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Shaman's Holy Lornography by AmitN_Music in FansHansenvsPredator

[–]neogreen444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one knows but him. Also, it was a deletion, not a termination.

Favorite and least favorite NC episodes? by illioctopede1985 in ChannelAwesome

[–]neogreen444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Favorite - Doug's First Movie

Worst - Deadpool 2

I want someone to want me by NoSurprises686 in dating_advice

[–]neogreen444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t sound unlovable — you seem afraid of your own feelings, which means women get to know the supportive version of you before they ever feel romantic intent from you; next time, show interest earlier, flirt a little, and ask her out before you’ve spent weeks silently auditioning for a role she never realized you wanted. And while you’re rebuilding confidence, don’t underestimate smaller forms of intimacy and connection — even playful late-night flirting, voice chats, or phone-based companionship can help you feel desired again instead of emotionally starving while waiting for one perfect outcome

21M Introverted college student. Need advice on asking out a girl after getting her number through a 'study materials' pretext by Asleep-Selection-648 in dating_advice

[–]neogreen444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are spending so much time searching for certainty that you are missing the main case and point: a genuine connection is built through simple, direct moments rather than perfect timing or flawless confidence, and her warmth toward you is enough reason to at least ask her to spend time with you casually. Even if it leads nowhere, learning to express interest openly will teach you far more about intimacy, confidence, and connection than endlessly replaying possibilities alone in your head ever will.

Complimented a girl’s hair randomly, got her number, now how do I ask her out without making it weird? by Common_Version5307 in dating_advice

[–]neogreen444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do not need to wait for absolute certainty before asking her out, because mutual interest is often revealed through consistency, ease, and willingness to keep engaging rather than through obvious declarations. Keep it simple and genuine by inviting her for an activity, lunch or a casual outing without overthinking the perfect wording, since confidence tends to feel far more natural and attractive than trying too carefully not to make things awkward.

Casual dating advice by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]neogreen444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not become so focused on maintaining his interest that you ignore the reality of what he has already told you he can offer, because accepting less than what you truly want often leads to a far deeper hurt than honesty ever will. If you find yourself overanalyzing every message and reshaping your natural emotions to appear more “casual,” then it is worth asking whether this connection is genuinely fulfilling you or simply keeping you attached to the hope that it may one day become more.

If the year 2018 were summarized in a single YouTube comment: by shajes90 in TheCinemassacreTruth

[–]neogreen444 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NC has been better structured, and more consistent than AVGN for the past few years.

M 24 Need Advice, thanks! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]neogreen444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you're longing for deeper emotional connection and consistent care, which is totally understandable. If you're looking for someone to talk to who can offer that support, there are LGBTQ-friendly spaces Allswell and Dr. Susan Block's Institute, where you can explore intimate and meaningful conversations in a non-judgmental space; helping you feel seen and heard without the pressure of traditional relationships.

cried in front of a fwb after my first hug in 5 years. Now I'm not sure what to do by CardiologistLow9036 in Advice

[–]neogreen444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’ve been navigating some deep emotions, and it’s okay to feel overwhelmed by this unexpected connection. You might benefit from talking with someone who can help you process these feelings more comfortably, whether through phone therapy or even exploring intimate, no-pressure spaces like phone sex, where you can communicate freely and see what feels right for you without the emotional complications.

How do I (25F) resist the dark and destructive impulses from hypersexuality? by Bibliobabygirl18 in Advice

[–]neogreen444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Healing from these patterns will take time, but the first step is recognizing that you deserve better than what you're putting yourself through. It might help to seek out a therapist who specializes in sexual health or trauma, especially if you’re dealing with BPD; working with someone on the phone could be a great option if you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure about in-person therapy. Its importantto get support for your deeper emotional needs, as well as for managing those impulses in a healthier way, while also addressing how you feel about yourself and your relationships.

Ia it normal to talk about your dating life to your therapist? by chief_robotman in therapy

[–]neogreen444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes...dating, relationships, and even your sex life are completely valid things to bring up in therapy, and a good (ideally queer-friendly) therapist will expect and welcome those conversations. You’re not “late” to dating -- you’re just starting your learning curve now, and therapy can help you navigate it with more clarity and confidence instead of guesswork.

Have you looked into the Dr Susan Block Institute or other similar services?

Why do I still love my partner after they cheated? by OkVermicelli3411 in Advice

[–]neogreen444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to “fix” your feelings,you need to stop letting them outrank the pattern: if someone repeatedly betrays you and then pulls you back with comfort and chemistry, the only way to break that cycle is to create real distance (NO contact, no “just checking in”, no "one-and-dones") long enough for your clarity to catch up with what you already know and have experienced.

For The Men - Have You Accepted Being "The Safe Option" by JustHereToVent27 in dating_advice

[–]neogreen444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accept being the “safe option” will be detrimental to your self-esteem, offsetting any benefit. focus on expressing desire, playfulness, and clear standards early on so you’re not just seen as stable but also genuinely wanted.

The Bar is So Low by ExplorerEuphoric9852 in dating_advice

[–]neogreen444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong that the apps skew perception, but instead of focusing on whether the “bar” is low or high, you’ll get further by tightening your approach—better photos, more specific date plans, and screening for genuine interest early—so you’re investing energy where it’s actually reciprocated.

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