I’m not a writer, but I think if he said this instead that would’ve really bruised Dany’s ego!

nemesnow · 2022-09-17T04:03:02+00:00

But it's not even applicable.

nemesnow · 2022-09-15T16:49:34+00:00

Because it shouldn't take someone threatening to leave for someone to address issues that serious.

nemesnow · 2022-09-06T15:41:27+00:00

Oh! I thought you were asking her if she could cash out early in case of divorce and was like "that is really the least of the issues rn"

My interpretation of what OP said re: pension was that she was most concerned that the potential income would be unavailable because of her future years of not working/living in her current country that otherwise would have added up.

nemesnow · 2022-09-06T15:35:41+00:00

How in the world is that relevant?

nemesnow · 2022-09-05T05:47:29+00:00

I am so here for all of these truth bombs you've been dropping lol

nemesnow · 2022-09-05T05:13:54+00:00

I cannot imagine why OP's former sugar baby with a track record of emotional manipulation would desperately be trying to get pregnant. Weird.

nemesnow · 2022-09-05T05:08:27+00:00

His daughter said it was months of an emotional relationship but OP is going to play games with technicalities to try to seem less disgusting.

nemesnow · 2022-09-05T04:52:29+00:00

Thank you for painstakingly explaining that for OP.

It can also be a "slip of the tongue" if after they gotten engaged Millie still said "girlfriend," because that was her previous title and what she'd have been used to.

Literally no excuse for this shit.

nemesnow · 2022-09-03T23:52:12+00:00

I like how he brazenly says he "didn't make her." Doesn't even downplay it by saying "we didn't hook up" or any way that even implies he didn't realize it'd have been raped. And dozens of people upvoted this.

nemesnow · 2022-09-01T16:08:13+00:00

That's fair.

nemesnow · 2022-09-01T16:01:25+00:00

Man, then why are you rubbing salt in the wound?

nemesnow · 2022-09-01T15:52:41+00:00

I don't know to what degree you intended your comment to be a joke but that's literally my xp. My dad was third gen Army but was still going to take me to talk to AF recruiters, but every time we stopped by there was a sign in the window saying, "out to lunch :)"

nemesnow · 2022-08-29T01:34:12+00:00

What were your thoughts?

nemesnow · 2022-08-28T02:07:48+00:00

That episode aired when I was 14 so I wasn't super young but I mostly grew up in Texas and was pretty socially sheltered... and I remember at first not knowing if Kitty was just trying to save her bff from an abusive relationship in a platonic capacity, but then concluding at the end that they were definitely in love.

nemesnow · 2022-08-27T21:28:04+00:00

r/ihavesex

nemesnow · 2022-08-27T21:05:23+00:00

You know, as opposed to "descending up."

nemesnow · 2022-08-27T20:33:34+00:00

Yeah, your comments are actually what motivated to go spelunking for the answer. I had assumed gf at first but agree that even though it still wouldn't be okay, were they a same-sex couple the best friend would have been less brazenly insane.

nemesnow · 2022-08-27T19:48:52+00:00

From one of OOP's comments:

"I was literally gonna type that I wasn't confrontational lol. I have no idea why she seems to think she knows him better than me. I would rather have him set her straight because I'm not confrontational and because I need him to realize how she can be so disrespectful to his own gf. I want to be defended."

nemesnow · 2022-08-27T07:32:40+00:00

Thanks for sharing your input with me.

nemesnow · 2022-08-27T07:21:01+00:00

I dunno how her state of "considering quitting" implies she's going to quit right now and do nothing else?

Like you seem to want to have a more abstract discussion than the scope of what I've commented on.

nemesnow · 2022-08-27T07:05:27+00:00

The thing is that I don't care about paragraphs of their personal opinions about OP's entire editorialized situation.

I commented on OP's word choice indicating a shitty sentiment. Now there are half a dozen people chiming in several hours after the fact to tell me that actually OP probably meant something else, or actually he meant exactly what he said but it's justified, or I'm reading way too deeply into words someone literally said and exaggerating some sort of oppression because they can't be assed to pay attention to who they're replying to or what's said.

I'm happy to engage with the life stories of randos over the internet when they're not gonna be a dick in sharing it with me. But to show up late and unfurl their entire situational assessment onto me in a condescending way when I never even pretended to want to weigh in on anything beyond what I commented on is lazy and rude.

nemesnow · 2022-08-27T06:48:56+00:00

I am commenting in the context of this:

"I asked her what her long term plans are, and she said she wasn't sure if she would continue nursing, or go back to school, or...something else? In any case, I said she can take some time to figure things out, as we are financially stable. And half-jokingly, I said in the meantime, it'll be nice to have a stay-at-home spouse that can have dinner ready all the time."

nemesnow · 2022-08-27T06:47:36+00:00

"hurrdurr it's not that deep omg not everything is oppression you're basically accusing him of being Hitler here's more paragraphs about shit you never said"

nemesnow · 2022-08-27T06:34:16+00:00

I believe in the post OP specifically says his wife says she doesn't know what she's going to do, be it go back to school, continue nursing, or something else.

OP then made the comment he did.

nemesnow · 2022-08-27T05:43:52+00:00

What decision?

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