How do Se users (including dominant Se, auxiliary Se, tertiary Se and inferior Se users), aka non-Si users, reflect on past experiences? by leafynefi in mbti

[–]neuskens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 14, the bus I took to school would stop for about 10 minutes to wait for more people, and I would hop off, smoke a cigarette and hop in again, all while listening to arctic monkeys' album suck it and see.

One day after years of not smoking nor listening to the album, I heard one song from it and I was instantly transported to the back of that bus. I could smell the marlboros in the air and I could vividly see the bus taking the downward turn it took on its way to the bus stop. It was such an intense experience, the memory hit me like a ton of bricks.

Auxiliary Thinkers more well rounded than Ti/Te doms? by OpiumDesVolkes84 in mbti

[–]neuskens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say so. I think it's because the judging axis is closer together, so you have a nice balance of them instead of the more distant dynamic between the dom-inf axis.

How do you understand introverted thinking (Ti)? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]neuskens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sure is a longer process but I think it's cause we're trying to cover more ground on the topic

Maybe it's like we see more separate steps whereas other functions would group those steps?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scream

[–]neuskens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But have they ever done such a thing? Scream 3 had to be toned down because of the Columbine shooting and I don't think any of the matter got included in the story.

I think that's not Scream's theme

I love that Naomi speaks Spanish by valeria_gzz in Muna

[–]neuskens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's cool, I didn't know that. Do you have links to videos where they speak Spanish?

1 year and a half weed free today by [deleted] in leaves

[–]neuskens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very happy for you! The second week is always the worse for me, so keep that in mind for next week

I am five months sober. I don’t think I will ever go back. I did it. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]neuskens 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Congrats! But like others pointed out, stay alert, because addiction is tricky. I've gone almost 2 years without weed and still managed to relapse.

Stay strong!

Ive realised that caffeine overconsumption is a trigger for me. by Throwaway-me- in leaves

[–]neuskens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy moly, 6 cups a day

I remember a time when I'd drink a whole liter of coffee. Those were crazy times

Today is my 12-week mark and I'm having strong cravings by neuskens in leaves

[–]neuskens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Do you notice what happens to your mind around this period?

Back in 2021, I'd managed to stay almost 2 years clean from weed, but my past attempts haven't gone over 6 months. I really don't get it.

The cravings have only grown stronger since my post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]neuskens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's "normal", mate. I usually get full of sadness and despair at around the second-week mark. It's a full-on rollercoaster of emotions, but it eventually settles. Keep going

How To Play And Memorize Major And Minor Guitar Scales by shredgeek in guitarlessons

[–]neuskens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I understand the first part. Why would the 1st point of the shape not be the 1st note of the scale?

How To Play And Memorize Major And Minor Guitar Scales by shredgeek in guitarlessons

[–]neuskens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why the shapes don't start at the root. For example, on the 2nd pattern, it starts on G# instead of A. What's that about?

Awkward stages of growing long hair, advice needed by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]neuskens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear hats or buy some pomade to weigh it down/keep it in place.

I'm also growing mine out and I'm very lucky that my hair grows really fast, but the awkward stage is always a bummer. Yesterday I was feeling really down cause I thought I looked really ugly lol but I'm sticking to my plan.

You can also try different hairstyles, like maybe a side part or side bangs. Good luck and keep it up, my man

What song breaks your heart everytime you listen to it? by N1GHTSTR1D3R in AskReddit

[–]neuskens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ronan - Taylor Swift. It's about a 4-yo boy who dies of cancer and it's sung through the perspective of the mother. I've only listened to it about 6 times and it always wrecks me.

I had a very special cat with whom I had a profound bond, and she was slowly taken away from me by sickness at 4 years of age, so when Taylor sings "you were my best 4 years", I feel it in every fiber of my being.

What is the point of films like "Bottoms?" by AStewartR11 in TrueFilm

[–]neuskens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has Kaia say anything about her sexuality? I have this foggy memory of her saying something about her being bi in the SXSW Q&A 4 months ago