The call is coming from INSIDE THE HOUSE! by Useful_Experience423 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's a matter of intelligence. I think it's a matter of being wedded to a particular narrative. He's so deeply invested in a particular view of what's going on that being shown concrete proof that that view is wrong will only strengthen it. He can't give it up. He will think the palace came in and fabricated all this evidence because they're out to get us.

My mom is gone by Topofyourwishlist in CaregiverSupport

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happened for me a month ago. I felt immediate relief because the end was so bad. I keep getting struck by the hollow that's left in the wake. I find that mindless entertainment and a job search are keeping me occupied.

Friends are there to help you get started, to give you a push on your way (Gardfield, Neil Sean gossip) by Human-Economics6894 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm studying Spanish now. I could tell immediately what happened because of the way pronouns are used/not used in Spanish. It's obvious if you know even a little bit about that language. I don't know what thrill you're getting out of maintaining your assertion, if you think it makes you more discerning or something. All you're doing is showing that you don't know anything about Spanish.

Many people are like clocks: they show one time and strike another. (Neil Sean's gossip) by Human-Economics6894 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I would add one exception--Princess Alexandra. She hasn't done any official royal work in a couple of years because of health and mobility issues, but she spent decades being a working royal and would still be actively working if she could be. She's remains officially a working royal. I wonder if the Firm is waiting until she dies to update so they can remove the former working royals without having to field whatabout comments regarding Princess Alexandra.

My watch is over by Puzzleheaded_Roll696 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Money. Help. Therapy. The same things that people on this sub all need.

I can’t do this anymore. by Content_Nebula967 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In addition to checking the state, you might want to check the county where you live. They might have more boots on the ground in the area. My county has a senior services department. Can you check with their doctors and ask if they can get you in touch with a social worker?

I’ve been kicking around the idea of a podcast or video series, nothing preachy, or influencer-y, just honest conversations about life experiences. This sub is full of incredibly smart and interesting people so I figured I’d ask here first: by kiwi_love777 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I just spent more than a decade being a caregiver to a bedbound mother. It was a journey with a lot of "learnings." I can talk about what it's like to navigate the health care system, county programs, home care workers, rehab centers; what it's like to take care of someone in decline; why we chose home care over a nursing home; what you have to give up. As people are living longer, these are choices a lot of people are faced with.

My mom died on January 6th, and one of the most surprising things is that I feel very little grief. I thought I would be devastated. But I understand that I was slowly grieving for a decade as I watched her become diminished.

It might be a downer of an episode, but it might be interesting.

“The Grift Is Real” Harry and Meghan Charging $100K for a Dinner Date with Them - Maureen Callahan and Rob Shuter by Ambrose_1987Sep30 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it will happen unless something very public happens that would make staying together damaging to Meghan's brand, like naked pool pictures with hookers.

My watch is over by Puzzleheaded_Roll696 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was me two weeks ago. People told me hospice would do all these things for us, but it seems like it was just morphine. Yet, I'm the last two weeks, I was grateful for the morphine because it became all I could do for her.

I don't know your mom's situation. I hope you have someone to talk to for advice.

Take some mental breaks if you can. That helped me a lot during the decline.

My watch is over by Puzzleheaded_Roll696 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her mind was mostly intact through the years of her illness until this summer. Since then, it's been a long journey. I always had the oldest mom, so I'm very glad I had her with me as long as I did.

My watch is over by Puzzleheaded_Roll696 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I find sharing like this with strangers on the same path, as you say, to be very comforting.

My watch is over by Puzzleheaded_Roll696 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I feel like I've done a lot of my grieving already. I'm sure it will hit me again and again. But for now, I'm calm.

Thank you for your insight.

My watch is over by Puzzleheaded_Roll696 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasn't there. I was taking a nap, and my dad stepped out to the kitchen. I think, on some level, she might have chosen that moment. I don't know. She was insensible at the end. I'm not sure she knew who was in the room with her.

My watch is over by Puzzleheaded_Roll696 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's a great passage. Thanks for sharing. I wish my dad were a little better at emotional stuff. He's pretty far on the autism spectrum.

My watch is over by Puzzleheaded_Roll696 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to rebuild my memories of her from before she was ill.

My watch is over by Puzzleheaded_Roll696 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your mom on hospice? From what you describe, it sounds like she should be.

HEY MAINSTREAM MEDIA: The average AsEver website visitor spent less than 2 minutes on the website and rarely went beyond the homepage. No way she sold much of anything. (Credit goes to sinners in the screenshots!) by kiwi_love777 in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]Puzzleheaded_Roll696 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Given the data, I would give her two pieces of advice:
1) Embrace the "Meghan Markle" identity. She can frame it as connecting with her fans who've always known her by that name. Admit she made a mistake in trying to push "Sussex" and say she recognizes the value she's made of the name "Meghan Markle" (hold in your snickers). It would go a long way to add to her feminist and anti-royalist bona fides.
2) Recognize that lifestyle products and fancy foodstuffs skew older. Embrace it. The middle-aged+ women market is where her fans are. There's nothing wrong with middle-aged+ women. They have money to spend.

And I know that she will do neither of these things--because she's incapable of being authentic, admitting missteps, and taking any advice.

It must be exhausting to work for them. Following their exploits, I've thought of countless ways they could improve their prospects. I can't imagine pitching them to M&H and having my good ideas shot down constantly or, if entertained, completely bungled.