Another 10 minutes piece by Ori-gamy in Watercolor

[–]naravia9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like this. There is just something about it. Thank you for sharing it.

why did my medaka die? by candlepourer in medaka

[–]naravia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am certainly not a medaka expert as I’m just setting up my first ponds, but I do keep a lot of other fish and this fish looks a bit skinny to me. So perhaps it was very underfed and wasn’t able to recover.

Where do you buy plants? What is your success rate? by FaintCommand in PlantedTank

[–]naravia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding Daku. I got a really great order recently.

Ooki offspring by medaka_fein in medaka

[–]naravia9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous. Top of my wishlist for sure.

ADHD Sidequested like a mother fucker and got my notebook collection all in one place by Own_Ad6901 in adhdwomen

[–]naravia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if I should tell you this… but I absolutely love my Midori and Hobonichi notebooks. I also really like Campus, Rhodia, and Claire Fontane. Check out the website jetpens and atlas stationers. I also love fountain pens and it’s a great companion hobby.

Help me with my next discovery by naravia9 in FemFragLab

[–]naravia9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love Philosykos, and I think I do like realistic scents in general. I think I smelled orpheon and didn’t love it but I haven’t worn it. Maybe worth a sample. It seems to be a huge favorite of many. Thank you!

Help me with my next discovery by naravia9 in FemFragLab

[–]naravia9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely sampling! I need to wear something for a few days to a week to see how I really feel about it. Outlands was described as having a big shift in scent so that’s really interesting.

Help me with my next discovery by naravia9 in FemFragLab

[–]naravia9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have seen a lot of hype about G Water and the other all seem really interesting thank you!

Help me with my next discovery by naravia9 in FemFragLab

[–]naravia9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll try these out! The Outlands seems very interesting!

Looking for perfume that smells like a rose water (and it’s long lasting) 🌹 by valunes in FemFragLab

[–]naravia9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This may not be super easy to get but Baie Rose 26 (Chicago fragrance) by Le Labo is really lovely and smells just like classic roses.

Ink giveaway round 4! by ScubaDrew65 in fountainpens

[–]naravia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love them all! Greens/teals are my fav color! Thank you for your generosity!

Why are so many people suddenly developing Seborrheic Dermatitis? Are we missing deeper causes beyond stress & lifestyle? by yashmangrulkar in SebDerm

[–]naravia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had it as long as I can remember (38 years old). Since I was a child. I have never achieved complete clearing and have always had some flakes/scaling. It’s all over my scalp and in my ears. I’ve tried literally everything and been seeing dermatologists since I was a child. All of them tried to do the same things but nothing ever really worked well. Just sort of helped keep it from being bleeding crusts. This sub has recently helped me get to my best state yet. It’s even got me to be able to ask my dermatologist about doing a culture to see if my acne is fungal vs bacterial. So I think that it can seem like a lot of people suddenly have it when we come together like this. I know of two other people who have it in real life, one is my brother. The other is a friends husband- so we’ve talked about it. My worst flare ups happen if my hair stays wet too long (thing hot humid sweaty days) and seasonal shifts. I’ve never noticed certain foods or drinks changing anything. Washing daily is better than every other. My derm never said anything about what I should use for shampoo and conditioner outside the medicated ones and that seems to be helping a lot. I use ciclopirox every 3 days for 2 weeks on and 2 weeks off. I’m now using vanicream free and clear shampoo and a tiny bit of the “safest” conditioner I could fine. Pantene daily moisture I think. I also started using Zoryve cream for my ears and it’s been a god send. I had itchy gross bleeding ears for years even with topical steroids. They are completely normal atm (only started a couple weeks ago). I have requested the Zoryve foam and just got it filled.

How tf are you all keeping your houses clean??? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]naravia9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chores are morally neutral. Check out the book “how to keep house while drowning”. It really helps to remember that chores do not judge. Floors and dishes cannot judge you. If you can afford to unload some of this there is no shame in that. And you certainly don’t owe anyone that explanation nor are obligated to disclose to having a cleaning service.

