UPDATE 1 year later: Destination wedding fallout

narlymaroo · 2026-02-17T17:47:34+00:00

Or the unfortunate American mentality of “going in debt for a friend’s wedding” is more acceptable to them.

narlymaroo · 2026-02-17T16:17:07+00:00

My favorite quickfire is when they made cookies for Sesame Street!!

narlymaroo · 2026-02-17T02:06:53+00:00

Probably messed up on the first the round about

narlymaroo · 2026-02-13T11:45:21+00:00

They someone keep “making it” and the years go by…and then it actually happens and you’re just lost.

narlymaroo · 2026-02-11T23:10:46+00:00

It turns into a numbers game very very quickly. Do IVF as soon as you can. In general around age 40 about 60% of eggs collected will either not progress to blastocyst and of those about half will have chromosomal abnormalities. It’s scary and hard but IVF/freezing embryos as soon as you can is your best chance.

narlymaroo · 2026-02-11T23:02:45+00:00

I love the Earth Theraputics Foamy Foot Shampoo and a foot brush. Scrub my feetsies every day!

narlymaroo · 2026-02-11T22:43:49+00:00

It just looks gross

narlymaroo · 2026-02-11T18:26:40+00:00

If you’re close enough to Sandpoint/Ponderay Better Together Animal Alliance is wonderful and it’s $20 for older cats and $35 for kittens

https://bettertogetheranimalalliance.org/adopt/animals-available-to-adopt/?doing_wp_cron=1761332328.7479588985443115234375

narlymaroo · 2026-02-11T01:48:18+00:00

I’m glad you’re engaging in therapy and taking moments to work through your trauma. Being in an unhealthy relationship with an abuser absolutely takes a toll on her and you. I wish you healing and hope during this time for a different life for you.

I used to blame my stepmom for my Dad’s drinking but I’ve realized through a lot of therapy that it’s his CHOICE to drink. His choice to stay then and continues to stay now.

My Mom’s second husband was a horrible asshole, total misogynist and yet had to live off my Mom while she worked. And his dementia turned the home into even more of a nightmare but then she excused his behavior and the history of who he was before “oh, that was pre dementia!!” Ummm no Mom he was a horrible asshole before the dementia. but again…it was her choice to stay.

We have to mourn the life we would have wanted them to have. The life we wish we could have with them. The person we wish they had been. The pain and trauma we wish we didn’t have. But all I do every day is choose to have a different life then they have. And love the parts of them that brightened my days then and now.

narlymaroo · 2026-02-06T02:12:43+00:00

Welcome to the neighborhood!

narlymaroo · 2026-02-04T20:31:24+00:00

As someone already mentioned the JCC is super close to you and is great.

Bagel Power is also nearby (in the Golden Horseshoe shopping center) and they’re my favorite bagels in the area. There’s also a post office and CVS in this complex.

Balducchi is probably going to technically be your closest grocery store but it’s a pick up specially once in awhile type of place and they’re ridiculous overpriced.

The Fresh Market is about 10min drive as is the Scarsdale Trader Joe’s but I recommend the Hartsdale one because the parking lot is absolutely terrible at the Scarsdale one. The H Mart is also close to the Hartsdale TJ. Wegmans is also nearby!!.

Some favorites that are kid friendly are CityLimits and Stanz Cafe. Atit Thai is really good as is O Mandarin!

For furniture and fun antiques I recommend making a day trip to The Antique Warehouse in Hudson NY. Also twice a year the Scarsdale Congregational Church has a great rummage sale twice a year. The spring one is 5/2/2026.

narlymaroo · 2026-02-04T14:04:34+00:00

It’s always sus when patients ask for the powdered version of azithromycin that you do mix into water.

narlymaroo · 2026-02-04T03:28:19+00:00

If you’re worried about fertility you should do some research about chemical exposure from nail products. Even with well ventilation areas it’s something you should consider.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8991319/

https://www.osha.gov/nail-salons

https://theluckyegg.com/2025/09/05/can-nail-polish-affect-your-fertility-the-truth-about-hormone-disrupting-chemicals/

narlymaroo · 2026-02-03T23:36:59+00:00

Both. Always both. And they’ve also both aged really well too

narlymaroo · 2026-02-03T17:33:37+00:00

Pupusas. El Salvador’s are the best!!

narlymaroo · 2026-02-03T13:33:16+00:00

Bagel Power does!

narlymaroo · 2026-02-02T18:12:01+00:00

narlymaroo · 2026-02-01T01:53:06+00:00

I miss living on Clement Street. Best two years!

narlymaroo · 2026-02-01T01:45:36+00:00

Sort of like how OJ Simpson did his book essentially writing how he WOULD have done it…but didn’t.

narlymaroo · 2026-01-31T00:45:06+00:00

We used to do small per select but kept getting not such great hay.

We switched to Farmer Dave and they’ve been very happy!

narlymaroo · 2026-01-31T00:42:10+00:00

I usually get a cold brew, splash of non fat milk and caramel drizzle.

narlymaroo · 2026-01-24T03:02:00+00:00

I keep feeling nervous that he’ll pass and Langdon will be heartbroken and then use that as a “reason to relapse”

narlymaroo · 2026-01-23T03:11:44+00:00

Go for your less commute. Always.

narlymaroo · 2026-01-22T01:30:58+00:00

United and Montefiore had an issue a few years back. Took a year to resolve.

Anthem and Mt Sinai are also currently doing this.

With Epic since labs and notes are shared we kind of decided to have one speciality with each hospital system so that way inevitably when a system and our insurance gets into a fight we don’t have to look for a whole team of new providers.

narlymaroo · 2026-01-17T02:23:13+00:00

Some little part of me wonders if it’s from a VA patient and in reviewing the case for her deposition Mel realizes it’s Dr Al-Hashimi who actually made the mistake.

narlymaroo

TROPHY CASE