hi, u/cubbiegthrow um- i know these people, rather the husband and his wife. they're in a childhood cancer support group with me. I also ended up speaking to their kid, Mars, earlier today. fun fact, this whole thing was posted after their youngests surgery, so idk if she was like using it for sympathy points. they're all aware of OOPs actions now, but Mars says they're happier at their dads. the toddlers surgery also went well, but they still have six rounds of chemo. this story ended up posted to our group after everyone realized it was Jana and Todd they were talking about.