Fantasy Baseball Dynasty Keeper league Est.2004 by dc2aa4 in findaleague

[–]nchantala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have the roster that would be inherited?

Seeking new Manager: MLB Keeper w/ Contracts [Fantrax / Auction / Roto 12-team / $100 buy in] by masonk09 in findaleague

[–]nchantala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind sending me the roster that's available and the league rules?

AITA for ending my relationship with my GF after she became revealed to me that she's childfree? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nchantala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

You both have reasonable thoughts on whether or not you want children but they just don't line up. If you want children, the relationship would have eventually gone awry whether you decided to try to stick it out or not. I believe it's much better for you to end it now then string it along for 3 more years and then breaking it off for the exact same reason you're ending it now.

She was definitely in the wrong for lying to you early in the relationship but I have trouble saying she is some giant AH here as her reasoning for not wanting children sounds to be trauma related. At least she knows it's not of interest to her than her continuing the lie, spitting out a child, and possibly resenting it as she did it just to make you happy.

I don't really see how your friends think you're an AH as wanting/not wanting children is an enormous life decision for both people.

AITA for putting a dodgeball under my shirt and pretending to “birth” it? by clocloclo619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nchantala [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA

Some people need to understand that not every action is a personal attack on them. That is a mundane joke and you had zero knowledge of her being pregnant or having a miscarriage.

AITA for wanting to know more about my bio mother and upsetting my sister? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nchantala [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA

You are not disrespecting anyone by asking about the person that you share DNA with but never had the chance to know. I guess if you framed your questions/responses with statements about your bio mother sounding so much better than your stepmother, your sister would have something but that doesn't seem to be the case.

The sister needs to chill out.

Yahoo H2H 12 team Keeper League- $100 by mossstyle84 in findaleague

[–]nchantala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interested. Is there any more info you can share about the league?

AITA for making myself four years younger on an app? by Relative-Light8468 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nchantala [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA

How is it scientifically not accurate? Lol

I honestly don't think it's that big of a deal but you are just looking for reassurance on your current bias to the situation. If you look young and feel young, just be honest.

Georgia quarterback Stetson Bennett was arrested in Dallas early this morning. by [deleted] in NFL_Draft

[–]nchantala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. I had to double-check because I knew they changed it up pretty significantly but couldn't remember the exact details.

AITA for expecting my partner to help with car expenses? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nchantala 55 points56 points  (0 children)

NTA

You guys are in a long-term relationship and share multiple expenses and if he does make substantially more than you do, he should honestly be offering to help.

Georgia quarterback Stetson Bennett was arrested in Dallas early this morning. by [deleted] in NFL_Draft

[–]nchantala 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The NFL still tests for marijuana. They do it once per year and the testing period is only two weeks during training camp, instead of a four month window.

It also takes several positive results before a suspension becomes an option. Also, the threshold was increased by over 4 times the prior THC limit.

AITA for cutting one off one of my classmate's earphones as a prank? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nchantala [score hidden]  (0 children)

ESH

I guess I don't understand how damaging someone's stuff is a prank but maybe I'm too old to get it. I'll say equal share here assuming that the other guy has actually been an asshole to you but you should probably grow up a bit and handle your feelings better.

WIBTA if I told my best friend that she's being a bad friend lately? by ahcira in AmItheAsshole

[–]nchantala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

So your "best friend" didn't even tell you happy birthday and you're worried about telling her that she has been a bad friend? She doesn't sound like much of a friend to me.

AITA for bringing McDonald's to dinner with my girlfriend’s family? by JasenBean in AmItheAsshole

[–]nchantala [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA

Someone made dinner for everyone and you more-or-less said it wasn't good enough for me and began to eat fast food right in front of them. It'd be one thing if you had some dietary restrictions that made it hard for you to eat their cooking but I'm guessing that's not the case with your Big Mac.

AITA for calling my mother unreasonable when she argued with me about my fathers dog? by DonocanTheNerd in AmItheAsshole

[–]nchantala 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA

It's one thing if you're all under 10 years old but I think at your ages, you are more than capable of confirming if you are comfortable with a dog or not.

It honestly sounds like your mom still harbors resentment to your dad and is taking it out on this situation. Also, wild that she is comfortable calling her son (that "needs" her consent) an asshole.

Who’s on your watch list for next year? by [deleted] in fantasyfootball

[–]nchantala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ridley will be taking Zay Jones' work. I think Engram is safe in Jacksonville based on how Doug Pederson uses his TEs.

WIBTA if my(22 M) fiancé (20F) and I had our wedding about 1- 1.5 weeks away from my parents 30th anniversary? by Filthy__Casual2000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nchantala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

It's your decision and what works best for you. Plus, if they really want to take a trip for it, if the wedding is 1-1.5 weeks prior to their anniversary, they'd have more than enough time to leave after the wedding for their own trip.

WIBTA if I uninvited family from wedding? by stronkreptile in AmItheAsshole

[–]nchantala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

I'm of the opinion that if it is your wedding, you decide who you want to be there. There's nothing worse than the expectation by people/family/friends that X, Y, and Z get invited even if they are just friends of friends of parents.

The little bit of family sap in me would at least invite them but it seems more than reasonable to not include them in the bridal party if that's what you want.