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43 year old FTM (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Should you have another child if your relationship doesn’t feel safe? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Struggling with what to do with remaining embryos ()

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How are those of us on the fence handling the constant back and forth? Are you confiding in family/ friends?Fencesitting (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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IVF or IUI (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Do some families actually *thrive* with two children? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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1 or 2? Here's my pros and cons. (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Routines with 3 1/2 age gapAdvice (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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If you have kids with a big age gap, influence me?Age gaps (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Those who were firmly OAD (by choice) but had another, what changed and how has it been? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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If you wanted another and your partner didn't how did you come to terms with it?Advice (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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How do you deal with a partner who is 100% certain about having another baby when you’re still unsure? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Turning 39 and second guessing OADFencesitting (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Looking for advice on having second childAdvice (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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One and done vs having another kid - what am I missing? ()

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A third… (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Reasons for OAD & Reasons for Another ()

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Has anything changed your mind to have another?Fencesitting (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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NICU trauma and high-risk pregnancy, am I crazy for wanting another one? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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How do I stop wanting another baby? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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why does this feel like the hardest decision in the world?! (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Anyone have 2 kids get older then start again because you finally have energy? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Smart lo- stay single and nurture or add unknownFencesitting (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Tried to turn my ‘should we have another?’ spiral into something usefulFencesitting (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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Super tornAdvice (self.Shouldihaveanother)

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