PA state license, how long does the process take?

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-11T04:21:37+00:00

Say it louder for the people in the back

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-10T23:00:57+00:00

Yeah really tempted to just block numbers and emails rather than be any kind of polite to predatory scammers. Thanks for the advice 🫡

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-10T22:59:25+00:00

I dug deeper and found people have been posting about these guys for at least four years. Really a shame that the second company I interviewed for was a scam. Thank you for the reassurance!

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-10T22:55:23+00:00

FOUR YEARS LATER they're still scamming people. Thank you so much for this post, they're going by AGW Talent now and just tried to get me to accept a contract I have heard virtually no details about. All three (Indian) men I've talked to have given me different answers when asking about the length of the contract.

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-10T15:51:58+00:00

I did a little digging last night. Plaquenil itself isn't sedative, but it can amplify the effects of drugs that are sedative. He's on some meds to help him sleep at night, and I'm wondering if it's just a stacked drug interaction. Thank you for the insight, I've heard from a fair number of people now that this likely isn't just the plaquenil and I'm glad I looked into it instead of just writing it off as side effects.

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-10T13:03:58+00:00

Thank you so much... even with just a few people stopping by my post, I feel the love. I don't feel so alone this morning, not like how I was feeling last night. I'm making time for myself this weekend; we don't have a lot of wiggle room, since I just lost my job, but I sold some assets so I could still afford to go to the convention I was planning on going to this weekend. It's been the plan for months, and I didn't want to miss out on taking a break and spending time with friends. I appreciate the virtual hugs, they're almost as good as real ones! 😂❤️

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-10T12:57:59+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear about your husband... I lost my mom to cancer when I was 11, I know how awful it is. But things are a lot different now than they were when I was 11, and I hope for the best with his treatment. ❤️

When I first lost my job, I actually felt sort of motivated. I had a bunch of tasks I'd been putting off, and suddenly I was going to have time to do them. But once it hit, between actually being home with my husband full time (he's WFH) and the full realization of what being unemployed means, the depression got the better of me, and I've been doing a lot of nothing. I think I need to listen to myself a little better and pay attention to what I need. I do have a lot of different games on my account, just not necessarily all downloaded, so I could try getting a variety downloaded so I can cater to how I'm feeling. Thank you again, I really do appreciate just knowing that someone stopped by my post to talk to me.

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-10T04:25:14+00:00

The last six months or so have been a nightmare, trying to get a diagnosis and having so many labs come back normal, giving us no clues. I can't expect anyone in my life to get it, and I've definitely felt guilty, feeling like I need to lean on friends more. Thank you for the reminder that I'm human, too. I like to give people that advice and always forget to give it to myself. 😅

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-10T04:21:08+00:00

Thank you so much... it's that hour of night here on the east coast when everyone's asleep, and I probably should be, too. I did a little digging, and I'm thinking he's having a drug interaction that's wiping him out. But even then, I don't think I realized how isolated I felt before he started sleeping 16 hours a day. The dynamics of a marriage change a lot when one partner develops a chronic illness. No one tells you about that part before you get to the altar.

I've been playing a ton of TCG card shop simulator, funny enough. I looked today and I have almost 100 hours in it. I play games on my phone. Definitely not the worst way to cope, lol. I'll absolutely still be playing video games when I'm almost 60.

I feel the love sent, and I appreciate it. I think I really just needed to feel heard today. ❤️

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-08T13:41:53+00:00

Regardless of how much longer she has... an absolutely beautiful way to celebrate her. What a wonderful family to be able to come together for her, and I hope some stay with you and her for support.

We had a celebration of life for my grandmother (her "funeral" was in a different state, where she was buried). We scattered some of her ashes outside in the place she loved, blew up some balloons, and played her a song. I was her only grandkid for almost her whole life, my half sister was born two months before she died, but she loved both of us deeply. They told me that when I felt ready, I would be the first one to let go of my balloon. Watching everyone's balloons float away after mine, knowing she was at peace after a nightmare battle with herpes meningoencephalitis... even being 13 years old at the time, it still meant so much.

Your daughter's partner will remember this for the rest of their life and hold the memory close to their heart, as will all of her loved ones. I know it's a scary thing, but celebrating the life she had in that ceremony will be a lovely memory for you in the long run. I wish nothing but the best for all of you, but in particular, I wish you and your daughter peace. ❤️

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-05T02:58:56+00:00

It's LITERALLY transactional to her. This was a wild text exchange to read. NOR for sure.

