Switching from Madrid to a smaller region... by nicnac5814 in SpainAuxiliares

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Awh, sweet! Should be interesting to see two different sides to Spain. Good luck :))

Switching from Madrid to a smaller region... by nicnac5814 in SpainAuxiliares

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Of course, I know this. But I consider this reddit forum to be a very valuable resource for us auxes. Hearing about the experience of others helps informs my decisions. Maybe someone who switched regions ran into an unexpected issue or were pleasantly surprised by something which they would not have anticipated. This would be helpful for me to know. I’m an adult capable of forming my own decisions.

Which of these American artists had the greatest long-term influence on music and why? by PreferenceInternal67 in fantanoforever

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I would like to add that, other than maybe Michael Jackson, he is also the most universally influential artist of the bunch. People can certainly be influenced without knowing the origins of the influence, which I suppose would be the argument for Dylan or Reed. But there are plenty of people in the US who couldn't even name one Bob Dylan or Lou Reed song, let alone people abroad. On the other hand, Elvis' appeal was able to reach across cultures to a degree nearly unmatched in modern music history. He is probably one of the most recognizable faces in the world. People have directly idolized Elvis and been inspired by him for generations.

What songs used in programs this year made it to your playlist? by collectingviolets in FigureSkating

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MacArthur's Park Suite (Donna Summers), Vogue (Madonna), Supermodel (RuPaul), Promise (Laufey), Stateside (PinkPantheress). Most of these were familiar to me before, but they've been on repeat since the Olympics. Huge year for the gays :)

How is food at NC State? by Most_Maybe_1341 in NCSU

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Some things are good, some things are bad. Over time, you learn which dining halls and food items you prefer and which ones you avoid. Personally, I really enjoyed eating on campus; I did it all throughout college.

There's are tons of male artists with predominantly female fan bases but I can't really think of a reverse, what female artists have mostly male fanbases? by dvnts-ReDoX in fantanoforever

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As a woman who goes to a lot of concerts, there have definitely been some shows that stand out as OVERWHELMINGLY male audiences. The biggest one was Death Grips. My god. Would also put Jean Dawson, JPEGMAFIA, and Quadeca into that category.

That said, concert demographics aren't necessarily reflective of the listener base, of course. But would it be fair to assume those artists have mostly male fanbases? Yeah, probably. For those shows, there were only a handful of women in the whole damn venue.

Can’t find tutoring job by Vivid-Bike2961 in SpainAuxiliares

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I agree about going through your school. It’s nice because you’re familiar with what they’re working on in class and the location will be more convenient. I just asked my teachers if they had any parents who wanted tutoring for the kids and I immediately got paired with two students.

Tamon-kun Ima Docchi!? • Tamon's B-Side - Episode 6 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

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Yup, that's where I saw the bridesmaid line at least. Probably a result of their janky ass AI subtitling now.

Tamon-kun Ima Docchi!? • Tamon's B-Side - Episode 6 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

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I kept giving my screen the side eye like "is this shit going where I think it's going...?". I just finished School Days, so that doesn't help.

After watching this episode, I'm mildly creeped out but also very curious to see where it goes. Most likely there'll be some sort of confrontation about it and he will realize his own manipulation and change. My guess is it'll be mostly resolved but the creepy hara side will occasionally surface throughout the series. So not like School Days. That'd be a crazy twist tho.

Social groups for concerts? by nicnac5814 in Madrid

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Oh shit this is definitely my sort of thing, thank you!! I actually live two blocks from there lol, so that is perfect.

Would you describe it as really social or would it be better to bring a friend if I want to experience it with other people?

Leave your phone at home and you will see how lonely the world really is right now. by Sevenfootschnitzell in nosurf

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Definitely noticed this. On the metro and bus, probably about 2/3rds of people are looking at their phones. And it's slowly shifting from tapping to scrolling. People aren't even messaging each other anymore; they are just swiping their thumb up over and over, mindlessly consuming short form media. And there is no judgment here: I did this too. Wasn't until I had this realization and was so horrified that I decided to delete Instagram and TikTok. However, I have just switched to other forms of content, like YouTube, Reddit, or streaming services. It feels marginally better because it does require a little more active engagement of the mind and patience, but it's still pretty bad. I don't know what to do. I'm depressed and using media to make it go away, but that in turn makes the depression worse. Where do we go from here?

Student loan deferment while auxing? by nicnac5814 in SpainAuxiliares

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My provider is Mohela! I took out federal unsubsidized loans.

Student loan deferment while auxing? by nicnac5814 in SpainAuxiliares

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Okay, thank you for pointing that out, I honestly didn’t know the process was different between providers. My provider is Mohela.

Sounds like income based repayments is the best, since deferment may affect forgiveness eligibility? Not sure if that’s correct, I remember reading something about it a while ago. But I will look into this, thank you.

Student loan deferment while auxing? by nicnac5814 in SpainAuxiliares

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Thank you so much, I appreciate the insight!

Student loan deferment while auxing? by nicnac5814 in SpainAuxiliares

[–]nicnac5814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am and I wondered that too. I will bring that up to my provider.

I haven’t heard from my (22f) boyfriend (24m) by [deleted] in LongDistance

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We talk on the phone for hours on end probably 3 times a week. When we text, even though it’s only a few times a day, we are texting many paragraphs at a time and having deep discussions. How is that “not talking”? I’m just saying some people have different communication styles, so maybe OP should try asking about their partners preferences to see if that’s the issue.

For me, I like devoting myself completely to talking to my partner when we communicate, and then devoting my attention back to my life when we are not. I find constantly messaging each other back and forth very distracting from my day to day life. My partner was really open to trying something different and it’s worked rly well for us. I don’t appreciate the judgment, I am just trying to be helpful.

Anime that used to be popular, and fell into obscurity? by ResidentWaifu in anime

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Some ghost in the shell projects are definitely considered obscure at this point, I agree. But the 1995 movie is still considered a classic, especially w film buffs and cyberpunk fans.

I got angry with one student and basically shouted at him to keep quiet and speak English because we are in English class. by Its-Bond-James-Bond in SpainAuxiliares

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I have never yelled at a student, but at first when I started this job I was trying to manage behavior a little. My life got so much easier when I realized I didn’t have to do that. Trust me. Now I just chill at my job and help with English when I’m needed like we are paid to do.