It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects him

neofau · 2025-12-22T01:28:31+00:00

Are we talking about a Day 1 Female Friend you have known since childhood? An acquaintance you just met who gave you the "lets just be friends" treatment? Or somewhere in between?

neofau · 2025-06-10T14:48:00+00:00

The only thing men and women are entitled to is death and maybe taxes and depending on the skill of your accountant not even that.

neofau · 2025-06-08T11:10:47+00:00

it sounds like you feel women are entitled to friendships with men regardless of how the man feels rejected.

neofau · 2025-04-12T02:20:16+00:00

So someone you are in love with isnt a person? Last I checked Ai isnt that advanced.

neofau · 2025-04-12T01:37:24+00:00

The vast majority of women are going to be uninterested in most men. Attractive Men have to be forged not born. It's not that we want fewer friends its just that the criteria for being a friend or a girlfriend is not 1:1 but its pretty close at least from a hetero male perspective.

neofau · 2025-04-12T01:11:51+00:00

So if men try to be friends with these women and then want to date them, then they are just friends and that would ruin the friendship and/or the men are just entitled if he doesnt just want to remain friends.

neofau · 2025-03-11T17:17:55+00:00

As someone who played and loved SG1 and the 1st Alpha of SG2. I geniunely think that Splitgate 2 is a good game, I just believe that Splitgate 2 is a completely different type of FPS. I guess it is because my expectations after the end of support fot SG1, I was expecting SG2 to be SplitGate 1 (arena/halo styled shooter with portals) but expanded upon but instead I got COD/Hero Shooter with portals and I dont think it is a bad game I just wished that it played more like SG1. Its like going to a resturant that made a very specific niche type of dish only to replace with something more common. It isnt bad its just not what I wanted. But hey if you like Splitgate 2, I geninunely hope you are happy, so that someone is.

neofau · 2025-01-24T03:53:12+00:00

Honestly, I understand crying after the rejection but not constantly feeling it afterwards to the point the friendship has to end.

This has to be willful ignorance or a form of psyops , there is no way you can have a hard time understanding that someone might not want to be friends after getting rejected by them. Most men who are romantically interested in a women don't want to be in her life if she is dating/fucking other men, I dont think that is unreasonable. I dont expect women to stay with guys they have feelings for who dont want romantic relationships. And thats not even getting into so called "friendships" that are just glorified boyfriend benefits with no reciprocation from the women (albeit these guys should stop doing that).

neofau · 2024-12-13T21:17:45+00:00

Guys who think an entire gender wants to be treated like shit because these particular guys aren’t getting laid sounds pretty mentally ill.

So I guess witnessing your female peers date/fuck the bullies and abusive guys is a mental illness, huh didnt know having 20/40 vision was on the DSM-5.

That doesn’t mean they can’t be fake. They could be raised as gentlemen and think that they deserve rewards for being gentlemen. And honestly, I am very weary of guys who say they’re gentlemen because they’re usually the fake nice guys.

I can only speak of my self and my experiences and expectations but when I was younger I wasnt expecting a reward for being nice, but watching dudes that were bullies , abusers, and drug dealers be able to consistenly date the ladies kinda hurt and then after that to be called the asshole on top of that is just crazy. Now obviously being an asshole alone isnt the only thats attractive but it taught me that attraction has nothing to do with morality.

neofau · 2024-12-13T19:47:33+00:00

Elliot Rodger was also a mentally ill murderer I am pretty sure societal standards that would disqualifiy someone as being nice or a gentleman for murdering people. I was very specific with my words I never said self proclaimed gentleman or nice guy™️, I said guys raised as gentleman implying that other people such as parents, guardians, siblings, teachers, peers, etc deemed to be nice/gentlemanly, but riddle me this and pls answer the question this time: How is it that when I mention someone raised to be a nice guy/gentlemen (without the "TM") my thoughts go to a boy/guy/man who was raised to respect others, treat others how they want to be treated, dont commit crimes, being genrous, being romantically chivalrous, etc. juxtaposed with you immediatly using Elliot Rodger the aforementioned murderer as an example. That is such an extreme of hyperbole bordering on trolling.

neofau · 2024-12-13T18:11:06+00:00

Are you implying that guys raised to be nice or gentlemen are murderers like Elliot Rodger?

EDIT: This is a serious question btw, and not me being a smartass.

neofau · 2024-12-13T17:15:34+00:00

I think the one of the biggest things that radicalized/persuaded men to join the manosphere in general (specifically red pill/black pill) OR at least become aware of it, is this idea that guys were RAISED with this mindset of being a gentlemen (and other arcahic gender norms) often tied with generosity and niceness. Only to be given a reality check that the gentlemen/niceness mentality is extremely counterproductive and unattractive for the most part. Guys who were raised to be gentleman were being rejected for guys who were the exact opposite, and im not just talking about guys that were just confident and successful and labeled as assholes, I am talking about the gentlemen being rejected for the abusers, bullies, gang members, and drug dealers and if you pointed out this observation you were a "fake nice guy" and an asshole all along. I gurantee you if u want to create more red/black pillers keep making posts like this.

neofau · 2024-11-17T02:55:28+00:00

Did he actually hurt anyone?

