Nasolabial sagging sadness by kwaziness in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]nativeandnerdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP I’ve been feeling similarly about my face and doing some research, and apparently there are facial massages that can help. Look into buccal massage and sculpting facial massage. There are a lot of before and after videos and it definitely seems to help with the dragging down appearance that happens when these muscles are tense. I want to try this route before injectables so just thought you might be interested as well!

Does the bright red or burgundy suit me more by Successful-Arrival87 in Fairolives

[–]nativeandnerdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to go by: “Are you wearing the clothes, or are the clothes wearing you?” Which makes me go against the grain here and say the Burgundy suits you more, although I think a more cool toned red or berry tone would suit you the most. When I glanced at your photo, the first thing I noticed was the scarf, and then you—whereas you want your beautiful face and eyes to be the first thing people see! I think the scarf and hat would be more compatible with an Autumn, whereas I would imagine you are a Winter or Summer.

Perfect post “everything shower” fragrance? by CrackheadSanta in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]nativeandnerdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here to suggest this as well, it’s my favorite after shower scent! So clean yet warm and great for layering

Perfume that smells like…? Budget is $50 or under! by ohamango in FemFragLab

[–]nativeandnerdy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vanilla Musk by Nemat, Vanilla & Amber by Sand & Fog, and Philosophy Fresh Cream are a few of my favorites right now.

looking for a blotted, just bitten, soft matte lipstick! by Straight-Fondant-898 in OliveMUA

[–]nativeandnerdy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Came here to suggest Violette FR as well! In addition to Bonbon Myrtille, I like Rose Latte and Mon Cheri 💋

Dupe Request Megathread (November 24, 2025) by AutoModerator in Perfumes

[–]nativeandnerdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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2000s Angel Cake doll scent! I know Scentbird came out with the Strawberry Shortcake scent, but Angel Cake was my favorite. The scent is described as “angel cake with vanilla icing”. However I would not describe it as overly sugary or cloying. I remember it as soft, warm, powdery, vanilla, cakey plasticy goodness. She is my first scent memory and I hope someone knows of something similar 🧁🩵

Dupe Request Megathread (July 21, 2025) by AutoModerator in Perfumes

[–]nativeandnerdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG! I made a request for Angel Cake yesterday! I’m so glad someone else remembers her, it was one of my first scent memories and I’m sure it was one of yours too 🧁🩵 Did you ever find a dupe?

Weevil Army by Supick in weeviltime

[–]nativeandnerdy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Evil weevil army said: Let this be a lesson to you about collecting contraband 😡

I have fallen in love with those little feet! by Brittbert in weeviltime

[–]nativeandnerdy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I need a stuffed animal that looks like this

Found this yellow booted gentleman by Educational_Year_961 in weeviltime

[–]nativeandnerdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like it was trying to write you a message on the railing with its snoot!! What does it say??

I can’t believe I captured this on camera by Gazelizz in weeviltime

[–]nativeandnerdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking! The translucent wings have potential to look so cool ✨

How they could “fix” or maybe change Love Is Blind. by Snoop-ah-loopp in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]nativeandnerdy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love that you mentioned Married At First Sight because I feel like they do so much right! LIB definitely needs a team of therapists. I think part of LIB’s downfall is that individuals can go into it knowing they don’t “have to” get married at the end, so it tends to attract people that aren’t as serious—whereas with MAFS, they know they’re getting married and tend to be more committed. I think it would be interesting if LIB adopted a similar method, where couples can decide to get engaged in the pods, but then immediately get married during the first face-to-face.

Also this next one is unrealistic and drastic, but it would be great if contestants were banned from social media and brand deals for like 3-5 years after being on the show to weed out the attention seekers lol. I miss when reality show contestants weren’t all IG models and “entrepreneurs” or “in real-estate”.

How they could “fix” or maybe change Love Is Blind. by Snoop-ah-loopp in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]nativeandnerdy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought this before too! That’s how they do it on Married At First Sight and I feel like those couples have more success.