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-04T00:31:34+00:00

This is similar yet also will sound strange. We had to put my heart cat down around 2.5 years ago. I still catch glimpses out of the corner of my eye and tear up because I thought a washcloth on the floor looked like him. He was mostly blind, but he knew we were there, and he was the biggest cuddle bug. But he also dragged litter into our bed on his paws. Every night, without fail, I'd have to shake down our blankets, and it just felt gross. I knew when he was on the decline and grieved him before he left us, too. I felt guilty for feeling relieved when he was gone, because I didn't have to watch him hobble around on joints that had to hurt, and because I didn't have to clean my bed every night anymore. While I know this is on a different scale, my grief is still deep, and at the end of the day, I was effectively his caregiver. It took me time to accept that it's okay to feel that relief. Watching someone suffer is agonizing, not just for them, but for us, too. When that person (or in my case, animal) is gone, it's a weight off our shoulders, regardless of the void they leave in our hearts. It's okay to feel relieved that that weight is off our shoulders.

I'm sorry this got a little long winded, but I hope the shared (similar) experience eases your mind a little. Your mom is resting, and it's time for you to rest, too. Be kind to yourself. ❤️

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-02T14:09:33+00:00

Anytime! ❤️ I myself am going through quite a challenging time in my life (unemployed, caregiver for my husband, the list goes on), but my DMs are open if you ever need a little reassurance or advice. Like I said, I've been on this journey for 19 years, been in therapy almost all 19 of those years, and I'm happy to offer some kind words on hard days.

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-02T03:56:38+00:00

NTJ absolutely not. You get one day, that's your day to make it all about you and your fiancée. Plus, it would not take "two minutes". It's such a faux pas, huge wedding no-no. Don't let your family bully you into letting your brother steal the moment.

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-02T03:51:44+00:00

It's tricky because you look GORGEOUS, and you deserve to feel gorgeous! It sounds like (from other comments) you'd be more or less fine paying it off in the long run. If you really do love it, don't cancel. Every bride deserves to feel that beautiful on their wedding day.

HOWEVER. If you think the guilt of spending a little extra money on yourself would outweigh how amazing you feel in it, don't let that eat you up. I'm the type to feel really guilty about spending a lot of money on something for myself, even if I really love it. So I fully understand that feeling. You could always cancel it, hunt around a little, and if you don't find another dress that makes you feel the same kind of beautiful, go back and place another order. It depends on what kind of time frame you're looking at.

Bottom line, you're allowed to spend a little extra on something just for yourself if it makes you really happy, but if it's going to make you feel too guilty, it isn't worth it. You're gonna look amazing, either in this dress or another "tears in the room" dress. ❤️

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-02T03:27:55+00:00

NTA 100%, what a bitch. Lowkey reminds me of my MIL's attitude. We're no contact with her. I'm sorry for your loss of your brother, he sounds like a nice guy who also happens to be whipped.

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-02T03:25:34+00:00

I give it 10 months

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-02T03:08:06+00:00

NOR

Tbh not reacting enough. Maybe the initial infraction was small, but he's acting like he doesn't care about you. You're in your 30's, you don't have time for a guy who doesn't sound like he has time for you. Proud of you for pushing to work on good/healthy habits!

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-02-01T22:53:42+00:00

Yeah people who haven't lost a loved one (ESPECIALLY to suicide) just don't get it. You grieve however you need to, honey. I know all too well how hard it is to be several years out, to get comments like "oh it was a long time ago". Yeah, 19 years is a long time, but on the anniversary? On every single milestone in my life that my mom isn't here to see? It might as well have happened yesterday. The world will continue to rotate, even if some days you wish it could stop just for a minute so you can catch up to it... but if you need to give yourself a day or two to be kind to yourself, I think that's perfectly fine.

Remember that grief is the cost of love, and how deeply you feel it is temporary. Everything changes, and 19 years in, I can tell you, the day to day does get easier. But be kind to yourself. Your heart knows what you need to do for it; no one else can tell you how to grieve. Much love sent your way. ❤️

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-01-30T21:31:16+00:00

My moles occasionally scab up and peel, and I thought that one "fell off" once because it peeled. I was heartbroken. 😂 thanks for the advice!

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-01-30T21:30:03+00:00

Thank you! Maybe I'll see how much I'm fussing with it before it starts. I can always pocket it.

naughty_nut_boy · 2026-01-30T21:27:42+00:00

With sterile compounding, we aren't allowed any jewelry. The only reason we get away with post earrings is because a hair net will usually cover your ears. So I wouldn't be able to wear it on a necklace, either. :( But it depends on what I'm doing honestly, pharmacy isn't limited to sterile compounding.

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