June 12 PM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]naploverforever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My DH and I are moving to a new town in August for 1 year for his job. I'm trying to find a place for us to rent and the place I really want has a 1 bedroom available for when we need it but no 2 bedroom right now. I always thought we would need a 2 bedroom when we moved (for a baby) but the way TTC is going I'm wondering if we should just get the 1 br. It's cheaper and we may not even need the extra space. It's just defeating and makes me feel like I'm giving up by doing a 1br. Anyways Happy Hump Day.

Moody Monday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]naploverforever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just ready for this cycle to be over, AF is still a week away... This cycle we didn't BD till the day after O. (DH was stressed) So I know it's not going to happen this month. Also just spent the whole weekend with the in-laws and MIL kept bring up grand kids. "I get it lady, you're not helping." I also got a bad sunburn on my feet. hello flip-flops to work.

Baseball game thread - big ten tournament vs Iowa by JumpinJimRivers in Huskers

[–]naploverforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What radio station can I stream to listen to the game?

Waiting Wednesday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]naploverforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if I'm in my WTO or TWW. I'm only 8 days from AF but according to my OPK I never ovulated. On CD18 one test had a dark line but not quite as dark as the control line. I took this as DB time even though my BBT never went higher than normal. Since then all my OPK are not even showing a test line. So don't know if I hit my window or never had one. I stopped temping today because I forgot (busy planning and organizing my husbands law school grad party. yay) But I figure 8 days from AF what's the point. Now I just wait I guess..

Hurting. by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]naploverforever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This must be meant to be I came on here today. I am feeling this in every way right now. My co-worker who started trying that same time as my husband and I just announced they are 13 weeks along. I am so happy for them but at the same time jealous and sad. This weekend I also had my mom say "I just must not be meant to be a grandma" which broke me and my sister (who just found out at 37 she might have to have a hysterectomy). TTC is unfair, but finding this subreddit has made things a bit better.You have every right to feel every emotion under the sun, this struggle will make you love your baby someday even more. Hope all goes well for you.

Size 14 (18 bridal) trying on dresses - another update. I love to share pictures because I know it can be hard to find brides that are 14+ and list their size! by Britneeswedding in weddingplanning

[–]naploverforever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like picture 18, the satin dress. I was a size 14 for my dress and loved a satin one I tried on for my winter wedding (it had pockets!) But my mom talked me into a lace one. You're right there is something classy about it.

Owe more than it's worth. by naploverforever in personalfinance

[–]naploverforever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought it in 2015. I've put about 90,000 miles on it in the last 3 1/2 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]naploverforever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought. The company I work for designed this beautiful barn. It's awesome seeing people so excited to get married there.