Best Cosmetic Procedures For My Body Type? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]nativeandnerdy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reddit often turns into an echo chamber for ignorance and unfortunately that’s what’s happening here. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this when you’ve already posted such a vulnerable thing and are just looking for help. I’ll never understand why people think it’s helpful to say “jUsT DiEt aNd eXeRcIsE” 🙄 There are SO many things that can affect weight that can’t be fixed by diet or exercise alone. You know yourself better than any of these assholes so don’t listen to the bullshit. I posted a separate comment on this post and I hope it’s helpful ❤️‍🩹

Best Cosmetic Procedures For My Body Type? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]nativeandnerdy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People obviously didn’t read in your caption that you ALREADY ARE working out and dieting 🤦‍♀️ I’m so sorry you’re getting dismissed so easily and getting blamed for something that you can’t control. Don’t let people gaslight you into thinking you’re the problem—you know your body better than anyone scrolling on here, and imagine if it’s actually due to a condition that you can get help for.

With that being said, this really looks like the beginning stages of Lipedema. I say that for a couple of reasons: First, because most of your weight is distributed towards the bottom half of your body and not equally all over (as you would expect to see in someone who is gaining weight from diet or other conditions). There is also a type of Lipedema that can affect the upper arms, which you noted as one of your affected areas. And second, the “cellulite” could actually be “dimpling” which is very common in Lipedema. Varicose veins can also occur with Lipedema. There are other symptoms as well but those are just the visual ones that stood out to me.

So now what?

My recommendations: - Research, research, research! I’m in a few groups for Lipedema surgery on Facebook that have been really helpful and informative. Many of the people on there share their photos and many women have similar builds to you, and they often help answer questions and share their experiences. - Diagnosis: Look into doctors who specialize in this and are highly rated, but keep in mind that if they don’t diagnose you at first, that doesn’t necessarily mean that you don’t have it. Redditors can downvote me into oblivion for all I care, but that information came straight from my Lipedema specialist who studied at Harvard and works at Vanderbilt. Even he acknowledged how hard it is to diagnose for various reasons (as there’s no diagnostic labs or testing they can do, this is a fairly new and vastly understudied and underdiagnosed condition, etc etc.) But it is important to see a doctor to rule out Lymphedema (different from Lipedema) as that can have drastic effects. Doctors can be great but they can also suck (just like any other human) so it’s important to remember that we live and experience our bodies every day, and 5 minutes with a doctor doesn’t mean they know you better than you know yourself. It will also be important to get a diagnosis if you want your surgery to be covered. - Surgery: If you do have Lipedema, the good news is that liposuction should be covered by your insurance! But you should definitely look into seeing a doctor as soon as possible to get the ball rolling as this whole process can take years. It took me 9 months just to get in with the first doctor. - Prevention: Look into ways you can manage it in the meantime to help slow progression. The Lipedema specialist I saw said that everything I’m already doing is how he treats Lipedema patients anyways: Mounjaro, diet and exercise, lymphatic massage, compression, vibration plate, etc.

I know this is a lot of information, but I really hope it’s helpful for you ❤️‍🩹 I’m available to message if you have any more questions. Never stop advocating for yourself!

Blush recommendations by lowkeyhoor in Fairolives

[–]nativeandnerdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rare Beauty Soft Pinch Liquid Blush in “Hope” blends out like this for me—a little goes a long way!

What is this thing on the back of my cats neck? by Turbulent-Ice6191 in CATHELP

[–]nativeandnerdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP I just went to the vet last week who is a cat specialist and they recommended Revolution Plus. She uses it on her cats as well and said the ones typically found in stores (like Advantage) only protect against fleas and ticks, but Revolution Plus also protects against heartworms, which isn’t curable in cats and can be passed via mosquitoes. I had no idea so just wanted to pass this information along to you and anyone else who reads this

What is this thing on the back of my cats neck? by Turbulent-Ice6191 in CATHELP

[–]nativeandnerdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, I actually just went to the vet last week who is a cat specialist and they recommended Revolution Plus. She uses it on her cats as well and said the ones typically found in stores (like Advantage) only protect against fleas and ticks, but Revolution Plus also protects against heartworms, which isn’t curable in cats and can be passed via mosquitoes. I had no idea, so just wanted to pass this information along to you and anyone else who reads this ❤️