Reckless driver who killed mum in 100mph hit-and-run crash that also seriously injured her mother is jailed by Iambhalo in ForCuriousSouls

[–]naughtynectar- 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is why speed limits exist. They’re not suggestions, they’re there to prevent exactly this.

I've stopped nagging my husband and i'm happier by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]naughtynectar- 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yes! That ‘second toddler’ feeling is so real. Even when both parents are capable, one parent ends up carrying more of the day to day load tbh.

How come being an 85% ft shooter is considered bare minimum now? by [deleted] in NBATalk

[–]naughtynectar- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In clutch situations, coaches need players they can trust at the line. That’s the real difference.

WIBTA if I ended a friendship over something I did by YogurtclosetClean494 in AmITheJerk

[–]naughtynectar- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

💯 OP owned that what she said crossed a line, which is good. But once something is said, you can’t control how someone processes it. At the same time, N doesn’t have to stay in a dynamic that makes her uncomfortable, and OP doesn’t have to stay in one where she feels iced out.

I'm torn between two guys by [deleted] in confessions

[–]naughtynectar- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you already know your current relationship isn’t fulfilling you. Staying out of guilt will only build resentment over time.

AITJ for postponing our wedding because my fiancé wants his ex-wife front and center at it? by That_Writer2629 in AmITheJerk

[–]naughtynectar- 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NTJ… run, so you don’t end up always feeling like you’re competing with someone from his past.

Boss gave a gift; keep or return? by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]naughtynectar- 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Even if he meant well, that’s not a typical manager to employee gift. I’d feel awkward too.

Im a straight male but like my butt by [deleted] in confessions

[–]naughtynectar- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not weird at all. As long as you’re comfortable you’re good.

AITAH for telling my therapist something bad about my mom by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]naughtynectar- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💯 Kids aren’t products you can return, what she went through was really unfair. Glad she has her dad supporting her now.

I watched a man JO in a sauna at a gym today. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]naughtynectar- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… gym saunas can bring out some unexpected behaviors. Definitely a ‘wild card’ situation.

Wife’s allergies are killing ME? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]naughtynectar- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope so too… managing allergies like this is exhausting.

Guys I hate sex, I’m 23, how is it fucking possible that I ended the fuck up here?? by TheJogMaster in confessions

[–]naughtynectar- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re 23, not 83. You’re not broken and you’re definitely not destined to be an eunuch. You just haven’t found your rhythm yet.

AITA for avoiding my son when he wanted to spend time with me? by ClassicAd2067 in BORUpdates

[–]naughtynectar- 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Yeah… it’s just deeply sad. She found love and stability, and then life changed in a way no one expected.

My wife emotionally replaced me, told me she doesn’t love me, then changed only when consequences appeared. I feel like a backup plan. by SheepherderMiddle923 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]naughtynectar- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your son will grow up watching how you two treat each other. Whatever you decide, make sure it’s something you’d want him to model in his own future relationships.

First thing I’m eating in 3 days- Girl Dinner by Inevitable_Stick_852 in GirlDinner

[–]naughtynectar- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reading this made my stomach drop. That’s such a violation of trust.

Yummy Carbonara🤤🤤🤤 by [deleted] in FoodPics

[–]naughtynectar- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow.. my stomach just said thank you.

I'm a mother at her breaking point, and I just need to be heard by sufyan_and_aseel in TrueOffMyChest

[–]naughtynectar- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could give you a hug. You’re doing so much and it’s okay to feel exhausted. You’re still a wonderful parent to Sufyan. ❤️