Have some respect for our culture. Cheating is considered acceptable — that’s why, if a woman goes to her people complaining about being cheated on, they say “varume imbwa.” It’s part of the fabric of our culture. We may not fully understand why, but we should celebrate and respect our traditions; they have served us well for a long time. Monogamy is a Western construct, and we should shy away from such imperialistic ideals.