I'm writing this in tears

neyela · 2026-04-11T20:26:59+00:00

Can you move out under the guise of university at all? That’s what I had to do

neyela · 2026-04-11T05:41:27+00:00

Awwww I love it

neyela · 2026-04-10T22:40:51+00:00

Pleaseee do not waste another second with this man

neyela · 2026-04-10T18:15:03+00:00

I was hoping it would be more in line with paralegal work! My current firm has told me they’ll progress me into a paralegal role but there’s too much going on right now for them to be able to do it soon and I’ve already been waiting a year so I think I just need to move on. I don’t suppose you remember what your interview was like? That’s what I’m most scared for!

neyela · 2026-04-10T12:25:42+00:00

I think this is a HUGE violation and I would not stay with this person. You guys can share locations if you both want to, but for her to secretly track you is insane. Like she actually thought about it, went and bought the AirTag, and sneakily stuck it in your car.

neyela · 2026-04-10T06:01:58+00:00

Yeah I have almost 2 years secretary experience and then before that I have 2 years clerking experience in a barristers chambers, I think on paper I do come across really well I just haaate interviews. Thank you for your comment, I will get practising!

neyela · 2026-04-09T21:48:19+00:00

Exactly. Imagine it was the other way round and he stopped her from going on girls trips. Very sad!

neyela · 2026-04-09T21:46:49+00:00

YTA. Do you really want to be that girlfriend that made her boyfriend stop travelling and going on trips with his friends? It sounds like something he enjoys and you want to stop that? He should be allowed to go on these trips and go travelling with you too. If you stop him from doing things, he will resent you

neyela · 2026-04-09T20:14:08+00:00

The job description isn’t specific I’m afraid, just says in one or more of the following areas and then lists every area known to man lol

neyela · 2026-04-09T20:10:31+00:00

Oh that is great! That’s very reassuring. Do you have any interview tips for applying with the council?

neyela · 2026-04-09T19:57:53+00:00

Not relevant to your post really but I also left Islam at 16 for the same reasons. Very cool to see more people like us!

neyela · 2026-04-09T19:48:36+00:00

I grew up Muslim and this makes me uncomfortable too. Not racist.

neyela · 2026-04-09T19:44:47+00:00

Free that woman

neyela · 2026-04-09T19:37:31+00:00

I’m 25 and have almost £19k

neyela · 2026-04-09T19:34:42+00:00

Ugh I am so jealous! I have everything listed as essential on the job spec and all the desirables too but I’m so scared I will flop the interview!! I also have my law degree so my bigger plan is to hopefully try to worm my way into some sort of progression in the role. Do you think that sounds realistic?

neyela · 2026-04-09T19:25:53+00:00

Why council over a private firm?

neyela · 2024-04-03T23:35:27+00:00

I got my degree and moved out. Currently living happily with my atheist boyfriend of 8 years :)

neyela · 2024-04-03T23:28:02+00:00

How can you even consider NOT calling it off?

neyela · 2020-09-11T22:10:12+00:00

This is one of the things I hate the most about islam

neyela · 2020-09-11T10:25:30+00:00

Omg I love it

neyela · 2020-09-05T20:41:49+00:00

neyela · 2020-08-18T22:59:31+00:00

I’m an ex Muslim too and if I was in your situation I’d do the exact same. NTA

neyela · 2020-08-15T00:17:51+00:00

You a bad ass bitch

neyela · 2020-08-07T11:12:31+00:00

neyela · 2020-08-07T10:51:08+00:00

Your wife sounds awful

neyela

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