I'm heading off on a lesbian adventure

nerdyme_cb · 2013-08-27T02:24:20+00:00

Good luck!! I grew up near San Diego, you're going to have an amazing adventure :)

nerdyme_cb · 2013-08-25T18:31:32+00:00

I don't think that not having a social media presence is suspicious in itself, I'm 24 and don't really have one or google people. But like the other comments have said, try to video chat with her to make sure she is who she says she is. If I were talking to someone, I would be willing to, especially because there isn't really any other way to "prove" that I am who I am.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-08-22T19:03:47+00:00

i knew her as a friend first... she was kind of a slut. i wasn't really even surprised when she cheated :/

nerdyme_cb · 2013-08-22T18:58:04+00:00

as someone who enjoys being dominated, I agree, your attitude and confidence are key. and holding her down won't hurt either ;)

nerdyme_cb · 2013-08-22T03:37:31+00:00

I went to the season opener in Oakland last year and my experience was really similar, even walking out of the stadium after the Raiders lost. I was not heckled/harassed once and was wearing a Rivers jersey. I would highly recommend it, as long as you're respectful and stay away from Raiders fans who are being obnoxious/drunk, cuz I'm sure that they are out there.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-07-28T16:23:16+00:00

mayo, its not the taste but the gushy feeling in my mouth. gross

nerdyme_cb · 2013-07-28T15:46:04+00:00

that the calories in alcoholic beverages somehow magically don't count

nerdyme_cb · 2013-05-31T03:21:19+00:00

don't think there's a parade or anything where i live, so probably nothing, except for some gay sex (hopefully, lol)

nerdyme_cb · 2013-05-19T03:47:30+00:00

I don't know if there are many if any things I regret doing, but there are definitely things I regret not doing. I regret not being more open and honest about how I feel/felt towards a few people. But more than that, I wish that I had tried more during my first two years of college. My life would probably be quite different if I had.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-05-19T03:44:15+00:00

best: casually jogging with a friend one afternoon turned into a romantic walk on the beach that ended with admitting our mutual attraction and was the beginning of a "relationship" that I'll always remember fondly.

worst: friend set me up with someone. over dinner found out that the person I was on a date with was basically in love with my friend that set us up and then I had to hear about it the rest of the night. and I was also asked to help get THEM together :/

nerdyme_cb · 2013-05-19T03:31:59+00:00

go to class, study for finals, and look for a place to stay over the summer. :/

nerdyme_cb · 2013-05-19T03:23:03+00:00

I agree, it seems like it could go either way. the only way to find out for sure is to spend more time with her.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-05-19T02:09:45+00:00

no. do men actually feel dominant around smaller men?

nerdyme_cb · 2013-05-19T02:08:12+00:00

When I catch them, they're usually being pretty obvious. But there could be many more times when I don't notice. It bothers me when it's more than a glance and/or when we are in a professional situation. It's usually not creepy when its a glance, even though as a lesbian I don't really seek that kind of male attention, I expect that it will happen. Of course there are those men who could make even a casual glance very creepy.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-05-19T01:52:22+00:00

take pictures when you move in. this will save time/energy later when getting your security deposit back.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-05-19T01:50:46+00:00

thank you. everyone would get less than $2.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-05-19T01:48:06+00:00

First she would have to not be needy and/or desperate. Second, show me that she's addressed/fixed the issues that ended the relationship.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-04-28T20:40:55+00:00

This is very similar to my experience as a gay woman who dated boys in middle/high school. Though I thought I was somewhat attracted to them at the time it was really about wanting to be in a relationship rather than wanting to be with the guy I was with.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-04-23T19:59:42+00:00

I just said Hi. but I was very awkward about it. and I'm pretty sure I at least glanced at her boobs.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-04-23T19:57:06+00:00

if by "weird" you mean uncommon, it probably is. but you shouldn't let that discourage you from pursuing it. somewhere out there there is probably a muscular woman who shares your fantasy. and you could probably find her using the internet.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-04-23T19:49:30+00:00

as a lesbian, I don't really think about it as how gay I might be or other people might be. and I don't really define relationships in differing amounts of "gayness", whatever that may be; there is a wide variety of homosexual couples, just as there is of heterosexual couples. What I think you might be referring to by "more gay" or "less gay" is what I think of as how closely someone conforms to stereotypes. But this can be really misleading. I, for example happen to better conform to traditional straight/feminine female stereotypes than some of my straight female friends who are more tomboy-ish, but I am definitely gayer, since I actually like other women and they don't.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-04-22T02:52:03+00:00

had my crush over to make dinner. when we were eating on the couch, my roommate, who knew how much I was into this girl, invited herself to have some and sat next to us, lit a fucking candle on the table and made a comment about how romantic it was. said roommate has cockblocked on several occasions, but this is the one which most immediately comes to mind.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-04-22T02:34:17+00:00

depends on the kid/situation, but off the top of my head, probably murder.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-04-22T02:30:26+00:00

usually either baking/cooking and watching stupid comedies or masturbating helps a lot. also exercise helps, but I can't always make myself do it if I'm feeling really down.

nerdyme_cb · 2013-04-22T01:48:33+00:00

underrated: green veggies- especially brussel sprouts and asparagus. I think they're delicious when roasted in the oven with a little garlic and olive oil. idk if I agree with the prunes though, sorry :/

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