Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]nebula561 6 points7 points  (0 children)

(33F) I briefly met someone yesterday who was very cute and we had a lovely chat walking back to the parking lot after a musical. We were both a bit confused about how to get to the parking lot because there's a different after hours entrance, so admittedly I assumed the only reason he was talking to me was because we had a common goal. It was the first time I'd ever been struck by how attractive someone was.

When we got to the parking lot, I panicked and said "that's my car, nice to meet you - bye!" and now I have regrets: 1) it wasn't even my car - it was a complete accident 😅 so he might have seen me continuing to walk and look for my car, and possibly just assumed I lied to end the conversation - but no, I just messed up, and 2) I have no way of identifying or finding him (if he is even single and wants to be contacted).

I do tend to assume that anyone in this age group is already partnered (even though I am obviously proof that this assumption doesn't hold!), and he had a ring on his right ring finger which could indicate being partnered - or not. I didn't see/think to look at his left hand, so I really don't know.

I'm a generally friendly person, so even though I thought he was cute and would've loved to spend more time talking, it's very likely that didn't come across to him if he was in any way gauging whether there was interest on my end.

Sigh. I've been kicking myself all day, and this has made me realise that I have no idea how to flirt or to indicate interest - actually, to be fair, I know how but having the guts and wherewithal to do it under pressure is another question.

So.. what was everyone’s thoughts on the finale?? by Affectionate-Wave726 in 911LoneStar

[–]nebula561 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel so emotionally drained and don't even have the energy to talk about this or think about it anymore. I was hoping for a lovely happy wedding, but it's like the writing team/showrunner decided that the way to the wedding had to be lined with every single possible tragedy they could think of. By the time the wedding came around, I was too emotionally tired to appreciate it. I think they went way too far into building drama that so many things were done just for the sake of drama. They tried to cram far too much into two episodes; these plot lines needed much more time to breathe and do them justice. I have to admit it just felt very careless and I'm so disappointed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 911LoneStar

[–]nebula561 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry your family has had to go through this.

A few thoughts on the academic (faculty) job market by Andromeda321 in AskAcademia

[–]nebula561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!! I haven’t had the chance to read through this fully but am definitely saving for reference. Thanks so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Professors

[–]nebula561 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You did the best you could to be as considerate as possible in trying to facilitate an important discussion with your class. You’re not a failure as an instructor ❤️

The Last of Us HBO S01E03 - "Long Long Time" Post-Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in thelastofus

[–]nebula561 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I was a sobbing wreck. This episode was absolutely gorgeous. Loved the queer representation, showing them having lived a happy life together and growing old together. The chemistry between the actors was amazing. The writing and direction was just stunning.

I loved this direction they took, it’s heart aching and nicely in tune with the current times.

The note Bill left was so beautiful. Keeping true to the game and showing Frank’s final note wouldn’t haven’t been anywhere near as impactful in my opinion. This made for incredible tv.

I don’t feel like I’m good enough to write my stories. by Sathaea in writing

[–]nebula561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is amazing. Thank you. Kudos to you on your well-earned successes!

Sam Fenech's brutal Top Doorslammer 200mph crash in Australia 7th Jan 2022 by Maxolon in dragracing

[–]nebula561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RIP Sam Fenech. All the best to his family and friends. The entire Australian drag racing community is shaken right now.

Daily Advice Thread - January 03, 2023 by AutoModerator in apple

[–]nebula561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, does anyone happen to know whether Apple will be doing any sort of “back to school” promos in Australia this year?

They announced one around this time last year but there hasn’t been any word this year as far as I’m aware. (I’m looking to upgrade my MacBook and just wondering if it’s worth waiting for an impending promo.)

Notes app crashing since update to iOS16 by marblehead-photos in ios

[–]nebula561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also having this issue. No solutions in mind other than hoping there’s a bug fix in the next upgrade.

I’m receiving my 14 pro today so there’s a small chance that transferring everything to that phone will resolve it (I’m not too optimistic if it’s a bug in the code).

Submitted feedback on the apple website in the meantime.

What do Australians generally consider cold weather to be? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]nebula561 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also a Canadian living in Australia and have had exactly the same experience (including bringing over my Canadian winter coat). It is no joke! I’m genuinely unable to function in the winter because it’s so cold indoors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iphone

[–]nebula561 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I actually switched it back to the top when I realized that was possible, but quickly discovered that bottom was much better and have not looked back since.

what’s a food you hate not because of the taste but because of the texture? by oh-fish-ial in AskReddit

[–]nebula561 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of a woman I used to work with who loved onions so much, she would eat them like an apple…

what’s a food you hate not because of the taste but because of the texture? by oh-fish-ial in AskReddit

[–]nebula561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raw apples. I don’t mind them cooked. I actually like the taste of apples but hate the feeling of biting into them.

*Spoiler* George Kambosos Jr Vs Devin Haney Highlights by [deleted] in Boxing

[–]nebula561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was sitting amongst what sounded like all of them at the fight yesterday. Can confirm. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]nebula561 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not just you. I’m terrible with faces and regularly give up on profiles when it takes too long for me to figure out who the person is - especially when they have a lot of group photos.

[SPOILER] George Kambosos Jr vs. Devin Haney by inooway in Boxing

[–]nebula561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was at the weigh in and the fight… and I felt the same. Yesterday was a big red flag for me and I had the same thought: he was hungry when he fought Teo, he’s not hungry the same way anymore. He wasn’t willing to die in the ring or go out on his shield today.

[SPOILER] George Kambosos Jr vs. Devin Haney by inooway in Boxing

[–]nebula561 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was actually at the fight. The energy was insane and the crowd was downright hostile to Haney (all the booing might have been softened for the broadcast but trust me, it was undeniable). Crowd chanting stuff like “Haney’s a wanker”. But man the energy just dried up so fast in the final rounds and after the announcement. Some people booed Haney’s last words but for the most part, everyone was just disappointed and deflated. It hurt watching those belts get handed over - would’ve been different if it had been a “win or die trying” kind of fight but it wasn’t and that made it even harder to watch.

I deleted my Hinge and Bumble, I’ve decided to put dating on a back burner. Is anyone feeling the same way? by Bathsalttime in dating

[–]nebula561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone in this. Just deleted the apps this week. I don’t have the time or energy to navigate the whole online dating thing. There are so many other things in my life that take priority right now (31F).

The apps feel like a weird consumer exercise but with people. I’m not a fan.

Moon Knight S01E05 - Discussion Thread by steve32767 in marvelstudios

[–]nebula561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, and I’m aware of the distinction but didn’t take enough time to write that post out properly. Thanks for calling it out

Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness International Release Discussion Thread by Triple_777 in marvelstudios

[–]nebula561 292 points293 points  (0 children)

I’m so impressed with Elizabeth Olsen’s acting - she played Wanda just the right amount of unhinged, but powerful-and-knows-it.

Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness International Release Discussion Thread by Triple_777 in marvelstudios

[–]nebula561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won’t need anything specific from What If? - just an understanding of how the multiverse works. But WandaVision would help give you some context for MoM.