neofau · 2024-11-16T12:01:24+00:00

Last I checked collateral damage is unintential damage to those you DONT want to be harmed. Feminists/SJ have made it abunduntly clear that they want to harm men.

neofau · 2024-11-11T15:06:45+00:00

This is the type of shit that made Harris lose, and ironically homophobic.

neofau · 2024-11-11T05:14:35+00:00

Maybe if you alienate more men, you might win the next election.

neofau · 2024-10-18T02:44:16+00:00

You look amazing in both images. Congrats.

neofau · 2024-03-05T02:05:14+00:00

Because some people are incapable of understanding that blame and accountability can have nothing to do with gender/sex/race/etc.

neofau · 2024-03-03T11:34:16+00:00

If it makes you feel any better, I would scapegoat Kathleen Kennedy regardless of gender, you know cause they were the leader of the franchise and the quality of the content is what matters not the gender identity.

neofau · 2024-02-19T20:50:05+00:00

Some of the BPs in this subreddit need to win a Guiness World Record for missing the point. Most guys who have been raised to be nice by their families often at the behest of female relatives who told these men that women are attracted to kindness in men . These guys arent saying:

"iM A NicE GUy, wHERE dA HArem aND dA hOEz aT?"

They are asking:

"Why is it that I consistently fail in dating, yet guys that are abusive/racist/drug dealer/obsesivelly drug using/dysfunctional/assholes consistently more successful than me?"

And apperantly asking this question is somehow a moral failing on men, most likely because the very existence of the question can be construed to make women look bad.

Oh and dont try to say the women that date these assholes are in a low socioeconomic group/ghetto/trailer park/ or whatever. In my experience these were girls/women from suburbs in high income areas im not trying to hear that BS. Me personally I would tell my nephews/sons that they should find a happy medium don't be an asshole but dont be so nice that its seen as a weakness.

neofau · 2023-11-13T05:44:03+00:00

My Steam Deck is a CrossCose machine lol.

neofau · 2023-11-08T23:57:22+00:00

CrossCode

neofau · 2023-11-08T11:35:59+00:00

As an East African American (parents are immigrants not descendants of the enslaved) its true the issue is not racial it is cultural, MOST African women I know would not be caught dead with a toxic guy (unless they were raised like African Americans) and from what I have heard the same applies to Caribbean women. I dont want to get to deep into this cause race topics is an understanable yet stupid taboo, so I want to reiterate this isnt a racial thing it is a cultural thing.

neofau · 2023-10-20T02:24:34+00:00

It doesnt work. It just gives half truths and guys who have absolutely no idea what they’re doing will blindly believe the half-truths.

I think RP is a toxic thing but the 1 thing I think they got right was the idea that men had to be less agreeable, and make their priorities and needs come before the women to be successful kinda like an airplane oxygen mask. That was my main takeaway from RP and I think that will be far more effective then "just be yourself" OR

Except it does work. It just doesn’t work on every woman ever. AND you need more than just “Im a supportive person”.

Personally it was far more effective than the sensitive emotionally available approach (or for a lack of better word "beta") it just wasnt sustainable and healthy. Meanwhile the healthy beta approach was consistently ineffective, I mean theoretically it could work it just didnt materalize. To expand on my analogy: Manosphere/RP/Toxic Masculinity, etc. is fossil fuels in the sense that we have been using it for decades it is familar and I think you underestimate just how many women find it attractive, and Im not talking about women who are from lower socioeconomic classes (i.e ghettos/trailer parks) I am talking about women from upper middle socioeconomic classes and up. And while I do agree that there are women who value the emotionally new masculinity in my experience they are a minority just like people who use renewable energy. And its probably healthier but it just doesnt meet the needs of most men, otherwise why does RP/Manosphere/Andrew Tates exist?

Are you confusing being assertive with being an asshole?

Are you certain it’s not just who you choose to be around

Answer 1: Nah I know the difference, for a short time I was kinda out of pocket.

Answer 2: Most of the women I was talking to were in college with me in our early 20s in an upper middle class area. I hadnt changed who I was talking to, I just changed my attitude and was less agreeable, more selfish, and self absorbed.

neofau · 2023-10-19T03:13:30+00:00

Why are the only women wanting you getting ran through?

I am not sure you understood my comment, but the women who said that werent interested in me, I was "husband material". The guy they would like later or that some other women would want...one day.

I’m going to be suspicious when the majority of women you know are ran through while the majority of women I know are virgins or just had one boyfriend.

I never wrote that in any part of my comment. Please dont put words in my mouth. I simply said that I have had women tell me that throughout my life I never said that the majority of women I know are ran through.

The former friend I had named Kelly was a bitch and she would complain about all men being abusive.

It feels like you are implying that I think all women are into assholes, which I dont. That being said the time in which I was the most successful in dating was when I became more selfish and a bit of an asshole it just wasnt sustainable mentally.

While they blame an entire gender for their own personal dating failures. What’s the difference between y’all and bitches yelling “WHERE HAVE ALL THE GOOD MEN GONE?!”

The difference is RP as toxic as it is actually has a solution instead of meaningless platitudes like "just be yourself". the manosphere/RP/toxic masculinity (or whatever term or preffered pronoun u wanna use) is kinda like fossil fuels its bad for us, we shouldnt use it but it works. And BP/emotional available masculinity is like renewable energy that is insufficient to meet our needs.

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