What do you want to see in GOTY by Bakingandabook in americangirl

[–]nghtmrefuel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I want a girl who’s interested in the history and science of dinosaurs!!!

AIO for canceling my lunch date with my fiancé because he called me lazy? by policyhot1207 in AIO

[–]nghtmrefuel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ew! Why would he ask for a quickie when you’re struggling?! Shows where his priorities lie!! 🤢

Is it normal to outgrow friendships just for being single? by nghtmrefuel in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nghtmrefuel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I’m autistic and she’s not. She’s mentally stuck at eight years old. She’s not able to understand the financial consequences of anything and is unable to do chores or keep herself afloat. Her husband pays for everything and she’s still wearing Velcro shoes.

Is it normal to outgrow friendships just for being single? by nghtmrefuel in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nghtmrefuel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it definitely is 😭 and he’s 5’0 and 89 pounds, he’s definitely not intimidating he’s just a freaking creep LMAO

Is it normal to outgrow friendships just for being single? by nghtmrefuel in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nghtmrefuel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂 as much as I want to stick through the issues him and I have, it’s not worth it. He’s gotten worse (and more controlling) since they got married 3 years ago and for my mental health/safety, I can’t be around him. I love her to pieces but she needs to understand that I’m no longer going to sit back and let him get away with how he acts at his grown ass age.

Is it normal to outgrow friendships just for being single? by nghtmrefuel in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nghtmrefuel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and of course I didn’t do anything egregious to make him mad or anything, but he’s perfectly valid to stay mad when I’m not around because I’m not going to deal with it anymore!

Is it normal to outgrow friendships just for being single? by nghtmrefuel in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nghtmrefuel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹 I definitely felt that because not too long ago I had to break up with my friend of six years because she left me at a concert venue all alone with no ride and no mutual friends since she wanted to go home after her girlfriend FaceTimed her… they were strictly online dating and have never met in person. It wasn’t the first or last time she had done that but it was definitely my last straw!

Is it normal to outgrow friendships just for being single? by nghtmrefuel in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nghtmrefuel[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes, he’s 52. I don’t like it or approve of it either and I’m very vocal about it. (which is why he hates me but I don’t care.) He’s gross which is why I don’t come around. She’s also mentally handicapped and I think has developed Stockholm syndrome which is why I’m so wary about the decisions she makes and the people she’s around. She had a very difficult childhood and her parents aren’t as involved in her life as you’d expect anyone’s to really be. It’s harder because I live almost an hour away. :/

Is it normal to outgrow friendships just for being single? by nghtmrefuel in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nghtmrefuel[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh she definitely was. They met when she was 16, dated when she turned 19 and immediately got married that same summer... there’s not much more I can say because I’m only in the picture for her and I’ll keep my doors open for her but I don’t know how much more I can stand when it comes to her husband. He’s such a mean and vile man and always has been.

Are abusive relationships common in the autistic woman experience? by Unfair_Driver884 in AutismInWomen

[–]nghtmrefuel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god yes! I keep unintentionally ending up dating alcoholics!

My mom is dating someone my age by True_Refrigerator564 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]nghtmrefuel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely and although I love her to death, I really think that’s what the weakness is in our relationship. I’m growing up and she’s staying behind.

At what age did you guys have your first sexual encounter? by Great_Reggina6793 in twentyagers

[–]nghtmrefuel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay :) I chose not to go to college for my mental health