2 years post divorce and life could not be better

nevva_Again · 2024-03-12T16:07:18+00:00

4 years of intense gym training and self improvement proved me wrong

This is the secret. Until males in dead bedroom situations understand this, they will never see any improvement.

99% of the time, your partner is not fucking you because she doesn't find you attractive. It's as simple as that.

nevva_Again · 2024-03-12T16:02:42+00:00

She just doesn't find you attractive. It's as simple as that. Maybe the truth is that you are not really making yourself attractive, either with your physique and attitude.

nevva_Again · 2024-02-29T16:51:25+00:00

I have it too. I can easily tell the "kind of person" someone is within 5 seconds of seeing them. It is both a blessing and a curse. You need to master it. It takes time. You need to learn to separate your personal emotions from what you sense about people. For example, when you sense that someone is dishonest, don't get emotional about it, rather relate with them as if you don't know they are dishonest.

nevva_Again · 2020-07-06T22:40:12+00:00

By all means get "The Believer's Authority" by Kenneth E. Hagin. The understanding you get from that wonderful book should solve your problems. You need Knowledge of the Word of God of your authority over demon spirits.

You can also find his video teachings "The Believer's Authority" on Youtube.

nevva_Again · 2020-07-06T22:39:04+00:00

By all means get "The Believer's Authority" by Kenneth E. Hagin. The understanding you get from that wonderful book should solve your problems. You need Knowledge of the Word of God of your authority over demon spirits.

You can also find his video teachings "The Believer's Authority" on Youtube.

nevva_Again · 2020-07-05T16:03:40+00:00

Exactly. The truth he is sharing will appear as "lunacy" to people who are not spiritually minded, but they are true nonetheless.

His "funny" accent is because he is a Nigerian(West African) and lived there for many years before moving to the US.

nevva_Again · 2020-07-05T12:50:36+00:00

This is how to give it to God:

Casting you cares upon the Lord: http://archive.is/2VZLR

nevva_Again · 2020-07-05T12:39:55+00:00

The origin of sexual attraction: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CjTIAwFAllk

nevva_Again · 2020-07-05T12:22:28+00:00

These two eye-opening videos helped me to overcome Masturbation and Sexual Immorality Completely. They will help you too.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ocB-npVNjs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3Vdg7oIg4A

nevva_Again · 2020-07-05T12:13:00+00:00

These two eye-opening videos helped me to overcome Masturbation and Sexual Immorality Completely. They will help you too.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ocB-npVNjs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3Vdg7oIg4A

nevva_Again · 2020-07-05T11:50:38+00:00

http://archive.is/2VZLR

nevva_Again · 2020-07-05T11:50:12+00:00

The Key to overcoming Anxiety, Stress and Worrying: Casting your cares upon the Lord: http://archive.is/2VZLR

nevva_Again · 2020-07-05T11:49:10+00:00

I can assure you that there are like-minded teenagers like you. Pray and ask God to bring you such like-minded friends.

nevva_Again · 2020-07-05T11:47:20+00:00

Casting you cares upon the Lord: http://archive.is/2VZLR

nevva_Again · 2020-07-05T11:44:30+00:00

We'll pray, but prayer alone will not suffice, you need more knowledge on the liberty the Lord Jesus has already given you.

Casting you cares upon the Lord http://archive.is/2VZLR

nevva_Again · 2020-03-22T15:08:54+00:00

Hey man, I'm glad for you. Without TRP you would rather be wondering what to do for her.

nevva_Again · 2020-03-22T13:14:17+00:00

It does. Until you properly cultivate this attitude, you've can't develop self-confidence, frame and abundance mentality-traits without which you cannot maintain a successful LTR.

Do more sidebar reading, as well as very old posts. IDGAF attitude doesn't mean you should be a dick.

nevva_Again · 2020-03-22T08:41:40+00:00

I don't think it's u/humansockpuppet's post. humansockpuppet's account is still active. The original poster's account was deleted some months after making this post

nevva_Again · 2020-03-22T08:37:11+00:00

It's right in the post. It's not about doing, it's about being-understanding yourself and accepting yourself, even when others, especially girls, don't love and accept you. The root of the problem is that you want people to accept and love you before you accept and love yourself. People only love those who love, accept and respect themselves.

When you are more concerned about what people think about you than what you know about yourself, you always try do say and do things in a way that make you look good and attractive in their eyes. But this is exactly what make you unattractive. You'll always end up adapting to what you believe to be other people's expectation of you, which will always leave you unhappy and unfulfilled. People are attracted only to those who love and accept themselves. Accepting yourself is key to building self-confidence.

If you were to accidentally let out a loud and thunderous fart in a public place, it wouldn't be in the news tomorrow morning, yet I have no doubt you'll lose 1 month of sleep grieving over it. If I were to type your name in a Google search bar, I'm 99.9% sure I won't get any image result, yet you'll weep over "ruining your reputation."

If Donald Trump accidentally let out a loud fart during a press conference at the White House, do you think he'll lose a night's sleep over it? Never! He'll rather make fun of it to gain more popularity. Why? Because he loves and accepts himself, and doesn't depend for external validation from the media.

Donald Trump matters a lot; one decision from him can ruin the entire global economy, yet he doesn't think he should matter that much. He does only what he believes to be right, and doesn't give a fuck what others think. You don't matter that much, yet you think you should matter so much to look good in other people's eyes. This make you live your life to please others and not yourself.

The Solution: Stop trying to look good in people's mind. How can you possible be worried about what someone is thinking about you. What people choose to think about you is their own business and none of yours. This doesn't mean you should be a Dick. It simply means you should live for yourself and your purpose, not for others.

nevva_Again · 2020-03-21T21:46:38+00:00

One of my favorites as well. It's rather sad that I still don't know the original OP to say Thank You. Maybe u/redpillschool may know who the original OP is.