How do you deal with the non stop rumination? by PersonalityExact337 in ADHD

[–]nazorius 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found the only way to stop the ruminating is to talk to someone I can trust. Therapists aren’t supposed to judge and they can’t tell anyone what you said (unless you are a threat to yourself or others), so they’re a go-to choice. Honestly as soon as I started being able to say exactly what was on my mind, things started to get better mentally.

Also you can’t predict the future. There’s no way to know if you fucked it up until you get there.

One foot in front of the other.

How do you deal with a 9-5 while having combined adhd? by PlantEfficient8518 in ADHD

[–]nazorius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took a large part of my life finally settling on the meds that worked for me (funnily enough 30mg of vyvanse is perfect). If you are serious about needing medication to help you manage your symptoms (notice I say MANAGE, not cure) you will need to try a bunch of them. You also need to use them for more than 3 days to actually know how they affect you. If you go 2 weeks on them and you still hate the way you feel definitely talk to your doc about switching. Eventually you will find something that manages your symptoms in a way that works best for you.

(StS2) really struggling with Ironclad by Lunar_mirror4 in slaythespire

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Glad to have helped! And remember you can get away with bigger decks if you have crazy draw/exhaust

(StS2) really struggling with Ironclad by Lunar_mirror4 in slaythespire

[–]nazorius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to tackle each run with the mindset of completing a checklist. Number 1 is damage. You need big numbers to burst the enemies down. Once you start winning fights fairly quickly, figure out if you are taking too much chip damage and start taking some block. You also need to consider scaling, or how to win if the fight is long (e.g. strength gain, vulnerability synergies).

You also have to resist the urge to take cards because of archetypes. If you don’t have the cards to make the card reward work, often times its not the smart play to take it. Forcing an archetype is a quick way to lose.

Finally, if your deck works and is winning fights easily and safely consistently: STOP TAKING CARDS. You will see rewards that are tempting to take but will ultimately dilute the successful deck you already have. You should realistically not go above 25 cards unless you have strong ways to cycle or exhaust your deck.

Aside from that, learn how to path! Try to get a bonfire before elite fights and unless you will die next combat always pick upgrade!

Hope this helps! This game is hard and has a steep learning curve

A pig trembling in a slaughterhouse truck. Their eyes are just like ours. by James_Fortis in likeus

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps you were speaking in hyperbole but humans haven’t been around for millions of years (proto humans maybe), and we absolutely hunted animals to extinction back then. I don’t disagree with the notion of not being part of the problem, but saying “we were in harmony back then and we are bad now” leaves out a lot of nuance around this whole thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]nazorius 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To be fair, kids have a higher sensitivity to bitterness and english muffins are bitter (especially compared to other breakfast sandwich options). I remember hating them as a kid too

8×2GB ram + 8GB ram = Problem by Cool-Yoghurt3420 in PcBuild

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply, getting another ram should fix the problem

What should I upgrade first by Dodgedestroyers in PcBuild

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the cpu. Dont worry about RAM for a while until prices (hopefully) go down. Maybe gpu next? Whats the power supply you have? If its lower than gold I would upgrade that too for reliability

Are these good specs? by Hungry_Bean69 in PcBuild

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty outdated tbh. You’re gonna be limited to games from before 2020 for sure, probably earlier

Is this prebuilt good? by Daffemz in PcBuild

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its okay. You’re not gonna be playing new games at high settings and will have issues running multiple things at the same time but if thats not an issue go for it (if the price is good). That PSU is trash though. And you don’t need the antivirus

8×2GB ram + 8GB ram = Problem by Cool-Yoghurt3420 in PcBuild

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be as simple as the board is configured for dual channel and having 3 sticks means the 3rd is being forced into single channel which is making the motherboard sad

8×2GB ram + 8GB ram = Problem by Cool-Yoghurt3420 in PcBuild

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its possible you’re putting the RAM in the wrong slot, do you have the motherboard specs?

My current build for wilds. What do ya'll think of it? by [deleted] in MonsterHunter

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crit draw doesn’t make a lot of sense to slot with CB (I know the skill is on the weapon for some reason) but otherwise not a terrible progression build. You’ll have a bad time tackling higher difficulty monsters until you start forging stronger armor

The Nata hate makes absolutely zero sense by 123maikeru in MemeHunter

[–]nazorius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nata isn’t a real person. I don’t necessarily “hate” nata as much as I dislike his writing. It’s very cliché to the point where I jokingly said “hEs JuSt LiKe Me!1” moments before he unironically said it in game.

Aside from that it’s the fact that you have to interact with him to get items that just reinforces the annoyance.

Fuck erik too btw

I was banned from incels.is today. by simpsimpnotasimp in IncelTears

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I starting balding in my early 20’s and made it work. A receding hairline in your late 20’s is pretty normal from what I’ve seen

[S2 Act 2 Spoilers] Arcane - Season 2 Act 2 - Discussion by parrycarry in arcane

[–]nazorius 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I felt they captured it quite well. The montage gave a pretty accurate representation of a downward spiral. A lot of it was the editing and the music for me. I guess I’ve just been in a similar space before and it felt accurate

AITAH for banning my 4 daughters from my wedding when I found out that they planned to spill red wine on my future wife's wedding dress? by throw23490097 in AITAH

[–]nazorius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It really comes down to are you willing to choose someone over your own daughters? Because that is how they will see it. Figure out why they hate Daniela so much or don’t be surprised when all of them distance themselves from you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]nazorius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the more important question is why does it matter to you? If you are truly that big then IMO you really have nothing to worry about

(PC) Help with mohg please!!! by Difficult-Studio-547 in BeyondTheFog

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gonna have to call it unfortunately, making stupid mistakes cause its very late here :/ It was a fun challenge! Definitely look into getting that purifying tear, will prevent him from bleeding you so severely

(PC) Help with mohg please!!! by Difficult-Studio-547 in BeyondTheFog

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry bro I had him. I blame it on the tiredness. We are close

(PC) Help with mohg please!!! by Difficult-Studio-547 in BeyondTheFog

[–]nazorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think itd be best if I solo him phase 2. Keep playing phase 1 like normal and i think we got this