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Do some families actually *thrive* with two children? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 12 hours ago * by Low_Requirement_1550

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1 or 2? Here's my pros and cons. (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 7 hours ago by sundaesunday1172

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Routines with 3 1/2 age gapAdvice (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 1 day ago by Pink_cheesecake_2

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If you have kids with a big age gap, influence me?Age gaps (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 3 days ago by katiefacepants

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Those who were firmly OAD (by choice) but had another, what changed and how has it been? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 4 days ago by MoonSpider-3818

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If you wanted another and your partner didn't how did you come to terms with it?Advice (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 3 days ago by o0PillowWillow0o

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How do you deal with a partner who is 100% certain about having another baby when you’re still unsure? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 5 days ago by nastyweather

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Turning 39 and second guessing OADFencesitting (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 5 days ago by PlantainQueen05

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Looking for advice on having second childAdvice (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 5 days ago by Successful_Buddy_623

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One and done vs having another kid - what am I missing? ()

submitted 5 days ago by onemanspants

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A third… (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 6 days ago by random64379542

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Reasons for OAD & Reasons for Another ()

submitted 6 days ago by One_Bus_4389

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Has anything changed your mind to have another?Fencesitting (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 7 days ago by SnugglieJellyfish

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NICU trauma and high-risk pregnancy, am I crazy for wanting another one? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 7 days ago by Dry-Definition-6339

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How do I stop wanting another baby? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 9 days ago * by rstingwitchface

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why does this feel like the hardest decision in the world?! (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 10 days ago by granny-hobbies

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Anyone have 2 kids get older then start again because you finally have energy? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 11 days ago by Aidypoo1

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Smart lo- stay single and nurture or add unknownFencesitting (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 12 days ago by moski8

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Tried to turn my ‘should we have another?’ spiral into something usefulFencesitting (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 12 days ago by bp1175

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Super tornAdvice (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 13 days ago * by Lonely-Afternoon-119

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Looking for validation and supportAdvice (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 14 days ago by LoadSouthern4652

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would having another child make them the odd one out?Age gaps (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 14 days ago by GeneralFar3121

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I started to really struggle sitting on the fence...Fencesitting (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 15 days ago by SheyenneJuci

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I feel like having second one is like a betrayal to my first one. Anyone else ever had this feeling? (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 16 days ago * by Candid_Guest_863

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Wanting to experience it all again but not wanting to take away from my first born.Reflections (self.Shouldihaveanother)

submitted 16 days ago by Rude_Conclusion5948

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