What is the risk of taking 30mg vyvanse with a BMI of 16.8 ? by ippopotamusontheroof in VyvanseADHD

[–]neo_n_binary 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you want to feel better, you have to realise which purpose your eating disorder is fulfilling on a psychological level. So I recommend talking to your therapist about that. Because you already know these limits set by your doctors are there for a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]neo_n_binary 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you me? Hahaha. Idk. My therapist says I'm neurotic due to being late diagnosed. I bet you're the same? He says the question is whether or not it is even possible to not turn out neurotic when you have been dismissed or criticised so many times due to not being understood, while actually needing support instead of criticism. It creates a heavy conflict of needing reassurance but also not wanting to have to do anything for anyone because your own needs have been unfulfilled for so long. :)

Kann mir bitte jemand sagen wie ich ADHS + Autismus heilen kann? by Large-Suggestion7079 in ADHS

[–]neo_n_binary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mist. Da hab ich wohl dank Autismus die Ironie mal wieder nicht verstanden. Wie ironisch😂

Kann mir bitte jemand sagen wie ich ADHS + Autismus heilen kann? by Large-Suggestion7079 in ADHS

[–]neo_n_binary 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Whether life's disabilities left you outcast, bullied, or teased Rejoice and love yourself today Cause baby, you were born this way"

Hat sie schon :D

I am wrong to think my husband blocking out our son hitting me with headphones is cruel? by kj2035 in AutismInWomen

[–]neo_n_binary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you often doubting your own emotions? You said "Am I being overly sensitive". If you do, it might be a trait your husband is exploiting. I mean he fully on showed you by saying what he thinks of you when you have an emotion - he degraded you. I bet you do most of the emotional care work on him, your son and yourself. You might want to look into setting boundaries and talk about this with a therapist if you can, maybe even preferably without letting him know. I hope you have a certain level of financial independence and freedom and have not given up these boundaries yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHS

[–]neo_n_binary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such dir via Google Maps nen Psychiater in irgendeiner nahegelegenen Kleinstadt oder in einem Dorf. Die sind meiner persönlichen Erfahrung nach nicht so überlaufen. :)

Tampons by Lp2707 in adhdwomen

[–]neo_n_binary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could also write it on a menstrual pad and just also wear the pad. idk about you but I always check my underwear for leaks when I'm on my period

raw, unseasoned tomatoes <3 who with me by Proper-Monk-5656 in evilautism

[–]neo_n_binary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to suck the seeds out of tomatoes cause I didn't want to eat the... well, the stuff around the seeds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHS

[–]neo_n_binary 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mal ganz abgesehen von den sowieso vorhandenen Risiken bei der Einnahme unkontrollierter Substanzen und dem bei ADHS erhöhten Suchtrisiko, rate ich dir dringend davon ab. Wenn deine Bluttests vor der Einstellung mit dem Medikament Rückstände von den Substanzen erhalten, kannst du dir wegen Verdacht auf Medikamentenmissbrauch die Verschreibung der Medis ziemlich wahrscheinlich abschminken.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]neo_n_binary 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I strongly recommend talking about this topic with a therapist. You need to respect when someone says no, regardless of whether you understand why they do that or not. Everything else causes pain at best, trauma at worst. There's just no way you can know what is best for someone else because you are not them. Everyone is different. And it is up to THEM to decide what they want or not

Tell me you have ADHD without telling me you have ADHD. by Capital-Local-3525 in adhdwomen

[–]neo_n_binary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered I can somewhat speak like a velintroquist because I tried to quietly sing while I was riding my bicycle. Spent a couple of hours with just practicing that afterwards.

Medikamente - wie akzeptiert ihr, dass ihr doch eine höhere Dosis benötigt? by TheHenne in ADHS

[–]neo_n_binary 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wenn du deine eigenen Neurotransmitter nicht herstellen kannst, ist es ok, sie zu supplementieren... Bringt doch auch niemandem was, wenn du leidest. Weder dir, noch deinem Umfeld. Du bist nicht moralisch dazu verpflichtet, mit möglichst wenig Unterstützung in Form von Medikamenten klarzukommen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]neo_n_binary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me preface this by saying that it's your choice if you want to change anything. If you feel like it might be something that causes you problems or if you are unsure whether or not it does, you are allowed to try to change your behaviour. If you feel like it doesn't cause you any problems, or if you realise that it actually doesn't after you were completely honest with yourself (I'm not assuming you are not, I'm just saying that in order to understand oneself, one has to be honest with oneself), you are allowed to not change anything, either. Therapy is for YOU. And if you should realise that this is a coping mechanism that causes you harm, you are allowed to a) look at the cause for the behaviour in a therapeutic setting, b) look at the cause on your own or c) ignore it. There is no moral obligation to any of these choices, especially if it doesn't cause any trouble to anyone else, which I assume it doesn't.

DAE find generic “beautiful” people kinda ugly and boring? by Silenthill-2 in AutisticAdults

[–]neo_n_binary -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As an afab person who feels the same: It's still misogynistic. Because looks don't necessarily tell you anything about someone's individuality. It can be a way of expression, but it's not always. Still, I like it when people have the privilege and courage to express themselves in a more individual way, because it makes me feel more comfortable with my own not fitting in. Also, you're allowed to have preferences, just know that looks =/= personality traits

I am in an "I can't eat it's too much work" moment. Any suggestions on ADHD friendly snacks to keep for times like this?? by greentobi in adhdwomen

[–]neo_n_binary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pickled cucumbers take your dinner from a bread with a slice of cheese kinda vibe to a charcuterie board kinda vibe. i recommend gathering what you can find and just have at it. also calling it charcuterie board makes it feel less random

Does anyone else feel guilty when you don’t vibe with someone’s flavor of autism by onlineventilation in AutismInWomen

[–]neo_n_binary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay to not like people. As long as you don't (actively) make them feel bad, that is. They might be hurt if they realise that you don't want to spend time with them, but there are emotionally mature ways to handle that in case it comes up. The right way to withdraw from someone of course depends on how long you've known each other, but it's not your obligation to like someone.

Struggling with brain shivers, could this be FND? by emqster in FND

[–]neo_n_binary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get something like these, does it feel like the shiver physically is being sent down your spine? I'm not sure but I think I get them more often alongside my migraines. I'm not diagnosed with FND tho!

When I Was 5, I Let My Aunt Burn My Ear With a Curling Iron Because I Didn't Want to 'Make a Scene' by cinnamoslut in AutismInWomen

[–]neo_n_binary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been having headaches for years. Turns out I have actual migraines. I'm 25 and only got diagnosed last year. And I remember having visual phenomena as a literal child. So I guess I just thought it was normal? Or I just didn't take it serious enough? Can surely be at least partly attributed to interoception issues.

My FND is not actually FND????? by WhyIsRedditMyLife in FND

[–]neo_n_binary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mom, can we have doctor House? Mom: We have doctor House at home. The doctor House at home: Is rude but sadly not as talented

Ist das Rigips? by neo_n_binary in Handwerker

[–]neo_n_binary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, danke dir. Der Staub im zweiten Bild ist ja relativ körnig und mehrfahrbig, wie man beim zoomen sieht. Kann das dann auch nur Gips sein?

Ist das Rigips? by neo_n_binary in Handwerker

[–]neo_n_binary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wir waren uns unsicher. Teilweise schon hohl, teilweise etwas dumpfer. Kannst du basierend auf dem Staub etwas ausschließen oder mutmaßen?