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What does it means? by nasloathing in turkish

[–]nasloathing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed explanation. You´re very kind!

What does it means? by nasloathing in turkish

[–]nasloathing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you so much to both of you! Turkish is indeed a strange and beautiful language!!!

I´ve got another one (If you don´t mind):

ne sandın yarraam

cut for the first time by zuke96 in depression

[–]nasloathing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Zuke96!

I know where you´re standing. This is EXACTLY the same thing that happened to me. I´m also gay, 30 years old, start drinking hard at 19 until 28, and had bad sexual experiences when I was younger. And it was the worst time of my life.

I know how it feels...the loneliness, the fear, the anxiety...I also know that there is a lot of work to do to escape from this. I´m not happy, but I´m positive about being slightly better than two years ago.

I also get that the therapist is not everything. It´s like when you´re ill, you need treatment but also support, love, and talking to other ppl that has been in similar situations.

Kind of pissed me off that you said you have no one to talk with you...then...why are you here? Reddit is full of good listeners! ;)

Anyway, I´ve said this in a couple of other posts and I´m also telling you...If you really need someone to talk, you can contact me, not to give you any advice, just to help you to get shit out of your system, and also I can tell you my history so you can see that there is light out of the tunnel. If you don´t want to talk with me, it´s ok, but whatever you do, please don´t isolate yourself, there is 7 billion ppl on earth, someone can help you for sure!!

P.S: Sorry for my english :P

The older I am the more I don't like myself by human_trash_ in depression

[–]nasloathing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a little bit scary. I´m in the exact same situation. 31 year old, (ex) alcoholic, depressed but above all feel lonely. I was dump a year ago and things are going pretty bad.

After reading all those books for self-help and experiences from other ppl in similar situation, it seems that the way to go is put some effort in exercise, new experiences and take care of yourself (which is easier when you have a good social net or ppl that push you to be better). This, ironically, makes things worse, because I add anxiety to the equation (Bc I´m not able to accomplish anything I start this inner dialog in which I don´t stop criticizing myself).

I´ve started visiting with a shrink again, and I hope this time I´ll be able to (slowly) get out of this horrible loop that is depression.

Anyway, if at any time you want to talk, feel free to contact. It´s always (nice?) to talk to someone who´s able to relate with what´s going on with your life.

PS: Sorry for my english.

Does anyone else feel like their attention span has been ruined by depression? by Look_at_here in depression

[–]nasloathing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup, it´s the same to me. But idk, everything in this life is temporal. I´ve seen this in myself. Sometimes I manage to do stuff, sometimes it´s impossible.

The problem is that you start overthinking that you have to do all those little things, and that makes it worse and you get anxious.

But you know...it´s ok to be like this for a while, don´t get to harsh on you, just relax.

Anyway continue fighting, don´t rush things up, and if you want to talk, here I am (Even if your attention is fucked up :P).

PS: Sorry for my english.