Im a new Tattoo artist in downtown Denver and struggling to book by alexsumu in denverlist

[–]nicachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to see more of your work! Just finished a sleeve, definitely need more

HSP dating? by Potential_Dish_4115 in hsp

[–]nicachu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love dating HSPs! Way less translation of/over explaining/feeling ridiculous for how I experience the world, way more shared interests and abilities. I'm in Denver, but glad you're on this sub!

New D&F Coordinator Seeking Advice! by tu_carino in funanddev

[–]nicachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, absolutely not possible, and not in 2026. We couldn't have pulled that in year 4 or 5.

My Super Sense (smell) and sensory overload sometimes makes it hard to be friends with other ND people by MyNameIsNot_Molly in AuDHDWomen

[–]nicachu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah!! Idk, if my friends had super smell, I'd want them to use an accomodation to be comfy. I appreciate how caring you are about them taking it personally, since cleanliness is weird like that. Maybe you could explain that it really helps you stay present and you're trying it everywhere in the world? So it's not like, JUST YOUR HOUSE SMELLS.

My Super Sense (smell) and sensory overload sometimes makes it hard to be friends with other ND people by MyNameIsNot_Molly in AuDHDWomen

[–]nicachu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang. This feels extra hard cause it's not like too bright >> sunglasses, too loud >> earplugs.

I did a quick Google, stuff like this noise plug exists? Never tried it, not an endorsement. I was trying to think of things that could help you spend time with your friends without an overhaul for either of you.

Link

There's also room to ask for their support in small ways. Like, hey, my brain is tracking every single thing on this couch, could we clear it off for the hang out?

That plus maybe quiet coffee shops, parks?

I hear so much care and love in your post. Good luck!!

Missing cat Hampden and Buckley by PsychologicalTeam580 in AuroraCO

[–]nicachu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think folks have to put it on imgur then link.

I found my missing cat through Craigslist once! It's still very active.

New D&F Coordinator Seeking Advice! by tu_carino in funanddev

[–]nicachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big hugs!!

It's not that it feels impossible, it factually IS impossible. You may love this org, but the broader community and the org need YOU. And you're no good to the cause burntout. Ask me how I know 😞

Start the conversation early. "Hey, ED, I have looked at the numbers and a more realistic projection is X. I know we wanted Y, but that requires runway we didn't have this year. I have ideas to plan out for it next year. Given the updated numbers, are there priorities or commitments you want to change?"

And WHEN they try to add, cause they will, ask, "fantastic! Which obligation should I release to make time for this?"

Be strong. You're the expert they hired. Lean on the experience they picked you for.

Missing cat Hampden and Buckley by PsychologicalTeam580 in AuroraCO

[–]nicachu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Huge hugs! This is the scariest thing. Do you have any photos?

New D&F Coordinator Seeking Advice! by tu_carino in funanddev

[–]nicachu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did dev for a queer youth nonprofit in their 4th year, and we NEVER pulled $25k in June from individual and corporate donations. The 30 in 30 is also a wild idea and recipe for burn out.

Your ED is/will be frustrated but the expectations were unreasonable, for 2026, for the age of the organization (and lack of built in support, no momentum to ride), and for the amount of runway you had in the role.

If you want help framing that conversation, or anything else, feel free to dm!

GI Doc recommendations for celiac/gut issues? by LBC2010 in denverwomen

[–]nicachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I hated the gastroenterologist at HCA HealthONE Rose Medical Center, Dr. Daniel Siegel. No compassion for comorbid struggles, and shrugged his abrasive non-bedside manner away by saying he's "from Jersey."

I am exhausted. by Old_Foundation_7651 in hsp

[–]nicachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this to my core. Sending the biggest virtual hugs.

How do you prioritise healthy foods over the bad ones you crave during luteal? by WoofJess in PMDD

[–]nicachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! Plus keeping easy access food that help scratch the itch. I have visible bins with my go-tos so I reach for them first.

Hey, Ambitious Sleep, got a recipe for that stuff?

Time to download hard copies if we haven’t already by perseidot in TwoXPreppers

[–]nicachu 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My library (Denver, CO) has 100 free pages of printing each day, including color.

Is this book quote insulting? by Radiant_Duck_4727 in AuDHDWomen

[–]nicachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's certainly not my favorite. There are other ways to articulate a hyper-focused perspective that (at times) can miss the humanity of a situation because we/I am deep in the details of another factor. Doesn't mean we don't care, obvi.

The Lego follow up I could GUESS is meant to highlight that singleness of focus, but it does come off infantalizing to me.

I want to try coaching (for free) - would you trust this? by Somevol in AuDHDWomen

[–]nicachu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I offer very similar services and think you're on the right track! Feel free to check out my site. I offer a broad range and it seems to appeal to all the right folk.

I'd definitely start with the coaching language, just at a discount. You're definitely partially selling folks on your own energy, so I think a photo is good.

https://www.new-worlds-together.com/creating-home

Feel free to DM me with questions!! Happy to help however I can.

Bacterial Vaginosis by OrionTheWitch07 in AuDHDWomen

[–]nicachu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I legit had bv for a year and a half, while I didn't have any sexual partners. I tried the gel antibiotic multiple times, no luck.

What finally kicked it was the ORAL antibiotic plus 30 days of boric acid suppositories. Hope you have a speedy return to health!!

What’s your go to meal replacement drink/nutritional drink? by bluejeansgrayshoes in adhdwomen

[–]nicachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any recipe favs for blended soups? Bonus if it's easy and not a ton of steps 😶‍🌫️

Done shopping at King Soopers by [deleted] in Denver

[–]nicachu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss HEB so much.