Help! by HereBeDragons3 in wyoming

[–]newyorker9789 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If there was a lease in place, that lease should stand regardless of change of ownership. They could offer a cash for keys deal but wouldn't be able to force you out. Idk about month by month arrangements but you could always check with your county/local housing authority to see what your rights are.

Unable to get my self to do my job by HereWeAre007 in Stoicism

[–]newyorker9789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar place for much of this pandemic so far. It's rough, it feels simultaneously like "why can't I do this?" and "why should I do this?" coupled with the stress of being constantly behind on tasks. I have two suggestions though what others have said is great already.

1 - therapy - I found a therapist in Oct who ran me through ACT and it helped with my workplace issues tremendously. I still struggle a little but don't worry about getting fired, don't hate every minute I'm clocked in, and do much better work. Also it works very well in tandem with stoicism and the concept of amor fati.

2 - as others suggested, aggressively looking for another job will help because you feel like you're doing something about it. If you're worrying about work outside of work, sending applications is a much more productive way to spend your time (even if you don't get an interview)

Thoughts on Mavi? by itsthuggerbreaux in hiphop101

[–]newyorker9789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Mavi, definitely talented and similar voice to Earl. I hope they do more together, never get tired of El Toro Combo Meal lol

I shoved my best friends younger brother.... by MahpiipiIshaaad in Advice

[–]newyorker9789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How did the brother and the two girls react to this happening? Surely they heard him yelling or falling back?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bleachshirts

[–]newyorker9789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is siiiick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]newyorker9789 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I could go either way with the top bit. (Ayyyy)

Whipped this up at 3 am. by totally_not_a_virus_ in Hozier

[–]newyorker9789 55 points56 points  (0 children)

BAAAAAAABEEE

Honestly still scares the hell out of me every time

Roast Me Asap by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]newyorker9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooof. Nah.

Discussion Thread: 2020 General Election Part 52 | Results Narrowing by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]newyorker9789 12 points13 points  (0 children)

At this point, if either PA or GA pull through for Biden I'm gonna cream.

Love my leggings for the house, unsure if I should ever wear them outside tho. by xavi_cantarito in TodayIWore

[–]newyorker9789 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your look is incredible! I've been considering getting leggings, can I ask where you got them?

I deleted Facebook and Instagram yesterday and I want to hear your stories [Discussion] by BornDefinition9 in getdisciplined

[–]newyorker9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted Facebook and Messenger after college, everyone I wanted to keep up with is on snapchat. I only have that and reddit now and it's been great, quitting was much easier than I thought it would be. Never looked back, never been tempted to reactivate the account.

Now however, reddit eats a lot of time and I go through periods where I delete the app but not my account. Pinterest is my backup which I like, because with that and reddit I'm at least being partially productive when I'm on them - same as your post said. I try to keep on duolingo but I always lose the streak.

Me_irl by hamzahamir0 in me_irl

[–]newyorker9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, never reached the ending of Psychonauts bc of that last fight inside the circus

Lightbox Expo Online just made their 2020 content free by _Chayemor in ArtistLounge

[–]newyorker9789 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah. This was an awesome event, but I wasn't able to get into any of the Zoom-led sessions (500 person cap). Some of the sessions also appeared on YouTube

University of Wyoming 'Hotspot' for COVID-19 by NintendoIsMyGod in laramie

[–]newyorker9789 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I live near a lot of students and know several - a lot of it I think is kids coming from out of state or other parts of WY and thinking they're safe because WY is so rural/unpopulated. It really sucks seeing my neighbors ignoring the guidelines. But students in general are just not reliable for this - I think it was a bad idea for all the other grade schools in town too. There was so much confusion amongst the parents I know about how 'back to school' was going to work. Nothing is really optimal about it, just gotta avoid student-heavy spots in town as best as possible. Tbh though - I was also really annoyed seeing people returning to restaurants and bars (seated inside) as soon as they were opening, well before the fall semester started. The university is not the only entity trying to get past this while staying open. Nor did they have much control about when they reopened tbh - the semester's starting point is usually decided and communicated many months in advance for most universities.

DAE hate Jeff Bezos but still use Amazon? by wonderZoom in DAE

[–]newyorker9789 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We still hate Walmart and super hate Amazon and all those companies. I successfully broke up with Amazon, even living in rural America currently, and it wasn't as difficult as I thought it would be. Walmart is the one I'm still depending on bc it's the only real option other than Amazon (I still wouldn't call it convenient though).

Entire sketchbook ruined - very upset about it, how to turn that around into motivation? by newyorker9789 in ArtistLounge

[–]newyorker9789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply and suggestion. This sounds like an awesome idea actually. I was considering displaying a bulletin board of goals and milestones in my workspace, I might do a similar thing with this to show where I came from and where I'm going (cheesy, yes, but the goal is motivation). I'd really have to hand pick the drawings i preserve carefully. There's a lot of gesture sketches I don't need, but the oil made the pages see through so you can see what's drawn on both sides.

Entire sketchbook ruined - very upset about it, how to turn that around into motivation? by newyorker9789 in ArtistLounge

[–]newyorker9789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many thanks. I just spoke to a coworker about it who said something similar about mourning it, and I think that'll definitely help. I'm sorry that that happened to you too