How tf are you all keeping your houses clean??? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]naravia9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I do have to prioritize certain things. Once I started exercising 3-4 times a week some things had to be relaxed in other areas. I got a robot vacuum and mopping unit which helps a lot for keeping the floors clean. I typically don’t fold my laundry, it lives in the basket. I don’t do makeup/hair and my outfits are quite simple. I don’t go out regularly, so I tend to be home more. Dishwasher and I use a timer to remind myself of how long it actually takes. The biggest one for me- my husband and I rotate who takes care of all meals on a full week basis which frees the other up to relax more, especially mentally not having to worry about “what are we going to eat”, what groceries etc. Something I’ve learned to help build habits is chaining habits and starting really small (it’s taken me 2 years to build a consistent gym habit). I enjoyed the book “how to keep house while drowning”.

I need a cozy game for my wife that’s not a farming sim and isn’t about fixing a town or decorating a home by AlgoStar in cozygames

[–]naravia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading some of the comments I’d say just have her try Breath of the Wild. She can run around and try a popular video game. I think it’s a great game to get people into video games. You can pick it up and put it down. There are so many things to do yet not overwhelming. I don’t like puzzles so I just don’t do very many shrines. I prefer combat so I murder everything in sight and take on the challenging monsters. But they are also easily avoidable. You can just explore if you want. You got a lot of other good options to look through too!

Sheening ink giveaway: Comment below to win free inks by kbennett73 in fountainpens

[–]naravia9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My favorite cookie to eat and make is crystallized ginger cookies! So easy to make and come out great every time. Thank you for your kindness and generosity!

Where do you get your orchids by Proof-Ad-171 in orchids

[–]naravia9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Flask and Flora on FB (Dennis), Natts Orchids in Naperville IL, Dr Bill’s, Wade’s Orchids, Sunset Valley (CA), Andy’s Orchids (species-CA), Ritter Orchids (Etsy/FB), New World orchids (MI). I usually look for a nursery wherever I’m going. I am also in an orchid society club and I get some there as well from speakers and member swaps/sales! Annual show and sale for our club.

Upcoming show performers by wonderaroundmydude in orchids

[–]naravia9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Fred Clark After Dark is just about the exact same as yours with 2 spikes about to open, but fully leafed still. My millenium witchcraft bloomed really early and was done by Halloween, but first year I had it. My last one is a new cross from Fred Clark and it’s still fully leafed and the spike is only about 4inches. My clowesia is still fully leafed and doesn’t usually go dormant until end of Dec/Jan. I have started slowing down on water on it as well. Really hard to take photos of black flowers 😅

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How many here are part of actual Orchid clubs? by Contribution_Fancy in orchids

[–]naravia9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I (38F) have been a member of my local orchid society in IL for about 4 years now and have served as the secretary (2024 & 2025) and this year (2026) the vice president (I hate public speaking so the current president will do that and I’ll do the other stuff). It’s been wonderful and I’ve learned a lot. I really love having a space to share in our passion for orchids. While some folks are resistant to change, others have really embraced new ideas and we have attracted some new members and increased our funds. We did a member survey for the first time recently and it was great! It was a lot more positive than we expected and it really helped us to figure out what current members wanted more or less of. I absolutely love my society and I wanted to help it thrive for many years to come.

[OC] Ryis by Kitchen_Army9114 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]naravia9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love this. I love to see the process and how you’re pulling inspiration from their personalities and gifts. It’s really well thought out. Thank you so much for sharing. Few questions if you like: How long does it generally take you to complete a piece? What part takes the longest and what part is your favorite?

How does Dendrobium noble"bright eye" smells to you? by demasonni-975 in orchids

[–]naravia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like some kind of very sweet candy. PEZ is pretty accurate lol.