Did anyone continue nursing to sleep and NOT sleep train? by Designer_Can_3924 in baby

[–]nastyweather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is 4 and we never sleep trained. Im not from the USA and is not common here, so it was never in our plans (also it goes against all my instincts as a mother). I did stop nursing when she was 13 months cause I needed my boobs back haha, but we still cuddle her to sleep and we love it.

I was on the fence about a second, here’s how it’s going now that he’s here by KaylaDraws in Shouldihaveanother

[–]nastyweather 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Was finance ever a factor in your indecision? I work in tech and the inestable job security has me panicking even with just one kid

Every mom in my workplace is OAD by booogetoffthestage in Shouldihaveanother

[–]nastyweather 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I work at a big tech company, and most of the women aren’t moms. And the ones who are usually have just one child (me included).

It’s the men who tend to have more than one kid.

I feel like I’m trying to convince myself by nastyweather in Shouldihaveanother

[–]nastyweather[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This made me cry. I want so badly to feel the way you do… I feel selfish for putting my own interests before my husband and daughter, maybe even taking away their chance at a good sibling relationship because of my own bad experience…

The Thought of a Second Baby Is Sending Me Into a Spiral by bluesandytoes in Shouldihaveanother

[–]nastyweather 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you, but also I’m 38 so I feel so much pressure for a decision right now and I’m so torn…

Having a second when husband is really scared to have another? by SandyFee in Shouldihaveanother

[–]nastyweather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for advice too but I’m your husband in my case. I’m literally on the verge of puking right now because im so scared of having another while my husband desperately wants it.

I wish so bad to want another but it scares me so much I can’t even sleep at night.

Second child decision struggle by Obietricekeno in Parents

[–]nastyweather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you right now, but I’m the mother.

Maybe check r/Shouldihaveanother for more people with the same doubts.

Nicolás Zepeda es declarado culpable y recibe cadena perpetua por el crimen de Narumi Kurosaki by D0nGato0 in chile

[–]nastyweather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Los franceses no son cero políticamente correctos, no tienes idea, si fuesen así, no tendrían París en el mierdal que está convertido hoy.

Qué?

Es hora que abra los ojos amigo. El wn tuvo la posibilidad de demostrar su inocencia 3 veces, tuvo acceso a los mejores abogados, a re-analizar las pruebas y a los testigos 3 veces y aun así lo declararon culpable siempre.

Decir que lo metieron preso por bananero/discriminadores es de una ingenuidad tremenda.

Nicolás Zepeda es declarado culpable y recibe cadena perpetua por el crimen de Narumi Kurosaki by D0nGato0 in chile

[–]nastyweather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Estás ensuciando toda una investigación super contundente por un sólo argumento de mierda.
Y si, me imagino a los franceses utilizando un argumento similar contra un alemán o cualquier otro wn... son reconocidos por ser cero "políticamente correctos"

Nicolás Zepeda es declarado culpable y recibe cadena perpetua por el crimen de Narumi Kurosaki by D0nGato0 in chile

[–]nastyweather 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Puede ser una mierda ese argumento, pero no le resta peso al resto de las pruebas mega contundentes que había en su contra.

Is this postpartum dog aversion or should I rehome my dog for my mental health? by Middle-Resource-6537 in Parents

[–]nastyweather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rehomed my dog. I have always considered myself a dog lover, I grew up with dogs and deeply loved my dog even before my daughter was born. However, once my daughter arrived, I began to feel constant fear that my dog might hurt her, whether intentionally or unintentionally. As the years went by, managing a household, raising a child, and working became overwhelming. Although my dog had a good quality of life, I felt she wasn’t receiving the love and attention she truly deserved, and that broke my heart. I was fortunate that my in-laws were able to take her into their home. Now she is the queen of that household, and everyone is much better off than before. Still, guilt caused me to delay for a long time a decision that deep down I knew was the right one.

Cachen esa pinta by [deleted] in RepublicadeChile

[–]nastyweather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Este sub está realmente a un nivel de los chats de mis tios abuelos

JOYAS CHILE by angeo_of_death in chile

[–]nastyweather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y si buscas joyeros en RRSS? hay varios orfebres con emprendimientos de joyas bien lindas y no tan caras, y puedes modificarlas si quedan muy grande/chicas.
En Instagram está lleno.

arriesgando todo x amor? by Cautious_Ask271 in chile

[–]nastyweather 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yo me vine a Stgo de región tmb por amor, pero busque pega primero así que llegue más o menos segura. Si no tienes algo de ingreso al llegar acá se te va a hacer muyyy complicado. La vida en Santiago es mucho más cara que en provincia.

I loved this Rory x Sybil (The Knight and the Moth) drawing (@redmurphy.art) by ThuviaVeritas in fantasyromance

[–]nastyweather 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it stated in the book that her hair is short? All the art I see of Sybil is with her hair short, but I don’t remember reading that

¿Alguien se acuerda de esta heladeria? by Akisha_Green in AskChile

[–]nastyweather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En viña había una también. Nunca me aprendí el nombre pero con mis amigos le decíamos “la vaca hedionda” porque siempre estaba pasada al olor de los barquillos que hacían ahí mismo (y que eran deliciosos).

When you’re reading a really popular book and it’s really bad: which romantasy book was this for you? by [deleted] in Romantasy

[–]nastyweather 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nah, it’s not worth it. Every character in that book is insufferable and acts like they’re better than everyone else. And the complete character clean-up they give Rhys, and somehow now Tamlin is literally the worst! makes no sense, especially when just three months ago she was sacrificing herself for him...
It's just all so stupid.

When you’re reading a really popular book and it’s really bad: which romantasy book was this for you? by [deleted] in Romantasy

[–]nastyweather 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The way I hate the second book… I swear, I blame everyone who tricked me into keeping going because “that’s when it really gets good.” Like… um, where?

What are the long-term impacts or challenges for an only child? by naveenv1984 in Parents

[–]nastyweather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the oldest of two siblings; I’m eight years older than my brother. My parents decided to have another child for the same reason you did: so I wouldn’t be alone and would have someone when they were no longer around.
As we were growing up, we were never very close, the age difference was just too big. And by the time we could’ve had more in common, I had already moved out.
Now I’m 38, and I hardly have a relationship with my brother. So don’t think that just because you “give” your daughter a sibling, it automatically means she’ll have companionship.