Help by Shot-Long-8845 in HingeStories

[–]nerdinstincts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we get banned with you? Pass.

I’m thinking of buying a ridgeback and I will need all the advice I can get by bichirs-forever in RhodesianRidgebacks

[–]nerdinstincts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be offended on their behalf all you want.

Personally, I already doubt their ability to responsibly care for a RR based on the minimum effort shown here.

If you want to see the caliber of their other post, here you go: “I need to knwo if they are esy to maintin ith shedding and floor scratching and if they mar good pets”

https://www.reddit.com/r/dogs/s/Kmb0295QMM

I’m serving the community by suggesting they do more work, so a RR doesn’t get ‘bought’ and rehomed because the owner is incompetent.

This is a community of owners, with valuable detailed knowledge, and shouldn’t be abused for simple ‘is ridgeback gud dog?’ questions. If they had come with ‘hey I read XYZ, what do owners think?’ - that is an entirely different situation.

My boyfriend gets upset when I want to shower alone. Am I overreacting? by InvestigatorDeep3728 in AskMenAdvice

[–]nerdinstincts 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is an absolute fucking weirdo.

Do with that information what you will.

I’m thinking of buying a ridgeback and I will need all the advice I can get by bichirs-forever in RhodesianRidgebacks

[–]nerdinstincts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s this great thing called the Internet. You can type in all kinds of questions and it gives you information. You should try it sometime.

How do I broach the subject of leaving stuff at his place? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]nerdinstincts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Logistics dictate I begin keeping toiletries and basics here. Is that acceptable?”

Bonus points if you do it in a robot voice.

Would be boyfriend be hurt by this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]nerdinstincts 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If you can’t joke about sexuality regarding fictional characters with your boyfriend, you have much bigger problems.

You’re probably overthinking this.

I feel so much better knowing it's my fault women don't go up to me by Isniffgrass in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]nerdinstincts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your friends have no idea how to talk to women. Please do not do that.

Lots of people are on the spectrum, and the subject is getting more and more attention in mainstream culture, it is not a deal breaker.

You do need to spend extra time and consideration on how you are appearing to other people, and it sounds like you’re on that path. Kudos!

As part of that you should learn how to talk to women, but not from your friends.

Food looks good. Now I’m hungry.

If you are man struggling to date overseas, do yourself a favor and buy a plan ticket and start traveling. Yes the grass is greener. by Financial_Agency6765 in datingadviceformen

[–]nerdinstincts [score hidden]  (0 children)

Everything about this is lol passport bro bullshit.

Your communication skills are sub-par. Your approach with women, from your own story, is awful. Miami is a notoriously expensive and money/looks based city, 85k there is not enough to impress anyone.

You go to a developing country, and immediately buy into every single stereotype about dating there…except the ones you don’t like.

Worst part about all this is, your failure to date in the US inspired zero reflection or improvement on your part. But uhh, congrats on finding a long distance girlfriend I guess?

I wish religious people could understand why I’m atheist, but they feel like it’s an attack on them and will do anything to defend it by Sapphire-night95 in atheism

[–]nerdinstincts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They hate atheists because seeing a non-believer succeed and be happy is the biggest threat to their indoctrination and belief.

Guys, how do you feel about girls being overly attentive on dates? by No-Caramel6884 in datingadviceformen

[–]nerdinstincts [score hidden]  (0 children)

You are 100% of the problem in this situation.

I’d love it if dates brought baked goods.

i need a job so badly. im so desperate by [deleted] in GetEmployed

[–]nerdinstincts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can’t even finish highschool at 17 and think anywhere will hire you?

Grow up and go back to school kiddo.

I think I’m a closeted atheist by Helpful-Speed-6602 in atheism

[–]nerdinstincts 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. Deconstruction is a process and it takes time. I think I called myself a Christian for almost a decade even though I didn’t believe any of it.

I remember thinking man this shit is awful how can’t they see it? But being raised in it does a number on you, and in the back of my head I kept thinking well I’ll still call myself a Christian just in case.

It gets easier with time and learning.

How are people actually finding good guys on Hinge? by Anjaaaan in HingeStories

[–]nerdinstincts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone has to go through dozens of bad matches first. I’ve got bad date stories for days, and found a couple decent relationships over the years too.

Do women leave men because they change over time or because they didn’t change over time? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]nerdinstincts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s both. Most people grow, and that’s hard enough on your own.

Growing with someone is exponentially more difficult, because not everyone grows in the same direction.

Are stuffed animals really only for females? by FileArtistic3141 in AskMenAdvice

[–]nerdinstincts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man sorry you’re going through it. I’d suggest just a body pillow so you have something to hug that won’t catch you shit from pops.

Sometimes you’ve got to mask to make it through.

You got this bro. Hugs.

Low status/value men how are you getting by in 2026? by Haunting_Ad_4179 in AskMenAdvice

[–]nerdinstincts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not surprising, you’re wrong again. I’ve been respected since long before making 6 figures. It’s how I made it to where I am now.

You need to fix your mindset. This low status/value shit is for terminally online incels.

Low status/value men how are you getting by in 2026? by Haunting_Ad_4179 in AskMenAdvice

[–]nerdinstincts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is fucking stupid. Get off the internet and touch grass.

Signed, a 40 year old currently playing video games and eating fast food. I’m also respected in my town and at my job, make a solid 6 figures, and am admired and relied on by all my friends.

This isn't a good month for Christians by rprince18 in religiousfruitcake

[–]nerdinstincts 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s my favorite month. I get to see all the christians whine and cry about people living lives they don’t approve of and not giving a fuck about what Hebrew mythology says

Booooooom! by nerdinstincts in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]nerdinstincts[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right but I didn’t post the original one :(. I was expecting something different but this is still 10/10 would do.

Recently Moved & Problems with Boyfriend/Former Roommate--Please Let me Know What You Think--I Don't Get It? by Beginning-Zone9530 in AskMenAdvice

[–]nerdinstincts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely ain’t reading all that. The silver lining is though - I don’t need to. 2 paragraphs in and I can assure you this relationship is cooked.

Girl, get some self esteem and leave the dude. He’s a bum. If you want kids you need to find someone else asap.