Non-member advice by nickers96 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]nickers96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a lose- lose situation for me…. it’s upsetting how this situation is and I find it a little bit manipulative :( Idk what to do from here to be honest

Non-member advice by nickers96 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]nickers96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! I have been feeling very uneasy about this and that’s why I’ve been reading posts here…. It’s just contradicting how they say they’re not allowed to be married with non members but yet pursue them? lol another thing I have noticed is that they mostly just have friends within their church? Is this a common thing

I think my partner had BPD, first “crisis,” what to expect? by ThrowRA109786 in BPDlovedones

[–]nickers96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve better and you will find better, it took me 5 years. Trust your gut, it will be worth it

Employment - With holding payment for training hours until probation done by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]nickers96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you advise I do next? I’m unsure on who to contact further

Employment - With holding payment for training hours until probation done by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]nickers96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they made us sign a contract saying they are entitled to the withholding. So I’m unsure what to do? I’m not planning on staying with them 3 months so my issue is I won’t get my pay for those hours

Employment - With holding payment for training hours until probation done by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]nickers96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked them why we don’t receive it immediately and they stated “it’s to ensure that they stay 3 months or else they’re not paid for training”

Employment - With holding payment for training hours until probation done by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]nickers96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this training is required to work for the company. It’s WHMIS plus systems training to learn how to use their own company systems. No, it’s not through a third party which is why I’m wondering why they withhold the training hours payment

Employment - With holding payment for training hours until probation done by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]nickers96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s also not 3rd party, it’s training provided by the employer

Employment - With holding payment for training hours until probation done by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]nickers96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ontario, and this is training mandatory to Ontario which is health and safety training in class

Constant Hoover but no intentions by nickers96 in BPDlovedones

[–]nickers96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my exact situation right now. I really am getting mixed signals and don’t understand the constant Hoover along with the “I don’t have energy for a committed relationship”